What do you do when ya best friend is getting on ya last nerves?

Question

She is always sayin how she hates this boy but yet and still she is always talking bout him. She sometimes shares my buisness i don't tell her not to but she is really agervating the crap out of me. What do i do? HELP!!!

Answer 1

You need to be honest with you friend and explain to her that the thing that you say to her are shared in confidence. She shouldn't be telling anybody else.

If you care about her and want to remain being friends then just talk to her about it. Calmly amd maturely.

Good Luck! ;-)

Answer 2

Well if she is telling your stuff and she shouldn't be then she isn't a good friend in the first place...and i know exactly what you mean about the guy...i used to have a friend like this...she was dating the guy and she constantly bragged about how he got on her nerves and how she was only dating him as a status symbol because he was popular...so that's why i stopped being friends with her...maybe you should do the same...good luck...i hope things work out.

Answer 3

Well, she is your best friend and best friends stick it out, through the good times and bad. I would just try to get some space from her so so you can cool off. Try to spend less time with her but don't be obvious or mean about it. If she keeps talking about the guy she hates, just say if you hate him so much...lets not talk about him anymore! Change the subject!!

Answer 4

time to distance yourself from her for a few days and get your nerves back. sometimes if we give it a few days away things often return to normal and all will be as it was. u need a break from her, sometimes we can just see too much of someone. also u know she really likes this boy and she is telling u something u know is a lie.

Answer 5

Misery loves company. She might like the attention she gets by talking to him and/ or the attention she gets by watching other watch her talk to him. She's only doing what she's allowed to do. If she puts your business out there and you don't respond, how is she to know it's wrong? Just tell her, she's playing you out. I'm not saying put her on blast but let her know what's good.

Answer 6

Communication is the key here. In fact communication is the key factor in any relationship ( be it friendship, romantically, etc.).

Express to her how it makes you feel. You cannot expect her to know how you are feeling or what you are thinking even if you two are bestfriends cause unless she is a mind-reader that ain't going to happen.

Trust in your friendship with her that she will understand once you have expressed yourself in a appropriate manner.

Answer 7

Nothing loser allow her to walk all over you. Some people need a friend with no backbone to walk all over. The world needs people that have no respect for themselves. We can't always be nice, after all who else is she going to kick, Her dog, I don't think so she needs to piss on you. So take it and keep your mouth shut....

Now if that doesn't get you angry enough to do something nothing will.

Answer 8

Tell her what's driving you nuts. I have some of the same issues and unfortunately that hasn't exactly worked for me, but maybe it will with you.

Answer 9

girl kick her to the curb because that i whats happening to me now. i dont really no what to do either but i say kick her to the curb or try to resolve the feelings politely by telling her you are FO REAL FO REAL

Answer 10

OH NO!! ARE YOU LITTERALY CRAPPING CUZ SHE IS SO ANOYONG!?! If that's the case, tell her that you need to keep yo draws fresh.

But seriously, just tell her how you fell but niceley.