i met guy for 3 times already. i think he likes me. he invited me for coffee and movies sometimes.
last time, i called him to invite him a coffee, he let me know he just arrived from business trip and got many things to do thus he couldnt join the date. he proposed next weekend and he would confirm it later.
what should i do:
if he wont contact me again, i would move on. OR ..... ???
besides, during the week, he didnt call me or send text messages for asking me "how are u". why is that? Is he serious?
2007-03-08 19:06:39 · 17 answers · asked by pussycat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh dear dear.... forget about him for a while now.... sounds like he is not that into you.... just DONT call him...until he calls you back....wait for a week n if he still doesnt call...leave him alone...there are lots of other guys who can like you! and be more responsive....
2007-03-08 19:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a really busy guy , if he is going on business trips he will be bogged down in his work , there a few good things in the relationship from this , ie he is probably well off , but the downside will be , that he will be a very busy boy , and you will be fighting to get some time with him , he is most likely not doing any of this to annoy you , just that his work was there before , and cannot go away , it may not be that he wants this kind of relationship , or is even ready for this relationship yet , but it does seem he has made the effort to make time a few times for you.. you need to weigh up the pro's and the con's with this guy .
i would even go as far to say , he is that flat out , that the text msg's would be hard to set time to do , because there are that many other things to do with work going through his mind. see how the relationship goes , if it fizzles out , then let it , i would suggest that you dont have sex with him though , as this will make the situation even more complicated .good luck!
2007-03-08 19:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earth to PusseeY,......if you are not even sure if he really likes you (in a romantic way),....then why fret? You are making something out of nothing and worrying over territory that hasn't even been stakeed out and claimed by the both of you.
Just sit back and be patient. You seem like you are 10 miles ahead of him. You both should move at the same speed and the same direction. Pull off the side of the road and wait up for him. If he doesn't catch up soon,...........drive on!!
2007-03-08 20:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is not at all serious...
And if you feel that he is not doing it because of business then you wont find any happiness even after accepting his love or marrying him... he will have the primary interest in business and you will be just secondary....
So think before you leap in to this new relationship!!!!!
If you want a good person who loves you more than any thing else then please wait don't hurry up!!!
I think he thought love also to be a business that's why he proposed you by just meeting you twice or thrice...
Dont take love to be a business!!!!
Love is amazing... experience it dont miss it!!!
2007-03-08 19:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion on this is, find out if he is really single or is just playing the field. When and if he asks you out again. Make yourself seem that your too busy for him and maybe he'll think twice about you just sitting at home awaiting his call or text messages. Ask him something off guard. Say so, your busy with business. Ask him about his work; seem like your interested. Most guys like that or if he gets frustrated he might be trying to lie to you about whats really going on. He sounds like to me; he might be seeing you and someone else also. Good luck though!
2007-03-08 19:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really so busy that he cant spare 30 seconds to send a text or 1 minute to make a phone call.
Would be interesting to see if he contacts you about the weekend. When he said this, did he say he would be there or if.....................he would be there.
2007-03-08 19:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by HopeURLuvinLife2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's a business man thus his business comes first. You should take comfort that should you folks end up with marriage you're well taken care of financially. Give him time and don't rush. Meanwhile, go mix with your other friends and don't keep waiting on him. He may not call at all!
2007-03-08 19:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jsut becos he invited you for coffee and movies and you think he likes you ?_? How much do you know about him? Stop pondering about him. Go out there and have coffee and movies with your other friends....
2007-03-08 20:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by aUDREy TTT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Message is unambiguous. Act on it w/o speculating. Cross the river when u reach there.
2007-03-08 19:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋