i really get tired of being left out of the boyfriend circle, i have friends younger than me who have boyfriends!!! am i doing something wrong?
2007-03-08 07:21:41 · 28 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're doing nothing wrong. I actually admire you. Listen, don't rush into getting a boyfriend just because your friends have one or because you feel pressured to. Boyfriends are special, and you should only really want one when you are maybe older, and the person you really like likes you back. And about your friends-it's cool that they do...but you are even cooler for waiting for the right guy, and not just enjoying the 'idea' of having a boyfriend.
2007-03-08 07:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Emirii 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't doing anything wrong. You're young, you have plenty of times to be involved the "boyfriend circles". Plus at such a young age, you will most likely find yourself not having a lasting relationships. I know that's probably what you are trying for. I think you should just forget about it, and hang out with your other friends that aren't going out with anyone. Plus I doubt you really want your heart broken cause it will most likely happen to them. They will be calling you telling you what happen. And you sure smile and be thankful it wasn't you!
But to let you in something.. When you aren't looking for a boyfriend and instead enjoying life, more guys will notice you. Don't chase them. Let them chase you!
2007-03-08 15:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Miss_Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, sweetie, you're not doing a thing wrong, but to be truthful, I think that you're a little too young to have a boyfriend right now, but when I was your age, I liked this one guy a whole lot so I made him a really good friend. That way, when I got to know him better, I could tell whether or not we would be good for eachother so you should have guy friend right now and then you can have a boyfriend.
2007-03-08 15:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one boyfriend at 15...4 years later and I'm finally in another one. It'll happen one day, don't rush to get a boyfriend just because everyone else is. Besides you'll get to hear all the complaints about said boyfriends and it's either good for a laugh or will make you not want one.
2007-03-08 15:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you. You are way too young and way to smart for a guy at this time. Just be patient. Your in the "singles spot" at this time and there is nothing wrong with that. Your not doing anything wrong. You are young, smart, and outgoing. You don't need a guy at this time anyway. Im sure sooner or later the perfect guy for you will walk into your life and make you happy.
2007-03-08 15:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by *BABY NENA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I am 15 and haven't started dating yet. Don't worry, most of my friends have had boyfriends... They love dating when they have a boyfriend but as soon as they break up they hate dating. I think that 15 is kind-of young to start dating...
2007-03-08 15:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by girlshadow212 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not it's just people like guys at different ages and it's not worth having a boyfriend just so u can say u have one you gotta wait for someone special.
hang in there honey ur prince will come
i'm a month away from 14 and i'm just now falling in "love" with this guy but u gotta wait for the right person otherwise it ain't worth it.
it'll all work out just be friendly
2007-03-08 15:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky boy's at that age just cause stress and problems I'm a grown man and can say safely we are to much trouble at that age. My daughter didn't have a boyfriend until she was 16 and wished he would go away after 6 months.
2007-03-08 15:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by frosty62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be impatient you'll meet the right guy your very young. Some People don't start dating until their 17-20 and you want to hear some truth? your better off waiting until your older when your more emotionally mature and ready for a relationship with the right guy relationships are hard work.
There's alot for you to learn before getting involved in one.
2007-03-08 15:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah,,
could it be that you are Doing something
Right & nobody else is? I mean sure, your friends may
have boyfriends NOW but how long Relationships last?
Friendship may be Forever but that's friends!
Boyfriend/Girlfriend could be 3 months If Your Lucky!!<
[oh, well,good luck with that.]
*HumpBak**
@RedPlanetBlog.
2007-03-08 15:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by brewer_niels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋