I think my girlfriend, might be cheating on me with this other guy. My friends always tell me how my girlfriend and this guy are always together and stuff, but when i comfont her and ask her what is going on, she says that she does not like the guy and that i have nothing to worry about. Being my girlfriend i trust her, but i know my friends wont lie to me about something this important. what should i do next?
2007-03-08 19:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by fglz_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confornt them both at the same time... ask if there is anything going on beause of this or that you might of heard... once everything is out in the open you may learn somthing about your relationship.....
2007-03-08 19:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Weirdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk some more with HER. remember what they say about loose tongues. it sounds as though your friends are jealous that you have a girlfriend if they do not. i am a woman. women lead with their hearts. that is why we get hurt. my father would say that, and i fought him back in women's lib days, but he was right. that is why men love women: for the clear, honest heart that they have, which gives them the capacity to love you.
the only thing there is for you is clear communication. it will take a lot of time and a lot of effort. you have to set it up like this.
when you state something, have her say to you, "i heard you say ... to me, is that right?" then tell her if she missed something. same goes for you.
both of you must ask the other question upon question until you are certain you know what the other means. so often, we believe that we "know" what they mean, but if you ask, you so often find that they meant something entirely different.
ask her to tell you how much she loves you, and why. watch her eyes. i am sure the love will shine through.
if not, ask her if she wants a different man. or if she is attracted to someone else. or if some man made passes at her, or if she is playing a game to see how jealous you get about this other fella.
communicate. if it is not meant to be, it will not last. but give it a good ole college try.
2007-03-09 03:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by nothoughtpolice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yoru friends see them together in public, then they're just hanging. Is that against the law? If they're together in private, maybe you should worry. Try not to be possessive or you'll chase her away. You know in your heart if she is trustworthy or a player. Your friends might be jealous of the time you spend with her and want to break you up.
2007-03-09 03:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are there any other signs of her cheating? Just because they are always together doesn't mean anything. He could be gay. If there are no other signs then she's not cheating, but if she flirts alot, being sneaky, lieing and other stuff then she's cheating.
2007-03-09 03:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Bra - how long have your friends been your friends and what benefit would they have to lie to you?
If these friends have always had your back in the past - then wise up and listen to them!
Bros before ho's!
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!!
2007-03-09 03:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think it there is a good chance you are right, due to it is going to be more that just people saying they are around someone else alot. It is going to be the amout of care you recieve from them as well as the feeling you are recieveing.
2007-03-09 03:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Quiet One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends could be haters and you may not want to trust them! the only way to know for sure is to catch her in the act!!
2007-03-09 03:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by some girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude-friends will lie for all kinds of reasons...go with whats in your heart and stop trippin'
2007-03-09 03:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Investigate it yourself. If she is cheating...just leave her. Don't invest your time with this kind of woman.
2007-03-09 03:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by sophist_wind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋