can one love without trust?

Question

can you still love a person even if he cheated you? or can you still love him eventhough you dont trust him?

Answer 1

That would depend on the person. Personally, I could never love someone that I didn't trust! Only you can answer that for yourself though.

Answer 2

No Matter How Angry You Are About Him Cheating, It Is Very Hard To Fall Out Of Love With Someone That You Truly Love... I Know From Experience That Without Trust A Relationship Will Not Work... If You Truly Love Him And Want To Get Past The Affair, I Suggest The Two Of You Seek Some Sort Of Counseling Together.... If You Know That You Will Never Trust Him Again No Matter What... Then You Need To Walk Away From The Relationship... Cheaters Don't Realize What Kind Of Pain They Cause, Because They Are Only Thinking Of Themselves And Their Needs At The Time They Make That Choice... I Feel For Your Pain And I Pray That You Heal And Make The Best Choice For YOU Not For Him...

Answer 3

Yes. If you wait for the perfect man who never lies you will be alone. Men are different than women in all matters of the heart. they often tell us what they know we want to hear, making them lie to keep us happy. Men can separate sex from love. And if women, or you, could do that we would all be happier with our most personal relationships. That doesn't mean you have to live with a man who has been unfaithful. Marriage stands for fidelity. But then there must be trust and it takes time to build trust after trust has been broken.

Yes, you can love without trust, but you might not want to!! @8-)

Answer 4

Without trust and respect in a relationship there can be no relationship at least not one worth having. I strongly feel that trust and respect are two very precious gifts freely given to those you love and once that's betrayed it may never be earned back. If these two gifts are freely given and betrayed, what guarantee do you have that the person will not betray you again? What makes them worth trusting ever again? I believe that every action begins with a single thought and if the thought of what their actions may do to another, the hurt that it may bring to someone they claim to love,entered their mind then the infidelity would have never occurred! I believe that if you truly love someone, you do your best to not ever make them feel something you wouldn't ever want to feel!

Answer 5

No and no. The cheating ruins the whole trust factor. If you can't trust someone, you're probably not going to want to stay with them. I have friends who are married and he cheated on her. They've worked out their problems on the surface, but emotionally she's not any better and this was two years ago. She doesn't believe he's done cheating and he has.He's given her proof and it's still not enough~

Answer 6

i think that for a relationship to be successful there needs to be trust, but i also do believe that someone can love someone without trusting them. especially after cheating. you loved him before and thats not going to go away, you cant just stop loving someone in five minutes... its physically impossible. trust can always be gained and worked on and it should be something that every relationship has or is working on. nobody is perfect either.

Answer 7

Definitely! That's why you see so many people staying with guys (and girls) who treat them terribly, cheat on them, even abuse them. All in the name of love.

What you have to look at is whether your love for this person is a healthy kind of love or whether you love him because you've got issues of your own. You may ask yourself WHY you really love this person? Does he treat you with respect? Does he make you feel love? Do you spend most of your time happy and glad that you're with this person?

I believe that it takes two emotionally healthy adults who are capable of making themselves happy (i.e. independent from garnering happiness from another person) before they can achieve happiness in a romantic relationship. Now there is always the honeymoon period, the periods that are led by passion and sex, but as a whole, in order to have a healthy love, you must get out of the relationship as much as you receive.

Many woman fall for bad guys. The ones who put them down (even in a roundabout way), neglect them, take them for granted, and we all wonder why such a great girl is with a toad like that. Why? Maybe she never knew what a really healthy relationship was. Maybe she's sticking around because she doesn't feel worthy of anything better. Maybe she's there and in it for the sake of "being in love." Maybe she settled out of fear of not finding any better. So often people fall in love with someone because that's what they know. A woman watches her father treat her and her mother badly her whole life, and eventually that becomes normal. So you wake up one day and find yourself in love with (dating, married to, whatever) someone so like your dad that you can't believe it. It's sort of programmed into you.

Love isn't enough (romantic love) to make a person happy. It takes work and compromise and maturity. If you're giving this but your boyfriend isn't, perhaps his idea of "love" and yours differ. If you have more bad times than good, I can't see any reason why you're settling for less than healthy love.

Good luck.

Answer 8

love is like a flower which needs the light of trust but if it doesnt gets it the flower will lose its beauty if u love some do it unconditionally as it will take u closer to god and it will make that person realise what ur love towards that person is

Answer 9

my boyf cheated on me in the beging we'd ony started going out and he went on hols and met two other gals came home and i asked him everyday for 7months did he rip me off and i was told no.. then e could lie anymore and seen ho much it hurt me.. i told him to get lost but the pain of letting him go seemed worse he promised ever to do it again. im with that guy three years now and hes never done it again.. its hard getting your trust for them back i still dont think i full have.. its never forgotten you always rember it. so i think you need to amke a choice do you love him enough to give him anothr chanc.. is he geenuine will he do it again.. hope fully you make the right choice for you this one isnt easy so good luck i hope your okay

Answer 10

Of course you can still love him. You can still be with him. Will you ever be happy? Probably not...without trust you will question everything and his intentions every time you are not with him.