I got and STD when I cheated on husband after we got married 10 years ago. About 2 years ago it came back and I paid a heavy prise that is destroyed our sex life together,.My cliterous became infected and swelled to the size of a apple and my cervix got infected to,It had to be removed, and cliterous had to be drained!
Sergrey didn't take long 3 hours but I lost all feeling in vagina nerve damage I have no sex drive at all, was told this was likely by doctors. Now heres the hard part I try to fulfill husbands needs but have nothing to offer.
No kids no pleasure nothing, friend, he got prostate cancer and had to have it removed he's completely impudent for wife.
They came over and made a suggestion that i think would salve both couple problems, My husband would have sex with his wife twice a week!,she's 42, husband 28, and both her husband and I are in agreement. His wife is game, husband said no! Told me he's married me not her. Is it wrong for husband not to address his needs?
2007-03-08 06:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No joke please I'm hurting here.
She an attractive woman and so is husband, bot her husband and I gave them both permission to address there needs , in fact her husband almost pleaded to my husband to save his marriage they have two kids both away at college.
Now here some truth that i left out she said she would be willing to be a surrogate for us and give us the child, this is what I want more thane anything to be a mother. It would be his child and I would get to adopt it she said she was done with raising kids and if she got a sex life out of it it would be all the better!
I really want to be a mother and husband is standing in the way of that, it would be his kid so why wouldn't he do this?
2007-03-08 06:42:54 · update #1
WHAT THE HELL KIND OF STD DID YOU GET THAT CAUSED THAT??!!!!!
NASTY!!!!
YOU CAN ALWAYS ADOPT. THAT WILL SOLVE THE BABY ISSUE.....
AS FAR AS THE SEX DRIVE... DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU THERE.
2007-03-08 07:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is an unusual arrangement you're proposing, the kind of thing that will only work if EVERYONE involved agrees to it and is comfortable with it. If anyone says no, there goes the plan. Even if everyone says yes, check with a reliable adoption agency about the legal issues involved in adopting the child.
2007-03-08 15:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bizarre and I really don't think this is true. Regardless, no one needs the nasty details of your supposed STD.
On the off chance this is true, this is the price you pay for cheating without protection... stupid isn't it. And you only want this because it's the only way you can get a baby. It's all about you. Take it to Jerry Springer, maybe he has some advice.
2007-03-08 15:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I see your husband view and i share it. If i where in his shoes I would not want another women to share that feeling with. I would not want a child that is not ours. I would rather adopt. Oh and to find some other women to sleep with that more or less cut his man hood off. do her not her. Its a great idea not one I would fathem
2007-03-08 15:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl your crazy... You cheat on your hubby, then want you hubby to cheat on you..weird
2007-03-08 15:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋