My boyfreind is always pushing me and when I say no we just get into a argument and we end up doing it anyway how do I tell him no and mean it?
2007-03-08 06:45:37 · 32 answers · asked by K B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see two things! First, he has no respect for you if he can't take no for an answer, and second, you have no respect for yourself if you continue to LET it happen!!!
2007-03-08 06:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give in into a guy tell him if he loves you and respect your body then he will understand when you say no and if he can't do that then you will just have to leave him alone cause you don't wanna be pushed around anymore
2007-03-08 06:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No means no and thats that. No woman should be force on something. How much can you take? How much longer will you let your BF take control of you and teat you as if anything you say don't matter. Tell him you mean no. Your not some poor hopless girl. So heres my game. No is no , if he refuse he needs to go.
2007-03-08 06:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by sf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Turn that around and ask yourself how you know when he really means something? Those criteria will appeal to his senses. Just find out what would stop him and do that. He feels his sexual prowess is overwhelming you but that also makes you in his power. That is up to you and how you want to be perceived. Anything goes. And you can handle it. Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-03-08 06:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some balls and be a little more assertive. You can say no and mean it, and not back down... people do it all the time. You need to stand up for yourself and not let people argue with you until they get their way...
2007-03-08 06:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bad news. Sounds like the beginning of an abusive relationship. My suggestion is to drop him like a hot potato. Not the answer you want to hear, but the other option is to be his doormat for as long as your relationship survives.
2007-03-08 07:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must not love you if he is pushing you to do something you don't want to do. so you really need to let him go. the next time it happens tell him how you feel and if he doesn't want to hear it than walk away and tell them that he needs to learn to respect you or if not you are goin to have to break up with him.
2007-03-08 06:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by *ShannonMae* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u always give in to him, then he knows that if he just keeps pushing, you'll say yes. Let your "No" be "No", and if he stills bothers you, get away from him so he knows that ur serious,
2007-03-08 06:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in control in the relationship. If no means no make that clear do not give in. If can't accept that then he doesn't respect you and you shouldn't be with him. Threaten him with breaking up and if he continues to do it that then dump his *** because he's not worth it.
2007-03-08 06:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say No, and if he does not listen walk away, and if this type of behavior continues get a new boyfriend
2007-03-08 06:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋