I dated a guy for two and a half years seriously. We have been broken up for two months. I am trying to move on but it just doesn't feel right. I keep thinking that we are suppose to be together and that somehow it will work out. We don't talk too much anymore but we have seen each other a couple times. Each time he acts like he wants to talk to me and see me but he hasn't called. Should I call him or wait for him to call me? Will it be too late it I don't do something?
2007-03-08 07:25:41 · 8 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure you miss him for the right reasons. If you just want to get back with him because you are afraid to be alone, just know that the reasons you broke up and differences you had in the past won't change. If you really think you can work things out and there is something there to fight for then definitely do it. DOn't let your pride get in the way and be afraid that he won't feel the same. Life is short and if he doesn't want to get back together then accept that and find someone new and exciting.
2007-03-08 07:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call him what do you have to loose. Just make sure you start the conversation off as friends none of this I miss you stuff. Just stick to hi how have you been stuff. If things are meant to be worked out the cionversation will tell you. If not at least you will know once and for all. I think you need closure. if you two don't get back together remember everything happens for a reason and you must move on. Im sure your a great person & anyone would be lucky to have you if he cant see taht thats his loss not yours. I know break ups are hard but you can do. Also the best things is to put yourself out there & have fun. Learn from your experiences & be happy. Remember don't hold on to what could have been but take advantage of what can be!!! I wish the best of luck either way you have nothing to loose. :)
2007-03-08 15:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Erika G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do want u want to do....follow your heart basically let him know how u feel and just have a serious conversation with him in person and just tell him what u feel and see how he takes it but to me it seems like if he really wanted u back he would try to call u but maybe hes thinking or going through tha same thing that u r right now....
2007-03-08 16:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by T!FF@NY R3Y3$! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends on if you broke up wit him or if he broke up wit you...if there was a good reason for ya'll breaking up then it was probably for the best. The right thing to do would be to move on no matter how hard it might be. Moving on and forgeting about him will only make your next relationship that much more sweeter...
2007-03-08 15:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by pinkbabiesr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I know exactly how you feel . If you still have feelings for him then why not call him and see what happens . That way there will be regrets latter in life .
Take care
C
2007-03-08 15:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO with your heart. If he doesn't want to talk to you he'll tell you. Maybe he's thinking the same thing and that's why he hasn't called.
2007-03-08 15:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him you still have feelings for him and would like to consider giving it another try. His response will tell you where you stand.
2007-03-08 15:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by astralpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke up with you then let him call you
or you can call and say that we can be just friends
2007-03-08 15:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋