Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

My fiance and I have narrowed down our invitations to two. Which one do you think will be better?
http://www.rexcraft.com/pics/EasiestWeddingPics/Rexcraft/A0414Xlr.jpg
or
http://www.rexcraft.com/pics/EasiestWeddingPics/Rexcraft/F10777Xlr.jpg
I'm having a fall themed wedding with a leaf decor, however, there will be mini orange calla lilies in the bouquets. I could really use either one, but what do you think?
We like them both, so I'm just looking for opinions.

2007-02-28 04:30:18 · 15 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

My fiance and I hve been together for 2 1/2 years and he is having problems trusting me. He leaves town every Monday for work and returns every Friday. Every month or so he tells me that he doesn't feel me, he feels like I'm cheating on him, and that he thinks I'm hiding something from him, I'm not. I always tell him that I love him with all of my heart, I show him (constantly kissing, hugging, gazing at him, I tell him why I love him), I explain that he needs to trust me, I'm the woman he's going to marry, and he still gets like this. I know he does it because he gets unsecure, and doesn't feel me because he thinks of all of the possibilities of me cheating and visualizes it, but how do I stop that? I know how he feels because I too get like that sometimes, I don't tell him because I know it's just me being dumb. He seems to dwell on it and it causes arguments between us. How can I help him?

2007-02-28 04:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by kv 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone else in a bad, lonely, sexually deprived marriage with someone who seems more like a stranger then a lover/friend.
spend most of your time alone wondering what the hell happend and how do i get back to that place where i felt 'good' about marriage and relationships? my husband is very honest about his feelings, he says hes not sure hes inlove with me anymore and that he cant just 'make' himself feel things he doesnt feel.
were 2 people living in the same house who couldnt be further apart if we lived in seperate continents.
please tell me theres someone else who is going through something similar and that im not alone? and how do u cope?
YES ive offered couseling..he says he doesnt need it..ive tried talking to him..he doesnt respond to that either! im not asking for marital advice..i just want to know if anyone else feels this way too?

2007-02-28 04:29:49 · 10 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a white female who is in a relationship with an indian male. He and I have a good relationship except for the doubt in the back of my head that he when he goes to india he will end up marring an indian woman. His mother sends pics of women to him all the time and he tells her that he is not attracted to indian women. I love him very much and we have discussed marriage but how do i know he is true to his word. I have read alot about indian/white relationships and they all end up with the indian marring an indian. will i get my heart broken. Or will he be true to his word and marry me as we have planned.

2007-02-28 04:29:40 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why this is but any time i have a problem with a man in my life such as dating and they don't show me enough attention I don't feel happy. I've noticed that my happiness depends on whether a man i'm dating or getting to know is showing me attention/interest or not. How could i change this. I don't want it to be like this but thats the way it seems.For example there are some guys i'm talking to and if they don't show me attention for even a day or so I get saddened or am just in a bad mood.

2007-02-28 04:28:55 · 4 answers · asked by Mizz007 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex adopted my children after their real father signed away his rights to avoid child support. My ex and I have been divorced for six years. He did not have a job at the time we divorced and was trying for disability. He was supposed to pay me back support and send monthly checks when he received his disability. I have not seen anything. I can't afford to hire an attorney, but thought about going through the child support enforcement program. Do you think I should or just let it drop? My daughter is now 23 and my son is 17. The years of supporting them on my own has left my credit in shambles. Any advice? I feel a little selfish since he did adopt them, but I also lost any chance of getting any support from their natural father.

2007-02-28 04:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by tincansinger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 04:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by McRach 3 in Weddings

to have a dream about a guy that you havent seen in forever. well i actually saw him saturday and i found out he was getting married which doesnt both me i am with a really great guy now. and i've been with him for almost three years. but i had a dream about the other guy and it was a weird one and we were together. i dont. am i over thinking everything

2007-02-28 04:28:18 · 12 answers · asked by race queen 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you mean by it?
Do you just do it if she drops hints or do you do it off your own bat?
Do you resent spending money on flowers that will be dead in a week?
How often do you buy your wife/girlfriend flowers?

2007-02-28 04:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by Queen of the Stone Age 3 in Singles & Dating

ok im about 17 and have gone through soo much crap in my life its not even funny! I used to cut and had stoped last year after i had finaly told my family. But the other day i just couldnt take it anymore soo i cut. I want to tell my mom but i no she will just yell at me!
My mother boyfriend runs her life and all us kids as well. I hate him soo much and want to to just go away! He is about 20 years older then my mom and b/c he has money thinks he can just tell us what to do. My mom is just "soo in love" with him that she doent care about us kids! Yesterday i came home from a long day at school and just wanted to sleep but he started yelling at me about somthing i didnt clean right and my mom just sat there and didnt say anything. I cant do it anymore and dont no what to do. He doent do anything around the house and neather does my mom. Its all me and my 2 brother.... plz help and plz dont be mean about my cutting.. you really dont no the whole story! THANKS

2007-02-28 04:24:57 · 10 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our 1st wedding anniversary is coming up in April and I am not sure what kind of gift you give a guy for a wedding anniversary. I don't want it to be too big, because his birthday is in June and I need to save something nice for his b-day.

2007-02-28 04:24:36 · 15 answers · asked by this2shallpass 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK i said to my friends that there was a girl called lulu and a boy called damien who lived on my street ( thats not true ) but when they ask questions about them i dont know what to say and they're the type of people who wont be my mate once ive admitted it and i cant sleep at night help !

2007-02-28 04:24:16 · 49 answers · asked by Emma G 1 in Friends

I think it's holding on to the past and I feel disrespected.

2007-02-28 04:22:51 · 28 answers · asked by Patch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together going on 10 months now i think, but lately he doesn't pay much attention to me anymore. he has warned me in the past that sometimes he gets so wrapped up into himself and his thoughts that he can be a little neglectful. i know this, but sometimes it hurts when he doesn't return my calls or text msgs, and if he does, it something short and one-worded, or the phone call lasts all of 2 minutes before he says he'll call me back in a few (which he never does, i always have to call him back). and he does this off and on a lot, he'll be very attentive and calls me throughout the day one week, but the next week, i hardly hear from him and i start to get worried when i don't. i don't think he means to be neglectful, seeing as that he "warned" me about this early on in our relationship, but sometimes i get hurt when i don't hear from him, it makes me feel like he doesn't have time for me. what can i do to help him be less "neglectful"?

2007-02-28 04:22:19 · 6 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I alway thought the word fatal means Causing ruin or destruction. So what is fatal attraction?

2007-02-28 04:21:57 · 21 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 04:21:45 · 8 answers · asked by MJ MCK 4 in Weddings

2007-02-28 04:21:27 · 43 answers · asked by goofedup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 04:21:23 · 13 answers · asked by Dolphins76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 04:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by jean d 6 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy that I kind of like that goes to my church I am friends with his mom and dad and he just started talking cause he just started school (He is a freshman and I am a junior) I am more interested in other boys though but my mom won't allow me to go with any boy unless he is my religion. What should I do?

2007-02-28 04:19:00 · 24 answers · asked by Aunt Lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

he play ps3 (and sometimes pc) 3 or 4 hour after he return home from work,everyday.he is 43 y old!he ended the hardest adventure games like resident evil 4 from ps2 or silent hill series in 2 or 3 days!he love video games more thn hes family dont u think its so funny and weird?

2007-02-28 04:18:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 04:18:34 · 19 answers · asked by Puerto Rican Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating my best friend for the past 5 years now, I want some advice on weather I should move in with my 3 girls which he loves very much, but, I am a bit ( IFFY) about it, he is great but very picky about stuff, i feel like his way has to be the only way, even when he invited me to buy furniture for his place...I gave my opinion, and he always found something wrong with my input. I feel like I would be walking on egg shells! I haven't gotten a ring yet, he says that he can't afford it right now,(But he is spending money on furniture and decorating the house (HE OWNS!) but says it is going to have to wait until he is financially able to buy me one! I am confused, should I not risk my apartment, and stay here with my kids??? Or should I move in if and when he asks me to. We are both 36,
He's over bearing! I wanted to have the coffemaker on the counter along with the toaster and blender and he said no. Its too much clutter! Is he just set in his own way? What should I do!

2007-02-28 04:18:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A gorgeous bad boy's wall that is made up of seductive blocks, for a woman is hard to resist, because they will not make it easy for us, and some of us women find that attractive, appealing....a woman dosn't always want a want a man who is going to pus$y foot around her and give her everything she want's when she asks for it...except one thing that is...hey a girls got needs you know....but seriously why are so many women hooked and ready to take the test that these "bad boys" set for us...so are you hooked on a bad boy?....let me hear your views on this

2007-02-28 04:17:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why did my ex want to fight the guy that told me?

2007-02-28 04:17:44 · 21 answers · asked by meka 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in the summer. My bridesmaids are in navy blue and the groom and groomsmen are wearing flower of scotland kilts and I'm not sure what they should wear at their necks! I'm not a big fan of navy ties and black jackets. Should they wear black bow ties, black rouge ties or tartan rouge ties or a mixture of these. Has anyone had a similar problem? Or can anyone point me in the direction of a photograph of a wedding party with this combination of navy bridesmaids and flower of scotland tartan? I just want to make sure I get it right and can't visualise what the best combination would be. Thanks.

2007-02-28 04:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by stepmadlin 1 in Weddings

I just broke up with my boyfriend last night...we dated for a little over 5 months so i know it's not a really long time...but we were planning on going to prom together. He's been excited about it and talking about it since december! it's not till may, but i was wondering, is it okay if i still ask him to go with me? or would that be wrong bc i broke up with him? we are still going to be friends and he's even talking to me, but is this wrong?

2007-02-28 04:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by XxForever&EverxX 3 in Singles & Dating

in my country some teenagers show their sex on mobile phones. Many people enjoy seeing that but the public opinion is that such things are forbidden and that should be stopped and punished. Your opinion?

2007-02-28 04:16:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love is so unperdictable but is it real! i have a boyfriend but am i in love

2007-02-28 04:16:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because my g/f and I have known each other since 2000, we both have a large amount of the same friends from high school and college.

I'd like to incorporate some of our close friends with my marriage proposal, but still keep it romantic and a surprise for her. But if you have some fun thoughts, I'd like to hear those too. The more the merrier.

Any ideas?

Oh, we live in Houston, TX if that helps.

2007-02-28 04:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by John Redcorn 4 in Singles & Dating