How do i handle a cheatin partner even wen i know he's playin safe?

Answer 1

Well safety is not the only concern your feelings are too. If you both have agreed to an open relationship then it might be time to exercises some of your freedom. If that's not the case and you have just given up trying to prevent it it might be time to start looking inward for love and elsewhere for a relationship. It's like a band-aid, If you slowly peel it off you get a lot of little jabs of pain that last. Whereas if you just rip it off and get it over with it hurts intensely for a moment but then goes away. yadig?

Answer 2

Sweetie,
Cheating is not something you learn to deal with.

I would have to say "Drop-Him". This is not about being safe or not, its about respecting you. If he feels the need to be intimate with some one else, then what's the point?? Needless to say a relationship is not or should not be based on sex.

Respect and honesty come before anything else in a relationship. Obviously he does not respect you, by being with someone else. Leave him, you shouldn't have to put up with that kind of disrespect.

Give your self sometime to be alone, and then find someone else that respects you. It may be hard and you may feel lonely. Use that time alone to learn about you. Do the things you love to do?? When was the last time you went to the gym?? When was the last time you went on a bike ride?? Do you remember being a kid?? Go back to that place and find those things you did that made you feel great and worry free. Enjoy life!!

I hope this helps you. One more advice, it doesn't matter who you are with, protection is a must. You never know who you partner is sleeping with or has slept with.

Answer 3

The best way is for you sit your partner down and have a strong word with this partner. Try find out why he is cheating and let your position be clearly spelt out - You cannot tolerate cheating in your relationship and if your partner is still intrested in the relationship, there should be no Cheating whether he's playing safe or not.

Answer 4

If you are not there you can only ASSUME he is playing it "SAFE"

You are worth more, you are putting your LIFE in jeopardy. There are so many sexually transmitted disease and also the risk of unwanted pregnancy for his other partners.

There is someone who will love and cherish you and be faithful to you. What is the reason that you are allowing your partner to cheat? Maybe talking to someone a friend or therapist will help you work out issues within yourself to see why you are tolerating a a toxic relationship

Answer 5

If you're talking about cheating in cards and you're playing for money, DON'T tell the other team you're playing against. Rather than splitting the winnings, tell your partner that you want 80% of the take or you will expose his filthy lies.
If you're talking about love, kick him to the corner and find someone that will treat you right. Don't take that crap from him!

Answer 6

You don't handle a cheating partner you just break up. The only solution to this problem. Too many words....too many lies. Just this: << I wanna break up with you because I know you're unfaithfull and don't refuse it>>.

Answer 7

If you know your partner is cheating and you are open to an open relationship,then there is no problem. Otherwise get rid of your partner.

Answer 8

Do you want to work it out or get out of the relationship??? If you want out tell him it is over and move on...If you wanna work it out than find out why and lay some ground rules. Remember any infidelity is hard to overcome but it can be done.

Answer 9

Why are you allowing competition? I would tell him to hit the bricks. You are letting him treat you badly. Your self-esteem seems shot. Break it off now.

Answer 10

Show him the door and tell him not to let it hit him in the a- - on the way out!