Okay, im 15 years old going on 16 on april 10th. I met this guy in 7th grade (now im in 10th) and we were friends. In 8th grade he asked me out and I said YES! He is my 1st boyfriend. On april 11th is going to be our 2 yr anniversary. We see eachother EVERYDAY and talk on the phone. He says when we get oldr he wants to be my babys father and hopes to marry me... how do you know when a guy loves you and is FOR REAL? he doesn't lay hand on me. we play around all the time and have great times. we hardly ever argue. He says he would never cheat on me and all but how can I know if hes being 4 real????? Help me I really love this guy and want to be with him for a lifetime. can a first boyfriend be THE ONE? he'd do ANYTHING for me that he would never do for another girl and he'd take a bullet....I'd do anything for him too...
2007-02-28 02:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You two are still young only time will tell be patient and grow with each other through the years. Hold out on sex because it should be special. And hold out on that baby until you are out of school with jobs!
2007-02-28 02:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by JELLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a growing process and TRUST ME when I say that most likely one of you is going to want to experience other relationships at sone point before you commit to each other forever. You are in a stage where you have a lot of emotions and you probably do really care for each other. So you really shouldn't think about your future together, instead just enjoy being with him day to day. You never know, he may be the one you end up with.....but in order for you to realize that, you both have to go through a lot! It's like in the movie "Love and Basketball" or "The Notebook". Watch those and you'll see what I mean. Great movies!!!
2007-02-28 10:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Steenskees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first love is like that, and very intense feelings develop. Having said that, here's what you need to know: You're far too young to worry about whether or not he's the one; odds are, he isn't. Everyone feels like you do with their first love. Know that, as you get older, and more mature, your idea of love will change. You'll always cherish thoughts of your first love, but you will later find the "one" that is right for you. Just enjoy what you have now, but don't commit to a lifetime relationship at this point. Best of luck, and remember, you're feeling "young" love at this time.
2007-02-28 10:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should continue to be his best friend. Although you are fairly young to be thinking about getting married and such, there might still be love for a few youth out there (even though that is not always the case). Do not give up your life to him just yet, but continue to be close to him (until after high school), and if he stays true to his word then you may be able to consider spending the rest of your life with him.
2007-02-28 10:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lixender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop and enjoy how good everything is for now, its to early to be thinking about all of this stuff...So many things change once you graduate and go to college, if you make it through all of those obstacles, then talk about getting married, but for now, just enjoy being young and able to feel this way. Have fun with it.
2007-02-28 11:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl2504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen many, many married couples. The ones who are most devoted to each other and seem inseparable (even 50 years later) are those few who met in their early or mid-teens.
So it is possible that you will remain in love with each other.
The biggest obstacle is that people are not finished becoming who they will be someday. So it is possible to gradually grow in different directions. That is what explains a lot of breakups.
2007-02-28 10:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still very young, but it sounds like youguys have a great relationship. just see where it goes, if he gives you no reason not to trust him then you should trust him. not all guys are slimeballs. just don't do anything you may regret when you get older like get pregnant or married to early. you have the rest of your life for those things. just enjoy it now and see where it goes. good luck
2007-02-28 11:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we never know 100% for sure. we give as good as we get. we try to do the right thing for ourselves and our mates. a first boyfriend or girlfriend can be the one. stick with him and see where things go. Even failed relationships benefit us by helping us learn and grow. Never pass up a chance at love out of fear of failure.
2007-02-28 10:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im am so tired of "too young to have a bf" . you know age doesnt matter im 17 and im about to get married to my first girlfriend too and dont worry. i doubt that the guy is gonna cheat on you. so just keep on doing what you guys do that makes you guys happy dont listen to this youre too young bullshit. just be happy with him and you will see age has nothing to do with love
2007-02-28 10:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by calos lelo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your in the same situation i am but i'm on my second bf and have been with him for almost8 months when you can tell he loves you that means he can say i love you comfortably and snuggle with and makwout with you one thing though when you kiss keep your eyes open and see if he does keep his open stop kissing and ask him why because if you have your eyes open when kissing it means he isnt comfortable or intends on doing something or has something else on his mind see what i mean GOOD LUCK to the both of you
2007-02-28 10:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by web gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋