There is this boy that I kind of like that goes to my church I am friends with his mom and dad and he just started talking cause he just started school (He is a freshman and I am a junior) I am more interested in other boys though but my mom won't allow me to go with any boy unless he is my religion. What should I do?
2007-02-28 04:19:00 · 24 answers · asked by Aunt Lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sneak around until you are old enough to tell your other to mind her own business.
2007-02-28 04:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only 1-1/2 years before you're leaving for college. Then you can make your own choices.
Don't see this boy just because he's the same religion as you are. Be interested in a guy because he's your religion and because you really like him.
2007-02-28 12:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are your options sweetie.
-Do what your mom says and preserve your relationship with her, try dating boys from your church, if it doesn't work, possibly wait until you're old enough to decide on your own
-Do what your mom says and preserve your relationship with her, try dating boys from your church, just learn to live with it
-Do what your mom says and preserve your relationship with her for now, see if she'll change her mind in a year or so
-Don't date until you're old enough to decide on your own
-Don't date for now, see if she'll change her mind in a year or so
-Try going out with the other boys, risking how much that will effect your relationship with your mother, plan on changing back if it gets too uncomfortable at home
-Try going out with the other boys, risking how much that will effect your relationship with your mother, but feel the freedom of making your own choices in life
Which sounds best to you? Or worst? Eliminate the ones that are obviously wrong for you, keep the ones that seem right, keep thinking until you make a decision. The choice is up to you.
2007-02-28 12:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if YOU feel it is wrong to date outside your religion.
You're still young, so it's not likely that you're going to marry anyone you date right now, so the long-term difficulties of being with someone from another religion won't really make affect you now. Explain to your mom that you are still developing your sense of what you need in a mate, so you want to explore your options, now, while you're young, before you get older and the relationships get more serious and more permanent.
2007-02-28 12:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you saying that he goes to your church so keep on looking at him and get to know him and school he will start and you should ask him about how he feel about the church and something like... I know you want to know if he does Like going to church and your plm is solved.. but if not asked him if he still like to learn and you are willing to teach him and have him learn?? smiling...
Then have him show up at your mom house and you asked your mother to ask him any question about bible and then if he answer all the right question and few wrong but then she would let you go with that boy smiling...
2007-02-28 12:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a way out of the house and could be a future best freind. When my son was a freshman the junior and senior girls took him out all the time.
2007-02-28 12:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE don't go out with him unless you are genuinely interested in him. You'll just end up hurting him, and you being the older and more mature one have an obligation. I say that if your mom won't let you "date" anyone not in your religion (how dumb is that, this is AMERICA), that you find a guy you are interested in and become "friends" with him.
2007-02-28 12:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jack R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it when someone limits love based on religion. If your Mom is so bent on dating someone from your religion, ask her about converting or witnessing to people. Some people have no religion, so it could be seen as helping someone find their way by dating them. Maybe if you bring this aspect up, she may consider easing up.
2007-02-28 12:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once your 18 you can do what ever you want, and unless you want to cause problems at home, do what your mom says, or find a boy that is your religon. or you could try and explain to your mom in a calm manner that you don't feel the way that she feels and you would like to date boys who maybe aren't your same religon.
2007-02-28 13:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably a loser for you. Your only is to sneak around that is the loser part. You will probably have to wait a couple of years before you can shake this tie with mom. Sorry but Good Luck
2007-02-28 12:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion should not play a part in your choosing for a guy, just pick a guy and go for it.
2007-02-28 12:25:22 · answer #11 · answered by Army Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋