I carefully choose my men....but i could be tricked one day.
My friend have been cheated on....everybody was shocked b/c he just didnt seem like the type to cheat...they were deeply in love...well at least thats what she thought and we did too.
2007-03-08 18:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by lilbit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what excatly is the question you want answered? that you could be cheated on? yeah its a possibility. anything is possible. I could win powerball. its possible since i buy a ticket everyweek.
2007-03-08 18:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing about love is finding peace with the idea that your lover is beyond your control. Betrayal could be right around the corner, but you can't let that possibility lord over you. If you worry constantly about him cheating on you, you do yourself (and him) as much damage as if he HAD cheated.
How can a guy know you won't cheat? Simple: he can't, but he makes himself trust you regardless. That trust is a huge responsibility, and to be any sort of decent person, you have to honor that burden. Try to believe that he feels that same sense of responsibility to you. If he doesn't seem to, then maybe someone else will.
2007-03-08 18:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax dude! Its not necessary that if one man has cheated on someone then the whole male world has become a cheat!
Its all a part of life...Just choose your man carefully . Don't be in a hurry to make conclusions.
2007-03-08 18:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by cool_zone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its usually something we least expect to happen when it happens but at the same time subconsciously you know its going to happen. I think its another part of life that maybe should happen because you become a stronger person or technically in my opinion you should. I think sooner or later everyone does get cheated on or just betrayed because at a certain age we all think were invisible and no one could hurt us but as soon as that happens that's when "it" happens. We all must come down from our "make-believe" pedestal that we put ourselves on just to remind us that it could happen to the best of us.
2007-03-08 18:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by citygirl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here. i thought we r so inlove and never thought he would cheat on me. we've been together for 8 yrs. i guess if it will happen, it will. some relationship will go thru roller coaster and yet still end up together. so if its meant to be, it will happen regardless of what u have been thru...
2007-03-08 18:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself and believe in relationships, they are built, nourished and nurtured with love, care and compassion. By giving our best to our relationships I believe we are doing our job with satisfaction. Fruits of labor are very sweet.
2007-03-08 18:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know for sure that you haven't been cheated on,,,Maybe you just haven't caught the cheater yet,,,
2007-03-08 19:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have and don't know it. And just because he cheated on her doesn't mean he didn't love her.
2007-03-08 18:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋