I don't know why this is but any time i have a problem with a man in my life such as dating and they don't show me enough attention I don't feel happy. I've noticed that my happiness depends on whether a man i'm dating or getting to know is showing me attention/interest or not. How could i change this. I don't want it to be like this but thats the way it seems.For example there are some guys i'm talking to and if they don't show me attention for even a day or so I get saddened or am just in a bad mood.
2007-02-28 04:28:55 · 4 answers · asked by Mizz007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's normal your getting to know these men. Your a woman we need to be shown that our men want us and don't mid showing us that they are interested. You don't need to change this. If attention or affection is what you want from your man then you need to find a man willing to give this to you. Never settle for less than what you want. Men need to be shown attention just as much as women. The only way this would be a problem is if no matter how much attention he gives it's never enough, there is a difference between needing to be shown affection, and being to needy.
2007-02-28 04:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by 1st_time_mummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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It doesn't mean anything really - from his standpoint.
The issue is you and your self-esteem/confidence.
See, you're on a roller coaster with emotions if he's not paying THAT much attention to you. He may have valid reasons (ie. bad day at work/school, family issues, not enough money/finances, problems with friends, etc..).
So, the issues are at bay with over-sensitivity that you may show.
Many guys see this as "high-maintenance" and thus, lose interest after seeing these emotions. They may stray away to lessen the disappointment.
Try not to reading too much into it if he's not "THAT" into you at THAT moment.
Remember, it's OK to breathe. Everyone HAS to have their space and understanding that comes with that.
Good luck!
2007-02-28 12:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem! I think if they dont show us enough attention, that means they are not that into us.....sometimes I think they just try to play it cool but really, if they are interested, they would do anything to get us!
good luck!
2007-02-28 12:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by kittytie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a low self esteem
2007-03-08 03:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by rihannsu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋