Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I dated a guy for two and a half years seriously. We have been broken up for two months. I am trying to move on but it just doesn't feel right. I keep thinking that we are suppose to be together and that somehow it will work out. We don't talk too much anymore but we have seen each other a couple times. Each time he acts like he wants to talk to me and see me but he hasn't called. Should I call him or wait for him to call me? Will it be too late it I don't do something?

2007-03-08 07:25:41 · 8 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Singles & Dating

My step daughter is 10. Her mother, L, was molested by step/adopted father when she was 12, as was her friend. This woman is now in contact with her adopted father again, has taken his last name back, and allows my step daughter to spend time with him. My husband has questioned her about this several times, and her response is, "He would never do that to her, he knows he could never see her again." Now, this grandfather and his ex-wife (the grandmother of my step daughter) want to take her to Hawaii in June. My husband said he won't allow it, but his ex said she has the final say and she thinks it's okay. Then, on the phone last night, she told her daughter to tell my hubby "your grandpa has never touched you wrong and he never will." First of all, what kind of mother would allow her child to spend time alone with the person that molested her when SHE was young, and why doesn't she see anything wrong with this? Any legal options? Mother has custody, hubby has visitation.

2007-03-08 07:25:24 · 22 answers · asked by bina64davis 6 in Marriage & Divorce

all they ever seem to say is what you doing , itsboring in here. but as soon as you try to start proper conversation they don`t wanna talk

2007-03-08 07:25:21 · 11 answers · asked by miss-teek 2 in Friends

Can someone explain to me the concept that women seem to have that "True love waits"? I do not understand that. I mean, what is true love waiting on? Does that mean that these women refuse to date anyone because the person that they would be dating can't be "the one" because they are not waiting like "true" love should? How can you find out if you are truly compatible with a person as more than just friends if you do not date them? I've heard so many women turn me down because we can't be more than "just friends".... why? Is this part of the "true love waits" idea? It seems to me that women are just waiting for "true love" to fall into their lap one morning instead of seeking it out. What better way to find true love than to date your best friend? I mean, am I the only one that watches Friends? Can someone explain this idea to me?

2007-03-08 07:25:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always been a lot of a tomboy. As a child I played football with the guys, cricket, althletics, climber trees and played cops and robbers etc. While the other girls played 'mums and dads' etc.
At 18 I'm finding that I really lack femininity. It doesn't help that I was brought up by my dad with little input from my mum. I like to dress practically as opposed to femininly. I never wear skirts (except for a wedding) and am rarely found in a dress. I only started wearing make up two years ago!
I have been called manly and even confused as a guy a few times! I really don't know what to do about it.
Any tips? Thanks for your help

2007-03-08 07:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband last yr because I discovered he was seeing someone and talking about love and such this was all done through txt msg and emails. Weeks later swore up and down it was over and that he loved me and wanted to make things work. I came back but now I am suspicous that every txt msg he makes and every time he gets on the computer hes doing something wrong but he does this in front of me and tells me oh its just so and so or look at the email I got but one time I was looking at the email I saw he still had her as a contact I told him to delete it but he was all upset why cant I trust him and stuff he just forgot to delete it and I walked away to avoid arguement. Should I trust him.

2007-03-08 07:24:49 · 14 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We don't have a huge budget to work with and we'd like to drop the kids off at Grandma's and split for a long weekend. We live in south-eastern PA and are within a few hrs. driving distance to Philly, Baltimore, DC, New York, Atlantic City (but I don't like to gamble!) Anyone from any of those areas give me some ideas for a wonderfully fun and romantic weekend that won't make us remortgage our house???

2007-03-08 07:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm ugly...and everyone hates me for this(even my own brother and my stupid cousins)
a lot of girls turned me down...now I don't feel emotionally attracted to them just physically.the only thing I like is that I'm going to become a dentist and I have lots of money I made from stocks.
now all I want is to become rich and successful and buy a big house,buy a hot wife and a nice car....etc
so I can throw it in the faces of the people who always mocked me .

2007-03-08 07:24:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 07:24:14 · 17 answers · asked by boredman443 2 in Singles & Dating

we are doing a beach theme (from the cake to the honeymoon).originally i intended to put brown ,straw beach hats in the middle of the table .filled with sand and shells and candles.but i learned yesterday ,no burning candles are allowed in the reception hall !!!!! what can we do instead and still keep the elegance of something simple and beautiful.??thank you for helping.

2007-03-08 07:23:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am very spontaneous and I have been my whole life. When it comes to BFs I tend to brake up with them so easily based on how I feel at that moment and I started off that way with this guy I have been dating for two years but he has made me realize that you cant just "run" from every problem like I was before so we are "working out" things. I still get such an urge to just leave him tho... I know that I love him SO much, the only thing is he checks out every girl, or he will email girls that he used to date. I tell him how much it bothers me, it hurts, but I'm scared that if i leave him I will feel like I'm running from my problems. Some one help me figure out when enuf is enuf!? I do love him more then anyone I have before, yet he makes me feel like crap when he checks out other girls. I'm being to jealous?

2007-03-08 07:23:18 · 2 answers · asked by K 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are going out 4 months, he says he's ready to go all the way, I am too... But I don't think he really is... Should I put aside my doubts and believe him or something else?

2007-03-08 07:23:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is always sayin how she hates this boy but yet and still she is always talking bout him. She sometimes shares my buisness i don't tell her not to but she is really agervating the crap out of me. What do i do? HELP!!!

2007-03-08 07:22:43 · 14 answers · asked by tisha091393 1 in Friends

Long storie short my sister has been married for Over 10yr the last 2 year she has had an affair with the neighbor … I just found out about this about a month ago she has my niece (11Yr old) with her husband which he is a very loving husband and dad she just had a baby and it turns out to be here lovers what do I do to help her out she needs advice … she now does not want to loose her husband and more so her daughter! What do I tell her??? I am so angry at her but I need to be there for her and my niece and new born nephew!

2007-03-08 07:22:27 · 7 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Family

"She" A person wants to leave but does not have the ability money wise as of yet. There are kids to consider and with nowhere to go or money to use. There has been a lot of mental and very little physical (2 times) abused. The kids also showing signs of the mental abuse. The leaving party has tried everything, but "He" the mate just does not see the abuse, responds with "just joking". The mate feels “He” is being the “MAN” he should be. Has anyone out there gone through this, if so what did you do? There once was a lot of love there that is now gone but not forgotten. After hours of talking to what seems a 10 year old he just does not get it.

2007-03-08 07:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by Jim D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, I'm no 'spring chicken' anymore, I've had kids and it shows, yet they always still want to see that?

2007-03-08 07:22:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know?????????? like for me anything ruks up there .....adjustments have to be made instantly.!!!!

2007-03-08 07:22:17 · 12 answers · asked by overmyknee1968 1 in Singles & Dating

She is bright and talkative; people like and enjoy to be with her, she likes to get to know men, she is the one to say hallo first. She has a not bad body though she is not a model.

I am quite sure that she ***** around. She lies to me in small things but dinies that she goes with other man.

When questioned she always answers with stones and she can be very violent. If words could kill I would be a dead man for at least 9 times these three years we are married.

She is a Kenyan and we got married like in a hurry because her visa was expireing (my huge mistake, I know) and since then we have a 'regular fight', specialy when she goes out alone and comes home with a smell of having emjoyed sex. It is a characteristic smell and this is enough evidence for me.

2007-03-08 07:21:53 · 34 answers · asked by Carlos C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really get tired of being left out of the boyfriend circle, i have friends younger than me who have boyfriends!!! am i doing something wrong?

2007-03-08 07:21:41 · 28 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

does size count? and why do u say so?

2007-03-08 07:21:39 · 2 answers · asked by axis-s 2 in Singles & Dating

okay... long story short.
I dated this guy for almost 3 years, we broke up, don't talk anymore..
my dad doesn't give me the time of day.. just because he has a new family, and i don't go to private school.
my brother went to private school,then failed out of college, and now... he is jail.
my mom is about to drive me crazy!!! she is going through another divorce and i done with dealing with it. She puts me in the middle of it, and when her husband gets mad at her. He brings me into, and she lets him..

so i am 18 years old.. with a 476 payment for a vehicle and 600 for rent in my appt. plus EVERYTHING else..

do ya'll think i can have a good future?

i have my GED and i am in college majoring in business

its so hard to keep everything together

2007-03-08 07:21:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 07:20:39 · 30 answers · asked by Lolipop 2 in Singles & Dating

I am wondering how many girls are bicurious or have some attraction to other girls? What attracts you to the other girls? I was bi curious but finally went thru with it and actually enjoyed it.

2007-03-08 07:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by sexypanty07 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend and i really like him but i think i love someone else.but that someone else is to far away.

2007-03-08 07:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by kris j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 07:19:59 · 7 answers · asked by u2rqte 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 07:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by CHEERFUL 1 in Singles & Dating

I go to skool wit this guy. I really to like this guy! He's in my grade. I knew him since middle school now were in High school. Everytime we see each we smile. We text eachother once in awhile. But I heard he likes this other girl but I dont know if its true. I told him that I liked him but all he said was "thats cool". I really want to go out wit him. PLEASE HELP ME OUT.

2007-03-08 07:18:04 · 15 answers · asked by Lil one 2 in Singles & Dating

Need help ASAP. Thanks.

2007-03-08 07:17:47 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok me and my boyfreiend live together but he pays me child support i know it is dumb but the state makes him do it. Well he was behind 1028.00 and so they took his tax return. they gave him the balance but i have not recived the 1028.00 does anybody know how long it takes for me to get that? It has already been 4 weeks. since we got a letter stating how much they took out and were it was all supposed to go. Can some one please help me out thanks

2007-03-08 07:16:40 · 10 answers · asked by hoslnm01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to spend the whole day with him. I also want it to be full of surprises. I dont have that much money bc I am in college still. He likes fishing, hunting, and football. He likes to be outside doing stuff. I hope this can help you. Anything nice will be helpful. Thank you!!!

2007-03-08 07:15:58 · 9 answers · asked by LaySeeKay 1 in Singles & Dating