i have a friend who believes in trade in friendship....he says u give me ur maths book and i will give u my cd......is this good? ...is he trying to use me?.........i dont like this......what should i do?
2007-03-08 19:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by pope45918 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just give him your math books, why do you need his cd?
2007-03-08 19:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In friendship there's no taking always giving. Once in a blue moon is ok if we ask for something in return but don't make it a habit. If your fren is frequently doin it, tell him off but in a nice way. Say something indirectly but which will convey the msg.
2007-03-09 05:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in friendship there is no system as to give & take & if he is behaving like that then u must break ur friendship but first try to solve this problem by talking to me as friendship is a very important relation.
2007-03-10 00:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Freinds forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself in your friendship. You do not have to imitate your friend.
Do not have expectations of change in him if you do not like give and take in friendship. Expecting him to be like you - isn't that give and take?
There are no rules in friendship. Only friends. If you like someones company and are happy in their company it is all that you should care about. Do not judge their minor habits.
2007-03-10 15:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by smartobees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not good... does he always expect paybacks??? ..if not there is nothing wrong in sometimes expecting u to return his favour. But not everytime...get it? if he does tat every time...he is being a clever biotch...just beware of him and dont get too close with him!! He is not using u....but just being a cunning opportunist!!
2007-03-09 03:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giving helping is always good palacy
2007-03-09 04:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋