Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I'm nearing the older man status and I sometimes wonder what do us guys who have no luck do for a wife? And I dont mean just for sex,kids, etc. but the whole package? Family reunions, Valentine's days, and etc. really suck. Any stories that might shine some light?

2007-03-08 18:54:31 · 14 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating

And what did you feel / what did you do about it?

2007-03-08 18:54:24 · 15 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

Spanking, scolding or something else?

2007-03-08 18:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've met this one guy (a friend's friend) who hugged me and held me really close when he said goodbye... he has been flirting with me this week (looking at me, teasing me). He hasn''t called or anything yet, but it has only been a week.

Guys: do you hug/flirt with female friends or do you think it's more of a romantic gesture?

2007-03-08 18:51:41 · 17 answers · asked by Kerosa S 3 in Singles & Dating

I keep dreaming of my childhood sweetheart. We played together as kids and in high school, we started dating. He didnt live in my hometown but his grandmother did and that is how we met. Things didnt work out because of the distance so it ended. Last I know he was married with a kid and I have two kids but I am not married. This has been over 12 years since I last seen him. Now all of a sudden, without even thinking about him, I have been dreaming about him. This has been on and off for several months. Each time in the dream, there is nothing going on. He just appears where I am at in the dream and tells me he loves me and I wake up. Last night I dreamed I was in the bed and he came off from under the covers with a black and white tuxedo on, he was on top of me and looked me in my eyes and told me that he loved me. Right then the alarm clock was going off. Upon waking up, I caught myself telling him that I loved him too. I dont understand. Can someone interpret?

2007-03-08 18:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Three some good idea?
My wife has been pushing me to have a3 some. most of u prolly think with a guy but quite the oppisite with a girl. I really dont have an opinion either way I guess but she wants me to find the girl. how the hell do i do that? any one ever been in this situation? any advise womans oppinion. how do i get the girl? btw we are a very very young couple, 20's.

2007-03-08 18:50:52 · 30 answers · asked by Night Shift 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At my work, I am "friends" with a group of annoyingly nosy women. I REALLY don't like them, however, in the environment we work in, it's really important to get along with your co-workers. My problem is that these people are that annoyingly immature group of silly girls that everybody avoided like the plague at highschool. They just haven't grown up, and are extremely emotional, and very bitchy people. Currently, one of the women who I have a particular dislike for, thinks that we're in a fight, and that I hate her. Frankly, I couldn't care less if I ever spoke to her again, but apparently she continues to talk to everybody at work about how I hate her, and that's she's quite sad. I'm tired of being approached by people I barely know, asking me about this fight, when I really don't care to be friends woth such a silly type of person. It's driving me crazy!! How do I get rid of an annoying friend, and not have her blab to the entire workplace that I hate her?

2007-03-08 18:50:41 · 10 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Friends

I'm a very sensitive person and am eaisily offended. How do you know when to make an issue out of something, or when to just let it go? My boyfriend says I "flip out" too much. If my feelings are hurt, shouldn't I say something? How do you know when to take a stand and when to let it go?

2007-03-08 18:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for 3 years. My boyfriend and I have a 1 year old child and I need your help! Any advice at all is appreciated.

I was engaged 3 years ago when I got pregnant. He cheated on me when I was 5 months along. (For a few months-until I caught him). He didn't come clean. I had to show him the proof I had..and still he denied it. He only admitted it AFTER I moved out of our house. I fully intended on raising our child on my own!

Long story short.. I took him back because I wanted my child to have a father and I felt sorry for him..crying for me back all the time.
Today, I found online, that he's been soliciting girls to meet him (like last time--in a sexual way, of course).

I am financially dependant on him. I am afraid to leave, because I have no money to get a place of my own. (I was told I'd have a 2nd interview at a job I applied for this past week). I've been a stay-at-home mom for the past year to take care of my baby.

What are my chances of getting full custody of my child? I don't mind him getting visitation..because I feel he's a good dad. I DO worry about his family though.. In my opinion, his father is a pervert and his mother has been in and out of mental institutions. I worry about my child safety if he gets partial custody.

His family is "well-to-do/popular" in the community. I worry any judge for our city will side with my boyfriend b/c of his family.

Please help me!! I am desperate for advice at all. I just need some guidance. My parents are "old fashioned" and would tell me to "work it out".
I don't want to contract a disease because my boyfriend is running around on me.

Dumb me.. he's been pressuring me to marry him. I told him I would next month until I just found out he is doing these things again.

2007-03-08 18:48:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do attractive girls get more friends compared to ugly girls? Why are people so mean to ugly girls?

2007-03-08 18:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

past four months saying that he's fine and very busy. I didnt want to give up hope...I love him so much it hurts.

2007-03-08 18:48:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I carefully choose my men....but i could be tricked one day.

My friend have been cheated on....everybody was shocked b/c he just didnt seem like the type to cheat...they were deeply in love...well at least thats what she thought and we did too.

2007-03-08 18:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by lilbit 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 18:45:04 · 15 answers · asked by Spoiled Diva !! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this loser for 9 years! last 5 has been terriable, I Finally told him that its over! He was very cold and rude, he didn't care for me at all in noway,was never there and always talked me down especially infront of his homies,PLUSSS He did not want to except that I had 2 kids plus one of HIS own!!!!!!!!!!!! he was very jealous of them and whatever I did or said, I was wrong!! I had my faults to don't get me wrong! ANYWAYS, I got away from him, but he just isn't getting it,he thinks its a joke,he still is around like hes with me,and he calls and acts like hes mad cause I wasn't where he thinks I should of been! WHY WON"T HE LET GO,What his DEAL? How DO I KNOCK IT IN HIS HEAD THAT ITS TRUELY OVER????

2007-03-08 18:44:43 · 17 answers · asked by ~FliZo~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry to ask this, but i want to clearly understand what is dating. Do one have sex?? or only talk or only eat ot mixed of all these. Pls advise

2007-03-08 18:44:25 · 4 answers · asked by suma 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 18:42:12 · 15 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey everyone, I just came accross this wile I was very depressed and had a bit to drink tonight. I just wish someone could please tell me what the hell is wrong with me, I mean come on I'm 30 and never had 1 girl not once take any interests in me my whole life!
I used to think I was cool and good looking, I'm 5 foot 10 at 150LBS slinder and very athletic, I was a lead guitarist in a rock band in high school and very talented in music. I made great grades and went to college and now am an engineer for CSX railroad making 30 dollars an hour. I live in Kingsport Tennessee where I was born and raised and girls here are so stuck up in there selfs it's not funny. If I had a dollar for every girl that told me I'm not there type I could put Michael Jackson in the poor house. Even all my old high school buddys I still hang out with girlfriends and wives hate me, my friend Brian's girlfriend told me once look in the mirror if you wanna know why you never could get a date. Any advice????

2007-03-08 18:41:50 · 17 answers · asked by Larry L 1 in Singles & Dating

problem is i dont really know much about her, but i know her if that makes sence. anyways, i wont to ask her out but another problem is i rarely see her. ideas?

2007-03-08 18:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by cpt_iron 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 18:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Atila a 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

what amount of time would you think is acceptable to be going out for your boyfriend to get you a promise ring?

2007-03-08 18:38:52 · 13 answers · asked by 10.95 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever broken up with someone to be with someone else and realize you made a terrible mistake. Did you really lose out??

2007-03-08 18:38:07 · 21 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

not yet what it

2007-03-08 18:37:54 · 19 answers · asked by cat 1 in Singles & Dating

i know that im capable of doing things but my mind &heart doesn't compramise

2007-03-08 18:37:29 · 15 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bad habit of striking out with girls during the initial phase of the conversation. I'm average build, 5-8", not GQ as a friend put it but reasonable. I talk about school, class, what they do, try to get their favorite music, subjects, etc. but I always reach a dead end. I'm been batting a .000 for about a year. Any advice?

2007-03-08 18:37:28 · 3 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy months ago, I asked him if he has anyone in his heart , he said yes.......I didn't care about it at that time but now ..........I'm thinking a lot about him and I feel like I'm falling for him, but I couldn't say it. I' going to meet him tonight, shall I ask him what he feels about me and the other girl he has in his heart( I got the feeling that the girl isnot intersted in him)
p.s. we were together in valentines day

2007-03-08 18:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by haime 1 in Singles & Dating

oh ka last night my boyfriend and i had this really huge fight and I am regreating breaking up with him should I go back out with him. He asked me last night and I said no and then he told me that he likes another girl then I said yes then we are going to break up so you can go out with her. Then he was aking me out again what should I do. I love him so much.

2007-03-08 18:34:52 · 7 answers · asked by Sara Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Anytime a girl isn't looking at me the only thing I can do is stare at her big t i t s, and round a s s- forever. I want her soooooo bad.

2007-03-08 18:34:19 · 1 answers · asked by Maximus D 1 in Singles & Dating

It's the first, spontaneous reaction without hesitation. Is it right or wrong? A guy asked me out - I dont know him well at all except that I'm attracted to his physical being - I said yes immediately

After thinking about it, I should have thoght about it.

2007-03-08 18:34:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay me and my boyfriend are debating this...does any guy find it hot if he is fooling around with his girlfriend and she starts touching herself and gets herself off?? i think it is weird...no???

2007-03-08 18:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by 10.95 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter just turned 14. She looks much older for her age. She works out at a local gym by our home, I was very upset tonight when I picked her up, as was she. She was working out and a man who she said looked like he was probably in his late twenties or early thirties started working on the machine next to hers. She said he said to her, "You're 14, right? Eighth grade?" and he knew her school! She just looked at him and was very scared and uncomfortable! He also said to her that you look like you are about 19! She got nervous and shaken up and went and hid in the bathroom and worked out there! She also heard him talking to a guy after that saying he had just moved to our city and told the guy the street he lived on and it was our street! We live in a small town! I asked her if she's ever seen him before, she said just there several times, this was the first he's approached her! She is extremely scared now and creeped out! My husband and I are alarmed! Should we notify the police?!

2007-03-08 18:32:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships