Please list 3 qualities that you find most desirable in a man... for a potential relationship, and 3 more qualities (or maybe the same ones) for a "fling" (however you define it).
If you want to go a step further and give me details, or reasons why you think it is an important quality, then great!
Thanks guys, I'm just curious to see what everyone has to say.
2007-02-28 02:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant most / more desirable qualities, not "move"
2007-02-28 02:45:22 · update #1
relationship: sexy - i have an attraction to him not exactly on him being physically attractive but sexy because of the way he can command my attention by his presence.
dependable- is a man of his word
sel-sacrificing- he can put some things or people on hold because he appreciates me.
and is mutually interested in me.
fling: physically attractive
social - because we will be spending most of our time around other people
fun- can allow me to have fun with him at a boring place instead of him being boring at a fun place.
2007-02-28 02:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Honesty & Trust
2. Respect
3. Willing to compromise
I have been in a rough spot in my relationship lately and these are the most important things to me. I bent over backwards to help the person I love with a serious problem they had and then I found out that they had lied to me about other certain big issues. It makes it really hard to have a relationship when someone breaks the trust you have for them. Respect is also a very big issue. Both me and my room mate are dating these guys from the other side of the country. They were raised very differently then we were. They have no respect for women or strangers and it has very well affected the way they treat us. And comprimise. It sounds simple, but it isnt. Have you ever really sat down and thought about the things you would compromise for another person. Alot of people have a hard time doing it and that is why relationships tend to fail.
There are a lot of other important qualities as well. However I think these are the most important
2007-02-28 02:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!) Honesty - if someone is honest everything else just fits in place.
2) Trustworthy - you don't worry about what they are doing, or who their with. So many people cheat nowadays, it would be nice to find someone who doesn't do that.
3) Dependable - someone who is there during the good and bad times. When people are in relationships they tend to only work things out when everything is good. But, this world is full of
suprises.
2007-02-28 02:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First no flings please.
Second I like a man who makes me feel important.
2007-02-28 02:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by goodness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1)gd personality
2)sense of humour
3)wittily charming
Sry i dont go for flings lol ....maybe if i do ...then i'll say ....
1) Looks 2) looks 3) looks lol ...seriously im not a fling type of gal so ive got no answer for u on that ...
2007-02-28 02:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any of the following or all
honesty
someone who is trustworthy
taller than me
religous or somewhat religious
responsibility
integrety
nice smile
nice eyes
someone who knows what they want in life
someone with goals
someone who is caring
and kind
and generous
someone who knows how to make me smile
hey wait a second i just descrribed my boyfiend..............................maby there is such a thing as the perfect guy.........
2007-02-28 03:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) sense of humor
2) morales
3) looks (you gotta at least be somewhat attractive to someone to make it work)
2007-02-28 02:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
great personality good sense of humor and not to pushy for sexual interaction it 'll only come if your a great guy and you treat me well
2007-02-28 02:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by web gurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋