How could i find out where he truly is without him catching me? There is times where i sit and think why he isnt calling me for hours and then i wonder where is he, what is he doind. any help???
2007-02-28 03:06:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hire a private investigator if it is that important to you.
2007-02-28 03:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Hey you! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a full story of your relationship, it's hard to fully advise you as to what to do. If you have been together for a long time, then you should know his routine by now. If this is a new relationship, then you need to establish some kind level of trust without all the paranoia.
No matter how long you are in a relationship, it is very unhealthy to be so paranoid and untrusting without good reason. If he has done something to instigate this behavior, then seek means to get your answers. Have a friend follow him. Check his phone records if you have access to it. You should not stress out sitting and waiting for his call and then never receiving it! THAT, is very unhealthy. That's not a good relationship for you. If you have some serious concerns, talk to him. Communication is vital for everyone, no matter the level of relationship.
Then again, he could just be hanging out with his friends and didn't have his phone with him. You know how guys can be. They tend to ignore about calling or checking in periodically. As you will find out later in life, guys have a bad habit of being irresponsible about calling whether it's to check in to call back when promised or just picking up the phone when sitting around the house.
Best of luck and I hope you get your answers, one way or another. =)
2007-02-28 03:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably shouldn't answer any question like this. It seems my answer always upsets someone but here goes anyway.
IMO you need to do one of two things either trust him or move on. Your relationship is in serious trouble when either party looses trust, it will eventually fail because this mistrust feeds on it's self until it is all consuming.
I strongly suggest you either adjust your attitude or your relationship.
I have been married to the same woman for 35+ years. I have NEVER cheated. I am satisfied my wife has never cheated and if she has, it is her problem to live with, not mine.
2007-02-28 03:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You need more to do. Find some interesting hobbies that require exercise or find a cool place on the web that you can learn from. Don't just waste your time wondering!! @8-)
2007-02-28 03:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth are u this suspicious?? Never let mistrust erode ur relationship.But if this is asked for a cause, u gotto hire a detective guy to keep an eye on ur man.
warning - By chance, sumday ur man finds out, then everythin wud be blown in a sec! BEWARE!!
2007-02-28 03:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah! Move on to someone you are comfortable with and you can trust! That does not sound healthy to me! It may be hard to do...but its better for the long run! Unless you can ask him where he is and go there...u r his girl right, so he shouldnt get mad about it...its harmless! Butm you definitely do not sound confident in him! So go on...find someone you can relax and just be happy with...dont rush it, it will come! Go have fun with your friends until then! Lifes too short for the dumb sh*t!
2007-02-28 03:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could understand why you would be suspicious if he didn't call you for days..... but for hours??? How often does he need to check in with you? Could it be that you are being a bit too controlling? That could have some very counterproductive repercussions.
2007-02-28 03:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all has he given you reason to be so paranoid, if so then you need to break up and move on cause trust has been broken. if not then you have serious trust issues that will drive any man away so you need to control it or get help. Stalking him wont solve anything.
2007-02-28 03:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by bunnydlh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You either need to learn to trust him or find some other guy who you can trust. You cannot build a lasting relationship if you can't trust you partner.
2007-02-28 03:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes check his cell phone history ( on his phone)
If you drive, borrow a car he is unfamiliar with and follow him for a couple of days. Or you could sit down with him, and be open and honest about your insecurities and see what comes of it...Go with your gut.
2007-02-28 03:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by G-Killer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,,,,,to start with you have no trust in him,and without trust there is nothing to build on............
my thoughts would lead me to believe that you have been cheated on before and thats why your having the issues with trust and your feeling very insecure....
If it was a different relationship,,then you need to calm down and realise that he isnt that person...............if its this relationship,and you descided to give it another go,,,,,,,,,,,,,then you realy need to sit down and talk to him - communication and trust are the basis of a realtionship................
If that cant settle your feelings,ask a friend to follow him one day,and see where he is going,,,but I have t tell you that if it comes to that,,then you realy need to end the relationship...
Good luck
2007-02-28 03:12:59 · answer #11 · answered by country_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋