Just teasing or scared?
My best friend and I were drinking at her mom's house, we got pretty drunk. I left with my boyfriend, then I sent her a text saying that I had wanted to kiss her, to see how she would react. She got into it, and we started sending each other dirty text until past midnight. She even said that she not only wanted to kiss me but she also Wanted me, and has for awile but didn't know how I would act. Now, I am a bisexual by nature and have a full-time boyfriend, and she knows this. We decided to kiss the next day, but before I went over to her house the next day, she texted me, apologized for her texts and asked if we were cool. That hurt bad. Do you think she was just trying to use the ol' I was drinking excuse or what???? I think the beer just let her say what she was really feeling or maybe I'm just hoping? I dunno, can someone help. BTW, my boyfriend is ok with me being bi.
2007-03-05 05:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Grace Lines, Inc. T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as Napolean Dynamite would say.... Lucky...
2007-03-05 06:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure this sounds like every man's fantasy but caution!!! If she knows that you have a man and she is willing to even utter something like what she texted you then she's feeling you regardless of what she said after the fact. But she may have realized that she did not want to be involved with a gilr that has a man. Besides this wasn't a good idea anyway because you have a boyfriend. You don't know how he would feel about the fact that you were taken from him not by another man but another woman. Like I said it sounds good but if a girl wants you knowing you have a man then most likely she's not going to get involved with the both of you then he gets left out anyway. If you are going to purse this make sure that you break it off with your man it's just not fair. And look at it from another angle how would you feel if you man was having conversations like that with another man and you had no idea that it was going on and then you found out that he left you for another man not another woman. Just something to think about cheating is cheating same sex or not. Good luck
2007-03-05 14:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants to, but is scared that if it doesn't work she'll lose a friend. I say the two of you get drunk again (alone) and see where it goes. Maybe you could initiate things, and then if it happens, then you know that she was being truthful when she was texting you. If it doesn't try not to hold it against her cuz good friends are hard to find
2007-03-05 14:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it...If she knows your bi then she shouldn't have a problem. But yes it sounds like it was the alcohol talking about her true feelings. She might open up about how she truely feels (she might rephrase what she was saying when she was drunk) if you approach her maturely/nicely and you might get what you want. Good luck !!!!
2007-03-05 14:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋