Ok heres the story. I went to his house and he went in his room and we just talked but I knew he just wanted to have sex with me. I have a little crush on him. I only kissed him. I refused many times to have sex with him. But later I found out he has a girlfriend. I asked him and he said he didn't but i saw on his cell the wallpaper was a pic of him and this girl kissing. The question is what should I do and do you think he is lying to me?
2007-02-28 02:48:23 · 22 answers · asked by soccaplayer1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Again I didn't have sex with him
2007-02-28 02:53:36 · update #1
Whether or not he's lying to you, you should never have sex with a guy who just want to use you.
He doesn't even sound like a "friend", to me.
2007-02-28 02:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM as a partner he sounds like a person who is made JUST to be a friend he obviously isn't thinking of your feelings and is playing a game with you, you say he asked you for sex well maybe he isnt getting any from his girlfriend or is just a plain cheater I say get over him and talk to him about the situation ask him why he lied and then say I think we should be friends Dont be bothered there are plenty more fish in the sea, If he doesn't answer you when you question him about this girl on his phone or he doesn't answer you when you ask him why he lied then he obviously isn't meant to be a friend either and is just immature and you will be better off without him!
2007-02-28 10:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes He Is Lying. He Just Wants Sex From You.
2007-02-28 10:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's lying, or he's a sex fiend.
Really, this is your virginity we're talking about. This is yours to give and you do NOT have to fall into a perverts trap.
Stay friends if you feel he's a good guy, but if there are no feelings, or a lengthened relationship(I'd say marriage, but a lot of people will dissagree), then don't give the one thing you can't get back.
I hope I helped.
2007-02-28 10:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Big C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of friends are you, and how long have you known each other? It seems if you were good friends, you would know whether or not he had a girl friend. I would say WAIT! Unless you just want meaningless sex, there is no need to rush in to this. If he likes you, he will wait. If he just wants sex, he will find someone else to have it with.
2007-02-28 11:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he is lying, because if it was his ex i dont think he would display a picture of him and her kissing??? it doesnt make sense, you also mentioned that u knew he only wanted sex,?? we all know your better than that, you just need to realise it, i think he is just looking for a bit on the side, and hey if he's treating his girl ilke this, he would do the same to any other girl (incld u )
2007-02-28 10:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is lying and i think you KNOW he is lying but don't want to believe it. You need to get over your crush honey and find someone worthy of those feelings. Even if he is crushing on you also, he has a girlfriend, if he cheated on her what makes you think he wont cheat on you.
2007-02-28 10:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by bunnydlh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm weird..if ur his friend u should know if he got a girl or not. try to talk to him and tell him how u feel about the kiss/ and hun if u dont really like him ((RUN)) why would u want to b w.some1 as u say..he jst wants 2have sex with u? but if u care about him talk to him if he feels the same way.
2007-02-28 10:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I think you friend is a player, he lyed to you, because he wants to have sex with you.
Best thing you can do is blow him off, if you like him and he likes you, he will come back and try to make a real relationship work.
2007-02-28 10:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by blebert2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on your age, he may have gotten a girl to kiss him, just so one of his friends could snap that shot on his phone to show off to other friends... on hte other hand, he may have a girl friend... in either case, don't sleep with him, because he either a. has a girl friend, or b. he just wants to jump in the sack with you to say he has, guys who are serious about someone doesn't ask over and over, they just let it happen.
2007-02-28 10:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋