Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

when we were on the first multi player computer game, i was always introduced as her partner, or referred to as my partner. We are on a second game now and she is refering to me as her girlfriend. To me the girlfriend tag refers to a casual relationship while the partner tag refers to a committed loving relationship. She said that to her they mean the same thing, but I told her they do not mean the same thing to other people, especially people who do not know us. She has also used the girlfriend tag in the real world. Please let me know what you think about this.

2007-02-28 02:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by Misty 1 in Singles & Dating

I met an awesome guy recently. We have mutual friends. He is recently divorced (his wife left him). I know that he is interested in me, I can see it all over his face. He seems reluctant for some reason (possibly not wanting to get rejected again). Is there a certain way to let him know that it is okay to talk to me? He hasn't even asked for my number. How do you deal with a man that is newly divorced and looking to be back on the 'singles scene'?

2007-02-28 02:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating 3 months. We talk on the phone all the time and we have a great time together. But for some reason he has not made any attempt to even kiss me or hold my hand....nothing. I can't understand what is going on and I have never had this problem. He seems to be into me but nothing happens. Am I reading too much into this or should I ask him how he feels or if he is really into me!!!

2007-02-28 02:49:36 · 17 answers · asked by luvlylale 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help because i don't know if i want to brake up with my boyfriend because i love him with all me heart but i can't ever see him because hes 18 and i am not trying to act like his mother or trying to tell him how to live his life its just that i know i am hyurting him by not able to see him and i have too many problems i don't want him to worry about me and i am not taking my anger out on him either its just that i is so hard because my mom is abusing me my school work isn't getting done because my mom is always telling me to do chores and i can't make time to call him all the time. and i love him so so so much i really do we think we are ment to be toghether because everything we like are the same everything. but yeah what should i do........ i really love him more then anything in the whole world and when ever i think about braking up with him it feels like a part of me is dieing and i want him to be with some one who can be there with him because i can't what should i do?!

2007-02-28 02:49:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say..u go on a d8 wit diz guy..start kissing..and get 'stimulated'..da girls takes his hands n places it on her breast..now,she'z not trying 2 b a *****..she juz wants that to happen..now,will guys think 'man,this girl's horny..gotta let ma hommies noe bout her..''..or would he understand da situation??dat u know,she'z juz too stimulated..2nd question..when a guy and a girl is caught fooling around..and when da guy is questioned ''why did you do that..??''..wil da guy most probably say ''it was her..she wanted me to do it..i did not do anything because i wanted too..she got so steamed,she wanted me to do things..SHE WANTED..not I GAVE HER!!..'' and put da girl's *** on fire??heard alot bout guys who would do that 9from my galz]..and it seems that most guys do it 2 get away..if he's truly in love wit u..but such a wimp..would he do this??

2007-02-28 02:49:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the story. I went to his house and he went in his room and we just talked but I knew he just wanted to have sex with me. I have a little crush on him. I only kissed him. I refused many times to have sex with him. But later I found out he has a girlfriend. I asked him and he said he didn't but i saw on his cell the wallpaper was a pic of him and this girl kissing. The question is what should I do and do you think he is lying to me?

2007-02-28 02:48:23 · 22 answers · asked by soccaplayer1990 1 in Singles & Dating

Men from the med are the way forward! Where are all the sexy sexy men in the UK? God....

2007-02-28 02:47:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend being smoking weed for about 5 years, does anyone know a good way he can stop smoking it so much or even just stop all together? he's stopped b4 but went straight bk on it when hes mates were makin fun of him for bein under the thumb , he needs to stop coz i cant handle the parrnoia it's driving me mad!!!

2007-02-28 02:47:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time my wife and I go out dancing, I have young women hit on me, flirt with me and want to dance with me. I am 6' 4" 235 lbs and am fitter than most 25 year old men. Is it that I am tall and fit? Or is it that I have rhythm on the dance floor? Or is that they see I am probably financially secure and there are a percentage of young women looking for the mature man that is financially secure? Or is that I am married and some women like the challenge of trying to snag a married man?

Alright young ladies, what is it?

2007-02-28 02:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:46:44 · 19 answers · asked by nkemnonchalant 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, im 15 years old going on 16 on april 10th. I met this guy in 7th grade (now im in 10th) and we were friends. In 8th grade he asked me out and I said YES! He is my 1st boyfriend. On april 11th is going to be our 2 yr anniversary. We see eachother EVERYDAY and talk on the phone. He says when we get oldr he wants to be my babys father and hopes to marry me... how do you know when a guy loves you and is FOR REAL? he doesn't lay hand on me. we play around all the time and have great times. we hardly ever argue. He says he would never cheat on me and all but how can I know if hes being 4 real????? Help me I really love this guy and want to be with him for a lifetime. can a first boyfriend be THE ONE? he'd do ANYTHING for me that he would never do for another girl and he'd take a bullet....I'd do anything for him too...

2007-02-28 02:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:45:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does this mean? Whenever I point out to my ex husband that the reason he is not seeing his kids as much as he would like is because he chose to have an affair and walk away from our marriage and family. That is the response I get - you need to get over yourself? What does this mean?

2007-02-28 02:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean it usually ends in tears and animousity anway so what is it all about Alfi?

are you really saying - "lowroad i having constant fantasies about you hitting that"? Any girls not drunk of romantic fantacies and keeping it real on Yahoo care to answer this ?

2007-02-28 02:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

We want to the guests, but not the bride, in on the fun. We are thinking of tucking a note inside the invites filling them in and inviting them to participate if they wish....with their own gag gifts signed or unsigned (under $5 plz). Is that the best way to word the invitation? Can you come up with clever wording, phrasing or a short rhyme? I did this a few years back and it was a hugh success; make the gift opening a lot more fun and ppl really got creative. But I can't remember how we worded the shower invite and the gag invite....thanks.

2007-02-28 02:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetserenity 3 in Weddings

Okay, so it might not be during sex particually, but she finds pain arousing. I know this is not a super uncommon fetish, but it worries me. Should I be worried by it? She has expressed gulit over having the fetish, but what should I do? Is it a sign of a larger problem? And if it's not really an issue after all, how can I please her in that way with out doing anything expressly violent?

2007-02-28 02:44:38 · 10 answers · asked by Wolf Jackson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 02:44:29 · 27 answers · asked by handiest11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I were getting closer than ever before and then she got sick. She has been at home for the last 2 days. I would talk to her on the phone for hours and text her to see how she was doing. Last night she called me but I left my phone in the other room. When I called her back, she said that her ex-boyfriend called her to see how she was feeling and he brought her some things from the store. She thinks he cares about her more than I do because of this. She said that I should have called her like he did to check on her but I was busy at the time. I told her that if he cares more than she should go back to him but she said she does not want him. I know what I want to do about this but I wanted to hear some other opinions.

2007-02-28 02:44:07 · 26 answers · asked by Hippie 2 in Singles & Dating

Please list 3 qualities that you find most desirable in a man... for a potential relationship, and 3 more qualities (or maybe the same ones) for a "fling" (however you define it).

If you want to go a step further and give me details, or reasons why you think it is an important quality, then great!
Thanks guys, I'm just curious to see what everyone has to say.

2007-02-28 02:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel like that all my family cares about is what kind of a job my husband has and if he's treating me right. My family won't call my husband about any important family events coming up and seems to not like him much. I know my mother is still mad that I took over the wedding planning and my father is mad that I almost took the beer away from the wedding. My father (I can't believe this) asked me ON MY WEDDING DAY why I was marrying my husband. He hoped it wasn't to get away from them (parents). I love my husband we had been together for over 3 years after getting engaged. What am I suppose to do?

2007-02-28 02:42:59 · 21 answers · asked by asian-q-t 4 in Family

doing something that makes you feel soooooooo good!!!! ;)

2007-02-28 02:42:57 · 20 answers · asked by Melrose 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:42:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know if he is the one?
I am very close friends with this guy and I get this feeling that he might be the one for me. I'm not looking for a relationship with him nor do I want to date him. I just want us to be the best of friends. But then I made a little mistake and a I went a bit too far when I kept calling and asking him if he wants to get together. Perhaps I pressured him a bit too much about us wanting to be together. I know it's my fault but I just want to let him know that I want him as a big brother and not a boyfriend. Still can our relationship go beyond friendship?

2007-02-28 02:42:31 · 2 answers · asked by misao_dhy115 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:41:48 · 19 answers · asked by smurph 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm headed out there to have a little divorce party...drinks on me!

2007-02-28 02:41:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i am a 23yr. old women with a 2yr. old and a boyfriend, we currently stay with my boyfriends grandparents and i take care of them in everyway (cooking, cleaning, laundry, bathing, everything), i just dont understand because there family seem to hate me or dispite me for doing this and i am getting overwhlemed i also work fulltime and am a part-time student and a fulltime mom i want to ask for a little help now and then but i know i wont recieve any, dont get me wrong i love doing what im doing are so i say i do and i truley believe that i enjoy the extra tasks but im tired and need a break and i cant cause i will feel very, very, very guilty because of them and my boyfriend. i want to move but cant finincaily we share a room me my son and boyfriend and the family that hates me cont.... bickers about me and my son living there and its making it where i have anixety and panic attacks i cont.... have problems are guilt are what not running through my head and im to the breaking point

2007-02-28 02:41:35 · 13 answers · asked by faith 1 in Family

my god mom hates me so does my mom they make me and my lil sister do every thing like clean cook and baby sit they call me cinderella and they call my sis derella what should i do?

2007-02-28 02:41:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He was working away at the time and we were having problems...he did not forget, he said that because of the problems we were having it didnt seem right??? Also he is back now and still hasnt got me anything, because he needs his money for a deposit on a house he is buying...yet he has gone on a course for a week and is out on the booze with his workmates???

2007-02-28 02:41:24 · 29 answers · asked by lisa l 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think she really means?

2007-02-28 02:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 02:41:12 · 4 answers · asked by quegomail 1 in Friends