Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

2007-02-28 03:14:19 · 5 answers · asked by red head 1 in Singles & Dating

both my parents smoke and i have asthma...i wanted to know two things:

1) why would it be that when i ask my mom, "why dont u just soke outside?", she always says she doesnt have to answer and treats my question as a threat?

2) why is it that they smoke in the house if they know how bad it is for them and their children?

i know my parents love me to death...but i dont understand...

help!

2007-02-28 03:13:57 · 20 answers · asked by Kitten ♥ 2 in Family

i did. so he lied to me by telling me that all my friends told him i was mad at him but they didnt even talk to him. so we kinda got in a fight and he wrote me a note yesterday saying that he lied and that i could either fix it or f*** it. i wrote him one back sayin f*** it. today he wrote me another note saying that he's really sorry and he messed up and he needs me but all my friends keep saying to not go back out w/ him cuz its not the 1st time he lied to me. i dont know what i should do. i want to go back out with him but im not sure that i should. Help Please. IM me- jozlynn says (on AOL) or post.

2007-02-28 03:13:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 03:12:28 · 16 answers · asked by tom the plumber 3 in Singles & Dating

There was this sweet and intelligent girl whom I love and she stays in USA(already committed to someone)., and now I am married too!! But I can't stop thinking about her, it was probably staying and making her career in US which made her choice; sadly in my case it will work out a few years later but by then she would have been living with her man for almost 3-4 years, should I still pursue or forget about love of my life?? and that too, why me?? a goodlooking, intelligent and career oriented man?? I have asked this question several times to GOD and am also turning into a kind of a 'flirt' because of my 'hurt' EGO, Will you all help resolve this question??

Take Care, Love and Regards,
Anshuman Dave(Gujarat, India)

2007-02-28 03:12:27 · 20 answers · asked by anshuman d 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend looks for an excuse to drink, then he will cause an argument with me to dump me wherever and go drinking spirits, sometimes he goes for 3 days without being contactable. He goes to various pubs, peoples houses etc and doesnt bother about my feelings. He then sobers up and cries and says sorry he has a problem and will stop. he then stays sober until he slowly introduces alcohol back into his life like a drink with dinner etc until he binges again. what would you do if you where treated like this and the person said it was a disease and you would be wrong to leave them to deal with it alone. Does this sound like him wanting to have fun then come home and be forgiven or a genuine problem with uncontrollable alcohol urges

2007-02-28 03:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do

2007-02-28 03:11:44 · 4 answers · asked by Payton B 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be late for work because I cant pull myself away? Used to be myspace, now this lol

2007-02-28 03:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 03:11:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to check my email last night and when i went to log in my boyfriend was still loged into his (but he wasnt home) i got nosie and ive been suspisous lately. so i looked , but now i wish i had not i found half naked pictures of hisso called "friends", a very emotional letter to his ex sayin he will always care for her and he misses her. im flipping out i dont know what to do i love him we have been together for over a year and we just moved into an apartment together. it get hard to trust him he works the graveyard shift(11pm-7am) so there is plenty of ways he can cheat without me really knowing....but now my problem is do i confront him? and if i do how can i tell him i know without telling him i ws snooping? or should i wait a few days and see how i feel?? i REALLY dont know what to do right now ive never been cheated on b4 so i dont really know how to handle this HELP!?!

2007-02-28 03:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by shauna g 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 03:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by kandy 1 in Friends

I am not happy with my marriage relationship , The problem is we don’t communicate much, He is not bothered what am I doing,my work ,my needs. He is only concerned what is his life, his needs, his happiness, he never tries to do anything which can make me happy, but I cannot leave him also as I love him and I cannot live away from him, I don’t have any friends also so I feel lonely, how should try make him understand that I want his attention, I want to save my relationship

2007-02-28 03:10:06 · 24 answers · asked by sonia k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to find some cool names to call my love. Thanks!

2007-02-28 03:08:49 · 15 answers · asked by jsssika 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is a pronounced square jaw on a man sexy? Or do you prefer a man with a more round jaw line?

2007-02-28 03:08:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met him a month ago. We're both divorced. His was worst than mine. FOr the past 9 years he has been drinking and not having a real relationship. I told his friend I liked him and he was glad. We have seen each other a number of times and we have slept together twice, without a condom. I asked him if he just wants to be friends but he says that we are more than friends and that he likes me. I like him a lot too. But I seem to be doing all the contacting. He is always drinking with his friends and I mostly see him at night, kinda late. I go to his house and we can talk for hours about anything including sex. We both have said that we feel like we have known each other for many years. I have not heard from him since Friday night. He says that it is kinda hard for him to express his feeling and when I tell him that I want to get to know him, he says you can't get to know someone so quickly and that I should have patience. I told him I woud call it off but he doesn't want that

2007-02-28 03:08:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i plan to get married after high school and people tell us its too soon and were too young. what do you think? what age (if married) did you get married?

2007-02-28 03:08:11 · 39 answers · asked by calos lelo 1 in Weddings

Why?

Have a Great Day!

2007-02-28 03:07:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i'm more of a sexually orientated person than my boyfriend is.

for the past 3 weeks we havent had sex...and with this, i feel he loves me much more, and has an easier tiem expressing it...

the sex we HAVE had is BRILLLIIIAANNTT so even though initially i was missing it, we go out everyday talk on the phone 2-3x a day and i just feel genuinely closer to him.

He said to me that i dont know how much i mean to him...what does that mean?
I was always under the impression that a man needs sex to love, but maybe i was totally wrong and its the opposite?

ps. hes from a christian background and told me he doesnt need sex as much as i seem to...

2007-02-28 03:07:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

am i at risk? i heard it is worse then second hand smoke!!

2007-02-28 03:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

How could i find out where he truly is without him catching me? There is times where i sit and think why he isnt calling me for hours and then i wonder where is he, what is he doind. any help???

2007-02-28 03:06:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to figure out if the love is still there..or how much is enough for us to miss each other??

2007-02-28 03:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by Alejandra2008 3 in Singles & Dating

Iam a 29 year old gentleman.My dad,a pastor revealed 2 prophecies for my marraige.1)the gal must be the only child 2)her parents shall visit my home.I met a gal before 7 months and fell in love with her only hoping she must be the one accrding to the prophecy.I met her parents and was abt to take her to my parents.But her parents were divorced years before and inspite of me and her praying for them to re-unite,they havent got back togther.though she is the only daughter,the 2nd prophecy aint getting fulfilled thru this gal.The issue now being ive slept wit her once.Now if i marry her i shall walk against God's will for my life.Ive told her enuf and she is not co-operative for a mutual split.Im getting pissed up with her cos she does nothing but accuses me for have slept with her.She also doesnt fit the bill of My-kinda-gal..now i cant even think of marrying her,how do i get out of this situation?

2007-02-28 03:06:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been single for 4 years now (ouch!!) i've tried to crack onto pretty nice girls but no is always the response. i'm REALLY bored of singledom now.

2007-02-28 03:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help because i don't know if i want to brake up with my boyfriend because i love him with all me heart but i can't ever see him because hes 18 and i am not trying to act like his mother or trying to tell him how to live his life its just that i know i am hyurting him by not able to see him and i have too many problems i don't want him to worry about me and i am not taking my anger out on him either its just that i is so hard because my mom is abusing me my school work isn't getting done because my mom is always telling me to do chores and i can't make time to call him all the time. and i love him so so so much i really do we think we are ment to be toghether because everything we like are the same everything. but yeah what should i do........ i really love him more then anything in the whole world and when ever i think about braking up with him it feels like a part of me is dieing and i want him to be with some one who can be there with him because i can't what should i do?!

2007-02-28 03:06:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is soo sweet and i realy like him!! but i don't know wat to do about him. But only problem is that he is black and I am white. And my parnets don't allow that wat should i do?

2007-02-28 03:04:31 · 12 answers · asked by countrygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean? Does it mean like that you two are not together but trying to work things out and allowed to see other people even if you still live together. I have no idea so I told my sister that would ask my yahoo answer account for her. Thanks for the answer..

2007-02-28 03:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by TM 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 03:03:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband & I are moving into a new house in 2 weeks. We both have been very stressed lately. Last night when we were laying in bed we were discussing about my family going to the beach this summer & his parents going the end of next month. Then I said it would be nice to go somewhere & my husband got upset saying that we couldn't & that I seem unappreciative about the house. It's not that & I didn't mean it like the way he took it. He took it wrong! I am appreciative or else I wouldn't be telling everyone & I wouldn't be packing so soon. I don't understand why he took my comment as being unappreciative about the house. He said it seems like I'm trying to run before I can crawl.

2007-02-28 03:03:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy that i rellly like and im sure he dosent but i think he thinks im hot..thats it!! but i want him to like me .. wat should i doo,,??

2007-02-28 03:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by gurlie 2 in Singles & Dating

since as long as I can remeber (since I've been active) I have never realy enjoyed having any kind of intimacy it is more of a job to me when my husband wants to do any thing I never get excitted or orgasim he is not bad in bed and it is not our relationship It has always been like this even past relatioships when we do do it I just lay there or do the work but either way just wait for the time to by I know he can tell and I know its ruining us in that category but I'm scared to go to the doctor IS THERE ANY THING THAT you think would help for over thee counter??? it has to be my hormones right?? inbalanced?? please help save my marriage

2007-02-28 03:02:56 · 25 answers · asked by candicane 1 in Marriage & Divorce