What do guys who have no luck with girls do for a wife?

Question

I'm nearing the older man status and I sometimes wonder what do us guys who have no luck do for a wife? And I dont mean just for sex,kids, etc. but the whole package? Family reunions, Valentine's days, and etc. really suck. Any stories that might shine some light?

Answer 1

Why don't you have any luck with girls? Here's me shedding light- there's a vast difference between the number of men and women in this world. Women are more!!! So you- being a male- should have no trouble finding a woman. The question is- where have you been searching?

Another thing- you can't keep trying the same thing over and over again and expect different results. If you have no luck with women- find out WHY! Is it the way you talk? look? do you give a bad first impression? After you find it- change it! You sound like you're giving up to me and you can't do that!! You WILL find a wife! Just be confident and have faith in yourself.

And if all goes to worse- do you have any idea how many singles cruise ships and internet sites and whatnot designed specifically for helping singles find each other? So there's lots of ways and endless options for you to go about doing this! You WILL have family reunions and valentine's days and whatnot but TRY! TRY! And TRY AGAIN! Walk around and strut your stuff with confidence, talk and compliment us, and we will notice!!

Much luck :-)

Answer 2

the whole package includes your going to the florist to buy her flowers, at least once a month, taking her out once a week, being the real gentleman who opens doors, pulls out the chair, and would never, ever, use foul language with her. you call her, not the other way around. to get the one you want, call her 4 times a day.

if you will have no part of valentine's day and family reunions (even if you just sit there like a bump on a log), then you do not want the whole package.

do you wish to stay alone until you are dead?

make up your mind.

Answer 3

I don't know. What do women do when they've had no luck finding a husband? All I hear is that my standards were too high and I was looking for "MrPerfect" or some such crap. That's all BS so don't believe it. Age is a big factor too. It's harder to find someone as you get older. I didn't even consider getting married till I was older, and by then people were wondering why I hadn't & what was 'wrong' with me. Most men were either already married or divorced cuz some of them drank too much, beat their wives, etc.
I don't know what to tell you but be careful of some of those divorced women too, cuz I know some of them have far more 'issues' than us still-single ones!

Answer 4

Its very pity but there must some minus points about you or your family. Either your background is not good, or your job is not good, or your financial status is not good. Dont take it to heart my friend but now a days the time is like this, girls only marry to those who has status, financially secure etc.. or if some girl is willing to marry you then she might be not good looking or must be from slum which you dont like to marry and thus guy like you stay lone and dont find companion for life. Still I will wish you best of luck, maybe your growing age give you some advantage.

Answer 5

You haven't asked me yet! I am also nearing older and wonder if I'll ever find another mate, not interested in dating anymore, just want someone to appear to enjoy the simple things in life as you said. Good luck to you, you sound like a good catch!

Answer 6

The Internet is a wonderful place, search for a mail order dude. There are some cheap ones in Russia and Asia.

Answer 7

Your never to old and you should never give up hope, you just need to get out more find out were there are activities in your community that you may participate in, there is someone out there in your own shoes just for you, many women asking the same questions. Don't worry she is out there go and find her.

How about Ginger she sounds great, give it a try.

Answer 8

i think of it boils right down to verbal replace ... or an absence thereof. You pronounced you're wonderful with him going to a strip club, yet that a lap dance isn't ok. i will understand that. My question to you is, have you ever communicated this incredibly on your husband? actual interior the back of your ideas you knew there replaced right into a threat of him hitting a strip club along with his pals. adult adult males be attentive to that for the main area, no longer something ever truly happens at strip golf equipment or with the females at strip golf equipment. this is merely organic delusion. i think of what you grateful for is you have a husband who respects you adequate to be common and inform you that they went. I propose, he could have mentioned "hi adult adult males do no longer tell my spouse we are doing this 'reason i'm unlikely to tell her." the desirable factor you're able to do is tell your husband why you're mad incredibly, that it had much less to do with him actual being there and greater to do with the lap dance. talk it out and allow it pass. carrying a grudge over something like that's no longer properly well worth the ache.

Answer 9

Two options. 1) Mail order bride. 2) Kidnapping and held hostage.

Answer 10

This is not a matter of luck but faith. Just believe you'll get one day