Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

2007-02-28 03:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by rob c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when we first started together he want to spend all kinds of time with me now i beg for his time and other tings... is he cheating cause he dont want to spend time or have sex as often as before?

2007-02-28 03:55:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell me your story or just give some general advice on this topic.

Thank you.

2007-02-28 03:55:24 · 3 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I by no means want to upset him, but I'm so sick of cleaning up after him, our toddler and our pets day in and day out. Let me explain..He does cook dinner sometimes, and will give our son a bath if I ask him to. But..He doesn't clean up after himself at all, doesn't pick up his dirty clothes, food wrappers, plates or anything, and has left cups in his office until they molded. He doesn't do laundry, and if he does, he only washes his clothes that he needs for the next day. If I have clothes in the washer or dryer when he needs to use them, he'll empty the dryer on our diningroom table, and he'll put a washer full of wet clothes in a basket and leave them there. I recently got over being sick and unable to clean up, and I'm appalled at my house. All the dirty clothes the family had accumulated were strewn all over the laundry room and our bedroom, the sink was full of food-covered dishes (and we have a dishwasher!) and the floors and counters were filthy. He doesn't pick up his own food wrappers or dishes, and has even left things that were dangerous to our child within his reach. How can I talk to him about this without upsetting him. He has a temper and gets really upset when I ask him about these things.
He doesn't like the way I cook, so that's why he cooks sometimes, not really out of the goodness of his heart, LOL. I'm just getting sick of not being able to invite people over because of our house. It's embarassing. I can work non-stop all day and as soon as my husband gets home, it all goes to pot. He sits down at the computer or his Xbox, and gets mad if anyone interferes. He's got his own nasty "nest" around his Xbox too.
I can't just refuse to stop cleaning to prove a point. He'd rather kick trash and dirty clothes out of his way than pick them up, and has no problem living that way (although he does complain that the house is never clean enough)
What should I do?

2007-02-28 03:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Informed 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my gf for 11 months, and there is no passion in our relationship. I guess I had better lay all the variables on the table to get the best answer possible. First, my gf has a disability, so maybe her lack of attention and passion is due to insecurity. Secondly, she has a 4 year old daughter who she takes care of. She had bad relationships in the past. About one month ago, she finally said that she loved me. I love her too, but our relationship is so routine. She seems so cold sometimes. She hardly ever shows affection. I communicated with her twice about her lack of affection and she says that she doesn't mean to be inattentive. Now, I don't need tons of attention, but she NEVER initiates anything. We've had sex only five times since we've been together. She says that sex doesn't do anything for her and it never has. She does have orgasms through clitoral stimulation, however, so we usually end up doing that. I am 24 and she is 30. I love her and her

2007-02-28 03:55:11 · 6 answers · asked by mspideyman2007 1 in Singles & Dating

For some reason I think Norman Bates is cool and he is my role model. Is this normal?

2007-02-28 03:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is this guy i like but i know he such a player he likes me i think ok i know but he sleeps wit every gal he can get his hands on

2007-02-28 03:54:20 · 4 answers · asked by danielle y 1 in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to know so that i can take care of this problem and so that i can go and see them!

2007-02-28 03:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by Nes 2 in Family

We go out to a lot of events and I often include her children. I enjoy being able to do this, but I am a teacher and don't make much money. I am now starting to struggle with finances because about 20% of my salary is going to taking her out all the time. She is very traditional and I am not sure how she would feel about this issue.

2007-02-28 03:54:02 · 6 answers · asked by Alchemist 4 in Singles & Dating

... what i think that matters is whatyou both feel for each otter...

2007-02-28 03:53:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife have been fighting more and more lately. Our sex life in non-existant and has been for about a year. She has 2 kids from a previous marriage and is pushing me to have more kids of our own. Personally, I am not ready to have kids and currently we are living pay check to pay check and starting to drown in debt. She is so agressive with me, I feel it is from the frustration of the kids and everyday life, and I feel that she is not the same person that I fell in love with. We have only been married for a little under 2 years so I don't want to end the relationship too early, but honestly I am not happy with my life. She stays home to watch the kids and I work 2 jobs to try to pay the bills. I constantly think that things would be much better for me if I just ended this and walked away before I dig my hole and deeper than it already is. How do you know if it is the right time to divorce?

2007-02-28 03:53:27 · 13 answers · asked by Kyle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How to make peace with my past? We broke up, i pursued military training and now have full on career i was seeking. she moved on to my then roomate. it all came out like a soap opera the day before me going off to defend the country, yada yada. anyways, they're still together, i have great people and work in my life. but it still bothers me. i guess time heals all wounds and etc, and moving on is the natural progress, and i wanna be happy for them, but deep down i still feel betrayed. any ideas how to make peace with it?

2007-02-28 03:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 03:52:13 · 17 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

well i just got out of a really stupid relationship with a complusive liar that had two girlfriends so im a little emotional ,, i dont want him back , i just miss the time we spent together . needless to say i just have so much extra time now that used to be consumed by him... please tell me if you have any advice of positive things i can now do to get my mind off of him! thanks everyone :o)

2007-02-28 03:50:53 · 27 answers · asked by live in the magic of life 3 in Singles & Dating

Need answers quick the guy lost his gf and has moved 8 hours away and is still trying to be w/ me only not in the public eye with her in public

2007-02-28 03:50:47 · 15 answers · asked by brizy_bell 2 in Singles & Dating

This is someone i went with many years ago and lately can not get them off my mind for some reason.It is not a romantic kind of thought it is more like are they ok. I have not thought about this person in a long time and all of a sudden they are on my mind constantly.

2007-02-28 03:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by curious 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my wife have been fighting more and more lately. Our sex life in non-existant and has been for about a year. She has 2 kids from a previous marriage and is pushing me to have more kids of our own. Personally, I am not ready to have kids and currently we are living pay check to pay check and starting to drown in debt. She is so agressive with me, I feel it is from the frustration of the kids and everyday life, and I feel that she is not the same person that I fell in love with. We have only been married for a little under 2 years so I don't want to end the relationship too early, but honestly I am not happy with my life. She stays home to watch the kids and I work 2 jobs to try to pay the bills. I constantly think that things would be much better for me if I just ended this and walked away before I dig my hole and deeper than it already is. How do you know if it is the right time to divorce?

2007-02-28 03:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this guy showing he likes me or just being a jerk? In the hallway he watched me walk by and then put his hands down by his waist and made an up and down motion.

2007-02-28 03:49:26 · 15 answers · asked by Lolipop 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 03:48:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And what do you do to make sure that they do ? (Me and my fiance are moving out of this grungy city and getting married !)

2007-02-28 03:48:37 · 5 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

A newly divorced friend says she is attracting men who just want sex. She doesn't want to have a serious relationship with anyone right now, but was hoping that they would want more than just sex. I told her she is putting out the wrong vibe and that is what men are picking up on. Does anyone have any other advise for her? Please only the serious advise.

2007-02-28 03:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Tee 2 in Singles & Dating

Although I don't expect anything from someone, if they promise me something or say they are going to get me a christmas or birthday present and then they don't, well I can't help but be a little let down. I also hate it when I meet a guy who is always offering to help and saying, "if you need anything, call me" and then they never seem to be able to help. It's more like "oh, i'm sorry you have to walk home in the dark, I'd wish I could help, but, but, but....
I don't make a lot of promises my self but when I do , I make sure I keep them but it seems like alot of people don't. It just seems like these people who are offering help are always out of town or busy when you call on them.

2007-02-28 03:48:28 · 5 answers · asked by hothumid 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone tell me the name of a good site to get back my bank charges that doesnt charge alot for there help! Thanks

2007-02-28 03:48:23 · 3 answers · asked by Mariette 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 03:47:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if the unstable parent comes and goes when he/she pleases for example leaves for 6 months and comes back and trys to say everything is alright. is there wasy that it effects the child and if so how and in what different ways. please help me i am writting my final draft on a class paper. and with permishion to put your answer in my paper.

2007-02-28 03:47:35 · 9 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1 in Family

If you have use there services before how did you wedding turn out was there any problems? Was everything perfect?

2007-02-28 03:47:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-28 03:47:06 · 1 answers · asked by corey b 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 9 years. I'm totally supportive of her and her happiness, and her desires. I was wondering if there are any married couples whose wife has tried the bisexual experience, that can shed some light on how I can be supportive.

I'm not into a 3some, because I think my wife just really wants to be with a woman. If anyone is willing to talk about this, maybe even email some about their story, I would be very appreciative. How did it happen? Was it a bad experience? Would it have been better to just leave as a fantasy? Did it spice up the sex with your spouse? Any words of advice or caution would be great.

2007-02-28 03:45:30 · 22 answers · asked by getlean_1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are they doing something they don't want you to know about or they just trying to see how far they can push you?

2007-02-28 03:45:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she looked very misserable like usual and didnt even go to my son in the pram next to her.whats troubling me is i spoke to my boyfriends sister in law asking did she say anything to her such as i dont like her holding my son all the time, she said no and said i dont think uve told me that b4 and that im not like that. today i just found out they dont want to see my son anymore so she has told them wat i said.
what shall i do to make piece wit my boyfriends family. i didnt start trouble coz the thing is i only said did u say i dont like her holding him, doesnt mean i dont like her holding him

2007-02-28 03:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by kim in guildford 1 in Family