I met him a month ago. We're both divorced. His was worst than mine. FOr the past 9 years he has been drinking and not having a real relationship. I told his friend I liked him and he was glad. We have seen each other a number of times and we have slept together twice, without a condom. I asked him if he just wants to be friends but he says that we are more than friends and that he likes me. I like him a lot too. But I seem to be doing all the contacting. He is always drinking with his friends and I mostly see him at night, kinda late. I go to his house and we can talk for hours about anything including sex. We both have said that we feel like we have known each other for many years. I have not heard from him since Friday night. He says that it is kinda hard for him to express his feeling and when I tell him that I want to get to know him, he says you can't get to know someone so quickly and that I should have patience. I told him I woud call it off but he doesn't want that
2007-02-28 03:08:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he's not used to having someone pursue him. if you say he was married and hasn't been in a relationship ever since, then he has not been exposed to that in a long time. give it time, be good to him and he will appreciate you
2007-02-28 03:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No condoms in a new relationship? Do not understand that, am also curious why U pointed that out. Sounds to me like U are seeing an alcoholic. If this is the case, good luck because alcohol is his love now. The only thing I can think for U to do, is to ask him what it is that he wants. If U are ok with what he says, hey ur golden. Use condoms. Use condoms. Use condoms
2007-02-28 03:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by smileyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should definately take a time out. Stop giving it up, and don't call him. Obviously he's still stuck in his pattern of drinking and hanging out. If he doesn't notice the change then maybe you two don't need to be together anyway.
2007-02-28 04:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord Lady!! You Take the Cake!! You're having unprotected sex with this man and you are doing all the contacting. Now you wonder if he even likes you? If you were my daughter, I would spank you and it wouldn't matter HOW Old You Are!! Straighten Up!!!
2007-02-28 03:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would just give him a few days and then call him up and talk to him. Give him some space. you both have been through a rough time. He just needs some time to get some priorities straight. It sounds to me that he doesn't want to rush into things so quick.
2007-02-28 03:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is what I think, if you like this man and you have already tried to communicate this to him, why don’t you give him the space he needs. If you feel in your heart that this is not going the way you want, maybe you have your answer.
2007-02-28 03:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lenka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ever heard of enabling?? if a relationship is disfunctional in the beginning it most likely will be disfunctional at its end....good luck.
2007-02-28 03:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way he is tricking you i dont think u wanna countinie your life with somone like this trust me
2007-02-28 03:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by rawand m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow, he's still has issues to clear up.
2007-02-28 03:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not know!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-28 03:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by zack k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋