Normal for a relationship? Not as sexually intimate as would like...?

Question

Hey. So i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 and we've been going out for a month already. I really like her a lot and she is really fun to hang out with and be around and quite attractive, yet something is missing. We just make out and i get to feel her up when i'd like, but she doesnt seem to want to do anything more then that. I haven't tried to advance anything more or talk about it yet. Oh ya, and she is a virgin, and so am i. I dont want to force her to do things she doesnt want to do.

Is it normal to be going out with a girl and moving so slowly?

How should i go about trying to see if she wants to do stuff? Ask her? whats the best way to go about it?

thanks!

i dont want to go all the way with sex yet... All i want is 3rd base, and ill be fine lol

Answer 1

She's only 15 and probably isn't ready to go further yet. Just respect her and don't try to push her. She'll let you know when she's ready to go further and what she's comfortable with doing. Alot of teenage girls do things because they think it will please their boyfriends. Many times they regret it and she may end up resenting you.

Answer 2

Its is normal to move slowly in a realtionship.
Dude you cant force her if shes not ready 2 go 2 the next step. Shes just not ready at the moment and your gonna have 2 respect that.

Answer 3

man relax slow your role eventually if shes ready she'll let you know. if i told you not to rush you'll probably loose your mind cause it seems that you really want her to be your first. well let me tell you this you and her are kind of young but if you decide to do something protect yourself and her. use a condom dont risk it. ok try messing around with her when i was your age i would feel all over her and see how far a girl would let me go. try unzipping her bra if she lets you continue. u can joke around and ask her if she lets you finger her and make it interesting tell her she can pick the finger it worked for me all the time.

Answer 4

Do you have a good paying job that can support a family? If ya'll go all the way be prepared for children, it can happen and often does. Both of you would have your youth cut short just because you want to try sex at a to young age. She may realize this or just be saving herself for marriage. don't be to hasty to do something you may regret later.

Answer 5

Not all 15 year olds are ready for sex.... most of them aren't, even if they do have sex. When you're teenagers (or even older), especially virgins, it's totally normal and ideal to move slowly. Yo don't want to have your first experience be with someone you barely know.

Answer 6

If your too young to have a baby then your too young to have sex. I think you should just stick to third base and forget about home for a couple more years. Plus she is way too young. It's great that your still virgins. Don't rush it. Let it be special. It is normal for kids your ages to take it as slow as you are.

Answer 7

Why dont you date someone your own age? Do you feel that girls your age are out of your league? While it may seem tempting to run a line of crap on a younger girl, and hope she will eat it up, it sounds to me like you have found one 15 year old who was parented very well.

Answer 8

Hell you. One month and you're on second base. That's pretty good for a 15 yr old. At least in my time. Take it easy, you'll have plenty of time.

Answer 9

Honey that's not exactly slow. Especially for someone her age. Considering how young she is all she probably knows about is kissing and sex, if you want "other things" let it happen naturally.

Answer 10

What's the rush? Be a gentleman and follow her lead. Make sure you use protection when the time comes.