Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I met a guy at work i thought was cute until I learned he had a fiance. Recently he has been very flirtatious, and has taken me out a few times. He has initiated the kissing, and the holding hands, calls me baby, tells me he loves me, even gets me presents But, he is getting married to his fiance in 4 months. Is it a last minute fling, or a way out? How can i get him to choose who he wants? And admit if he is ready for marriage.

2007-03-08 19:19:41 · 8 answers · asked by blushing blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is getting married next month. She wants me to sing in church when she walks towards the altar. What song should I sing? Help!

2007-03-08 19:19:36 · 7 answers · asked by one hot momma 2 in Weddings

2007-03-08 19:19:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do women get married to solve financial issues it that their motive?

2007-03-08 19:19:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. So i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 and we've been going out for a month already. I really like her a lot and she is really fun to hang out with and be around and quite attractive, yet something is missing. We just make out and i get to feel her up when i'd like, but she doesnt seem to want to do anything more then that. I haven't tried to advance anything more or talk about it yet. Oh ya, and she is a virgin, and so am i. I dont want to force her to do things she doesnt want to do.

Is it normal to be going out with a girl and moving so slowly?

How should i go about trying to see if she wants to do stuff? Ask her? whats the best way to go about it?

thanks!

2007-03-08 19:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 19:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 19:15:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls what do you do to stop the burning?

2007-03-08 19:14:48 · 4 answers · asked by Ted Bundy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 19:13:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this girl for a couple of weeks and we are pretty close but the thing is that she has a boyfriend but they are on an off/on Relationship and when things don't go well between them i have to pick up the pieces and for the past 5 weeks she expressed her love to me! (But She has a boyfriend)

2007-03-08 19:13:26 · 9 answers · asked by Shy Kaapie 2 in Singles & Dating

I got involved with a man who has a fiancee. They were going to marry, and she was pregnant. Then I gave him gonorrhoea. I told him not to tell anyone, and we self-treated it. I got some pills from my friend-doctor, under the counter.
Then she found it out. She got tested and came back negative, yet she is not threatening to sue me, and she is making scandal, and is altogether nasty. She says she wants to sue me because she was pregnant then and it could have damaged the foetus.
Can I sue her back for harassment?

2007-03-08 19:12:25 · 29 answers · asked by epilot 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 19:11:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known my best friend 4 almost 9 years now, and broke up with my ex of 3 years last year. My ex who at the beginning of our relationship made me choose between him an my best friend, coz my best friend has always liked me. I chose my ex, i was so infactuated with him at that time (which i now regret). My ex best friend is now back in my life and tells me nothing has changed he still has those feelings 4 me. Im single, and im confused. Hes hansome, got a gr8 body, good job and treats girls right. He now has alot of other girlfriends and im a very jelous person. I dont know whether to give him that chance that hes always asked for or just keep it as m8s. I dont want to ruin our friendship again over something stupid, and it feels kinda strange to me. Our parents are also best friends. So much more to tell, but on what i just told you, what do you think i should do? Should i just keep it friends and not give him that chance? Im not sure on how im feeling...

2007-03-08 19:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by louise 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 7 years on and off, mostly on..we do not live together because of different values with raising my kids, my son leaves home in 6 years and we were planning to get a house together. This actually has been the best year with him, I feel, then the past. I know that in the past he has cheated (actually had sex) with other women while we were still together, He denied of course and then he fessd up. I thought I had worked through the heart break, and he, of course promised never again. Well...today I went to his house while he was at work, which is ok with him because he gave me a key. well, with a little snooping, because he has been acting a little indifferent...I found 3 condoms hidden. We stopped using them 6 years ago, and I know that when he had cheated before he used condoms, because that is how I found out a time before. Hey I am a neat, professional, cute gal and just wanted to really believe this would really never happen again. Hey guys.what should I do?

2007-03-08 19:10:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married in Sept. I'm her maid of honor and today I realized I'm supposed to throw her a bridal shower. I've never thrown any kind of party for anyone...but this is supposed to be special cause it's my sisters big day. I was wondering what I should do...I'm broke and I don't know really what I should do for her but I would like to throw her a nice party. Does anyone know what I can do for her that is nice but on a budget and also when I should throw her one? What should we do at this party? (and please don't say strippers...be mature about it please)

2007-03-08 19:09:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-08 19:07:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can you tell if a girl has a nice a$$ and whats so good about it? do certain a$$es feel better while having $ex?

2007-03-08 19:06:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met guy for 3 times already. i think he likes me. he invited me for coffee and movies sometimes.
last time, i called him to invite him a coffee, he let me know he just arrived from business trip and got many things to do thus he couldnt join the date. he proposed next weekend and he would confirm it later.
what should i do:
if he wont contact me again, i would move on. OR ..... ???
besides, during the week, he didnt call me or send text messages for asking me "how are u". why is that? Is he serious?

2007-03-08 19:06:39 · 17 answers · asked by pussycat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who believes in trade in friendship....he says u give me ur maths book and i will give u my cd......is this good? ...is he trying to use me?.........i dont like this......what should i do?

2007-03-08 19:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by pope45918 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im with this guy at the moment, but think i am falling once again for my best friend. He and I have history but things didn't work out back then. I think I will always have feelings for him, I feel so comfortable with him and everything always seems so right. He likes another girl and talks to me about her. What do I do? Please help =) lol the guy I am with at the moment is really nice but i just dont think it's right. Is that a good enough reason to breakup?

2007-03-08 19:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every time i tell my girl that i love her she always replies "i know". she has never said once that she loves me but i'm not sure if i should ask her about that, because that might make me look insecure and she has told me that's why she has dumped her boyfriends of the past be they were too insecure. she's funny and really cool to hang out with but we've been dating for about 10 months now and she's never said i love you. should i be concerned?

2007-03-08 19:04:58 · 17 answers · asked by vikmega 1 in Singles & Dating

is it the man or the woman, is it sexual problem or financial problem..what is it that escaltes the divorce rate?

2007-03-08 19:04:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please tell me your age and where you live also... And be descriptive. EX. Im nice yet I insult her once in a while and then tell her im kidding. Then I tell then no when I am asked for something. I act like I just want to use her, but something more may come out of it after. Those are only example, not neccisarily what I do....

2007-03-08 19:04:46 · 3 answers · asked by mrcarl92807 3 in Singles & Dating

about getting a wife?

2007-03-08 19:03:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think my girlfriend, might be cheating on me with this other guy. My friends always tell me how my girlfriend and this guy are always together and stuff, but when i comfont her and ask her what is going on, she says that she does not like the guy and that i have nothing to worry about. Being my girlfriend i trust her, but i know my friends wont lie to me about something this important. what should i do next?

2007-03-08 19:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by fglz_22 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I'm gonna crawl into work tomorrow morning and say it happened there so I'm covered. Should I chance it by waiting 10 hours? I've already lost 3 pints of blood but I can still see out of one eye.

2007-03-08 18:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by Ted Bundy 1 in Singles & Dating

TO send gujarti good wishes gor bride groom I am serching words

2007-03-08 18:56:55 · 3 answers · asked by kaushik t 1 in Weddings

i want to know what maybe their compultions,or do they at all enjoy it...

2007-03-08 18:55:51 · 8 answers · asked by i am 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and i ran into my parents room a like 6 this smorning and my parents were.... and they were aboe the covers and everything

and i was like OMG!!! EWWW

and they didnt see me but i think that was the grosses thing i have ever seen

has anything like this ever happened to you?

2007-03-08 18:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you ever broken up with someone to be with someone else and realize you made a terrible mistake. Did you really lose out?

2007-03-08 18:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Singles & Dating