Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

I have asked what the deal is... He has gained some weight and says it bothers him. He is eating better and we started walking. But I want it NOW and I feel like I am going crazy. Yes, I have toys and such but the real thing is way better! Any suggestions?

2007-03-05 05:56:44 · 6 answers · asked by megokane 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So far its going pretty well, but I'm worried that my married mistress will start forming an attachment to me. What do you think?


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2007-03-05 05:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he's cheated by bringing someone to the house while i was at work before and disrespects me and does not return my patiences and understanding

2007-03-05 05:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by amberlf2 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a committed relationship, but have recently found a very good friend from my past. We were only friends in the past, but since I've been chatting it up with him (and other friends we've both recently found) I feel like I can't stop thinking about him, and what might have been.
I love my man, and wouldn't cheat, but the feelings are extremely uncomfortable. I need to know if other people have also felt this way, and how they got over it. I have decided to stop chatting with him until I have this under control.
I'm looking for experience as well as advice. Thanks to all for your answers!

2007-03-05 05:55:53 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki 6 in Friends

i no loger love my husband and he just move his 2 son in with us and i'm 8 month pregnanc i wont him to leave but he wont i have ask if to befor the boys came. with all the baby mom proble and his uncareing ways i just wont to be free what can i do

2007-03-05 05:55:00 · 5 answers · asked by nanna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just teasing or scared?
My best friend and I were drinking at her mom's house, we got pretty drunk. I left with my boyfriend, then I sent her a text saying that I had wanted to kiss her, to see how she would react. She got into it, and we started sending each other dirty text until past midnight. She even said that she not only wanted to kiss me but she also Wanted me, and has for awile but didn't know how I would act. Now, I am a bisexual by nature and have a full-time boyfriend, and she knows this. We decided to kiss the next day, but before I went over to her house the next day, she texted me, apologized for her texts and asked if we were cool. That hurt bad. Do you think she was just trying to use the ol' I was drinking excuse or what???? I think the beer just let her say what she was really feeling or maybe I'm just hoping? I dunno, can someone help. BTW, my boyfriend is ok with me being bi.

2007-03-05 05:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Grace Lines, Inc. T 1 in Singles & Dating

what kind of meal would you prepare?

2007-03-05 05:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf keeps talking ab how he can't wait to marry me. He just recently asked me my ring size. How soon do you think it will be until he proposes? I overheard his friend say really soon, but I'm not sure since he just asked my size.

2007-03-05 05:54:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I almost found myself in that position one time, my G/F of 1yr was 3months late and convinced she was pregnant. The only thing on her mind was to abort.. How would u feel in that position..?? Just curious....

2007-03-05 05:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by Point 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 05:53:38 · 18 answers · asked by William E A 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been arguing alot lately. Because my son has separation anxiety issues and wants to always sleep in the bed with me. I try to fight it but nothing works. So my husband ends up sleeping by hisself because he doesn't like for our son to sleep in the bed with us. Anyway, so tonight I have already made arrangements for a babysitter. I was wanting some advice on how to knock his socks off even though his grandparents are in the house with us?

2007-03-05 05:53:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but we say hi and stuff in the corrido but how am i suppose to get closer to him without making him think im a total stalking wierdo ? i want him to speak to me a bit more .. i sit near him in science ? help ? im 13 ... thank you !

2007-03-05 05:53:32 · 4 answers · asked by alainamorgan@hotmail.com m 3 in Singles & Dating

O.K. My ex-girlfriend finished with me about a week ago. She said that she needed 2 weeks, so that 'i could get over her'. I have no plans to talk to her after that time, but am not sure yet, but feel pretty angry at the way she dumped me by text. Still see her around though (2/3 times a day). Is it always better to a)avoid her b)say hi to her and nothing more c) totally ignore her? My friend also has a meal for his birthday soon,she was invited because of me, how do I solve that one? (Only 5 people going!)

2007-03-05 05:53:24 · 4 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't seem to be able to trust my boyfriend no matter how hard I try. I am always reading more into whatever he does or says and I keep thinking he is going to end up hurting me. I don't like being this way and seriously want to change. Any suggestions?

2007-03-05 05:52:17 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Cheeks 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and his wife just moved back into town. They are currently unemployeed and broke. I have done what I could to help them and had them over for dinner and drinks over the weekend. The wife who I do now know very well went into my bedroom and took 50 dollars from my stash. I have known him for 16 years and he is a good man. I cant say the same for his wife. How do I tell him?

2007-03-05 05:51:41 · 5 answers · asked by orderless1 1 in Friends

I'm wondering, what would be the best way for my fiancee to address my parents? His mother is deceased (about 5 years ago) and his father is remarried (4 years ago). He is VERY sensitive about anyone calling them his "parents" - it's his dad and his step-mom. He also is very sensitive to anyone calling his step-mother his mother, so I doubt he will be very receptive to just calling my parents Mom and Dad Smith. However, my parents aren't really comfortable with him calling them John and Jane or Mr. and Mrs. Smith. I know I should ask him what he's comfortable calling my parents, but I have a feeling he will ask me for advice. Ideas?

2007-03-05 05:51:18 · 26 answers · asked by GroovyGirl623 3 in Weddings

I want him to quit his game ..
I want him to stop being mean.
I want him to say Baby You Amaze me.
I want him to tell me how good or bad i look .
I just want him to feel the impact that he has had on me and i want to have a big impact on him. I love Him.. But is There a way to get him to stop and pay a litle more attention..?

2007-03-05 05:50:36 · 16 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me, or are they requiring more money nowadays aren't they?... From lunch money, to bus money, to movies.. what is everybody giving for allowance every week??
What's reasonable??

2007-03-05 05:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he said he was single he lived with me for a little bit then i found out he went back to his wife what is the perfect revenge and how do i get other women to wise up to him

2007-03-05 05:50:03 · 34 answers · asked by jenjen the one and only 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hair,skin colour,etc...

2007-03-05 05:49:48 · 25 answers · asked by feliz 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband lived in another state with our 14 year old daughter. He moved due to job reasons. I left my job and went back to take care of our 14 year old daughter.

His mother lives a few miles away and was helping to take care of her.

I tried to convince my child to come back and live with me. She did not agree. I could not take her out of the state without a court order.

So, I came back to the state where I live.

I saw that I was not able to make much difference in my child's life. My ex-mother-in-law was interfering too much in how I did things in the house and with her. My ex-husband was putting pressure on me to help him sell things from the house and the house itself. I gave him the house in the divorce.

Now my ex-husband sent my mother an e-mail saying the she did not raise my right and the I am a failure and mental case. He forgets that he is abusive, controlling and money-minded. I feel bad because I could not adjust to the situation.

2007-03-05 05:49:44 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 05:49:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm having a c-section and i don't wont to loss my tem-job so i did not tell my boss when he ask me what should i do now

2007-03-05 05:48:58 · 8 answers · asked by nanna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 05:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Web detectives...i found out what town my father is living in and i need to locate him...please help me!?
k...heres the deal...my father took off when i was a baby..we always knew he was in florida, and now that my mom is all over the news "magically" he comes out of the woodwork to talk to the papers(article below)... then he can't even admit that he's my father...i have struggled with abandanment and everything else due to him, and thought that i had done well in therapy, but now i am completely unraveling...due to the fact that my mom is all over the news, i absolutly cannot contact the newspaper, not that i even think those vultures would help me...i know that theres public records and all that, that i can look into, but i dont even know where to begin...please help me, i feel like i'm crumbling to pieces with whats going on with my mom, and now that my dad is back on my mind, i need to find him. thanks in advance.
'S&M' MARRIAGE FROM HELL
'DOMINATRIX'S' EX ADMITS HE WAS ABUSIVE DRUNK
By JENNIFER FERMINO and LORENA MONGELLI
BUSINESS IN A BIND: Sandra Chemero (above) ran an S&M brothel in this Bedford mansion, cops say. Her ex says she wasn't into kinky stuff during their marriage.
March 5, 2007 -- Years before she allegedly began using whips and chains on eager clients of her S&M business, kinky Westchester mansion mistress Sandra Chemero endured the real thing in five stormy years of wedlock, her ex-husband admitted yesterday.

Christopher Chemero, 52, owned up to being "somewhat abusive" during their marriage, which lasted from 1979 to 1984.

He was nonetheless shocked to learn of his ex's arrest on a prostitution charge and her efforts to earn a living off S&M sex games, which, he insisted, played no role in their marriage.

"I wasn't into that . . I'm really surprised to hear that about Sandy," Christopher Chemero told The Post at his home in Daytona Beach, Fla.

The marriage was the first for both. Sandra was 18 and Christopher was 24.

Christopher, who is now single, said he was an alcohol abuser when he wed, although she "wasn't much of a drinker."

He said he gave up drinking long ago.

He said he hasn't heard from his ex in more than 20 years and, "I really don't know what's going on in her life."

"It was a vicious breakup," Christopher said.

Although divorce records say the couple had two children, "I'm not sure one of them is mine," he said.

"I could never say for sure if she cheated on me."

Christopher Chemero said he lives off disability payments, and is waiting for heart bypass surgery.

"The men in my family don't live very long," he said.

Meanwhile, Bedford cops pressed ahead with their investigation yesterday as a woman who used Sandra Chemero's rented house as a place to sell makeup and clothing to cross-dressing men said the accused madam had a female partner in the S&M business several months ago.

After an argument with Sandra, the other woman moved out of the house in September, the makeup artist said.

Asked if a second woman was involved, Bedford Police Lt. Robert Mazurak replied: "I'm not going to say no, but I don't want to mislead you . . . It's under investigation."

Sandra Chemero, 46, is the only person charged thus far, and police have said that they believed she was working alone.

The makeup artist also said she believed Sandra had a boyfriend from Manhattan who worked on Wall Street. But that could not be immediately confirmed.

A number of Westchester County men are named in Sandra Chemero's records, Mazurak said.

"We are continuing to investigate. Where it's going to end, I don't know," he said.

Sandra Chemero, who is free on bail, was nowhere to be found yesterday.

She's due in Bedford town court next week to answer misdemeanor charges of prostitution and possession of a stun gun.

The rabbinical school that owns the $3 million home has evicted Sandra under a clause in her lease barring illegal activity.

Her Web site advertised the "century-old stately manner" as "The Sovereign Estate," describing it as a "female-led household, headed by an elegant, attractive dominant woman."

Additional reporting by Patrick White and Bill Sanderson

jennifer.fermino@nypost.com

2007-03-05 05:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by stephaniech24 3 in Family

wud u still somewhat try looking for other girls? or try cheating ?(anyway, ur girlfriend wud never know).

2007-03-05 05:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by drama_queen 1 in Singles & Dating

He says this is 2007. We don't have kids yet, but I want to stay at home. I was meant to stay home. What do you think? Both husbands and wives.

2007-03-05 05:46:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have an eight year old daughter. A year ago he married a woman who just won't butt out of any business that has to do with my daughter. I have asked nicely and I have finely gotten to the point where I finely had it out with her and she still will not stop. I have spoken to my ex and that was a total waste of time. I'm at the end of my rope. Why won't she butt out? What can I do?

2007-03-05 05:45:52 · 3 answers · asked by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 05:45:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok ladies, I am a single, 24 yr old guy, & after being single for 7 months, I'm ready to get back out there & meet new women, & begin dating again. My only problem's I'm a gentleman, yet I love sex! But who doesn't? Just because you love sex, doesn't make you a pig, I mean, I ACTUALLY care about every woman I've slept with (only 4). So, I spend most of my time in coffee shops, barnes and noble, etc. My question is what would be the best way to approach a woman I don't know & ask her out on a date while in those places? I figured I go straight to the source, & ask women this question. I want it to result in a long-lasting relationship, but don't want to scare her away. What do I say? Anything charming, or witty come to mind? What to avoid saying? What would be the best opener? Thanks SO much for your help ladies, the more specific on what to say, & what not to say, the better; I want to actually win her over.Think of things you'd like to hear/wouldn't like to hear. Thanks! :D

2007-03-05 05:45:23 · 12 answers · asked by chrissexysmile 1 in Singles & Dating