he said he was single he lived with me for a little bit then i found out he went back to his wife what is the perfect revenge and how do i get other women to wise up to him
2007-03-05 05:50:03 · 34 answers · asked by jenjen the one and only 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but he keeps leaving his wife for the next woman and when it dont work out she has him back again and again i just want her to see what he is like and what other people see that he is a big time lying cheat and has to grow uo soon he has 6 kids with her and 5 kids with other people as far as i know she onlys knows about 2 and he has to pay money to them all
2007-03-05 06:07:29 · update #1
i battered mine with a baseball bat it was not clever but it sure made me feel a bit better, i knew something was going on but he always said i was imagining it but when his mobile rang at 6.30 in the morning and i answered it it was the other woman so i told her what i thought of her then grabbed the nearest thing which was the bat did what i had to do then threw him out ,we eventually worked things out and were fine now that was 8 years ago and were still together
2007-03-05 23:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by margaret 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Revenge is not worth the effort. You will burn too much energy trying to get even, and it might cause you more problems than you are expecting.
As far as the other women...........she will never take advice from the woman she defeated. In her eyes you will be just an angry, jealous ***** with trying to get back with "her man".
If you want to get even, what better way to do it than simply say, "You're not that important to me". The best source of revenge is to be able to move on as if he didn't matter at all.
p.s. As a man, the last thing I would want to see is the girl I dumped looking like a million bucks when she should be at home depressed.
2007-03-05 06:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his wife will take him back knowing (I assume or else you know what the perfect revenge is) that he is a cheater, that's exactly WHY he is with her and not you. He knows you won't put up with his bullsh***t. You can't make other women "wise" up. Unfortunately, he will still be able to cheat with some women who KNOW he is married. Be glad it was only a little bit of time you wasted on him.
2007-03-05 06:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His wife is obviously aware of both the situation and her lack of self-respect so although it hurts just forget about him and move on, even if you went around warning people they will probably still date him anyway, they will just think your bitter. The perfect revenge is for you to hold your head up high and find someone to treat you the way you deserve.
2007-03-05 07:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was single when he came to live with you, and then realised his marriage was more important to him, so went back to his wife?? Just because you're bitter, doesn't mean you should start thinking about seeking revenge, it's not really your business is it!? He was married, you were the "other woman" whether you like it or not, and now I think you should just move on and get over it.
2007-03-05 05:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anon 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be bitter, its pointless.... I understand you must be upset, but just leave it as an experience and move on.
Good luck, you deserve better... just be glad that you ain't married to a losser like that!!!
You will find someone that loves and respects you soon enough!
Just enjoy your single life, go out with friends, get a hair cut...
2007-03-05 05:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect revenge is a full life, well lived... Nothing better than living a fulfilled life w/o him and being happy, healthy and whole.
2007-03-05 05:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, i think the perfect revenge is to cheat on him. maybe find out when he's going somewhere with his wife, then go to the same place. let him see you there. then if he askes why in the hell were you with another man, ask him how it feels??
2007-03-05 06:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Krista Nielsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is for you to find someone new who you are happy with and for your ex to see that you have really forgotten about him. Let him see what he has missed out on.
2007-03-05 09:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Champagne Paulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell his wife whether it's in person or by being anonymous. She has every right to know that he husband is being unfaithful. Then try to make sure the next guy is single.
2007-03-05 06:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by tjmoore83102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
The best revenge is no revenge! Free yourself, and forgive and forget him. Two wrongs want make a right!
2007-03-05 05:56:32 · answer #11 · answered by babybuds 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋