when we first started together he want to spend all kinds of time with me now i beg for his time and other tings... is he cheating cause he dont want to spend time or have sex as often as before?
2007-02-28 03:55:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's hard to decipher with such little information. A lot of us (men) have a HUGE sex drive when we first start dating someone. We want it all night and day. When that kind of behavior stops it could be a few things.
1.) Sometimes a Man will get comfortable enough with the one he's seeing that he no longer feels the need to be sexually active every night. He may also not want you to think that's all he cares about. My g/f was freaking out about this a few weeks ago, and this was my reason.
2.) At the beginning of a relationship both parties almost always want to spend every waking moment with their new Man or Woman. However, in time one and/or both may feel the need for a little space now and then. Many relationships start off with a couple spending an excessive amount of time together, and some people just need space after a while.
3.) He's cheating.
-JiNX
2007-02-28 04:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Touche' 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he is actually cheating. Perhaps he is bored with the relationship and feels that you are too clingy. Maybe some time and space and a long talk together would clear the air.
2007-02-28 11:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probebly not cheating he's just becoming more comfortable in your guys relationship. Don't over annalize it, it's a stage that most relationships go through.
s1. lots of sex and time spent together
s2. less sex still spend time together
s3. comfort don't need sex all the time or hang out all the time.
2007-02-28 12:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long you have dated each other. When people are dating, they go through different stages of love. Gradually, you will begin to feel comfortable with each other and not that much passion. You need to watch for other clues to find out what is going on in your relationship. Please do not jump into the conclusion that he is cheating.
2007-02-28 12:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would bet that he is no matter what he says. i would be very suprised if he wasnt. Im sorry. You deserve and can do better. The issue of cheating shouldnt be in a relationship at all.... that isnt how they should work. I had the same thing happent to me. It sucks. I would just "ramble on" if i was you. :-)
2007-02-28 12:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Drake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that he is not cheating,it could be that at the first place:he is a jump in and jump out,he never like u as a partner,he is a playboy,he have another girl in his heart and as a result there is no space for your feelings to grow in him.above all it could be that you no longer do those things that you do in the first time that attracted him.
2007-02-28 12:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by terryidehen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he sounds like hes cheating or longer wants to be in a relationship with you move on find a better guy that will treat as you deserve to be treated, as a princess
2007-02-28 12:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by instantgratification1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not, but either way, he's not giving you what you feel you need. Maybe he is just tired of the relationship and wants to move on, but doesn't want to break up totally. You need to talk to him.
2007-02-28 12:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how old you two are?
But the answer to your question is Hell yes! He has moved on to someone that he think will give him more and do more then you.
Sorry
2007-02-28 12:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a woman suspects a guy is cheating, she is usually right.
2007-02-28 11:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋