Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

I have 2 kids, we were together for almost 2 yrs, we had talked of marriage, more kids and all. I started asking for help with paying for my kids, he said he shouldnt have to, they arent his though he loves them like they are. He felt that their fathers should pay, I am working with child support enforcement and we are trying. I kicked him out of my trailer for not at least compromising and now we are just friends, though we are still sleeping together, I help him out with things or if he is sick, I help him. He watches my kids every once in a while for me. He says he doesnt want a girl friend right now and I have found out he had a lot of problems while we were together. I know deep down there is no hope, but with everything we are doing it seems like we are still a couple but no commitment, is he getting his cake and eating it too?

2007-02-28 02:07:26 · 17 answers · asked by Angelunderfire 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:07:15 · 39 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

We are each playing a song to the other without the other knowing which song we picked. I am trying to find a cute song to dedicate to him at our reception. Any cute ideas? Ex: I am betting he will pick "A big ol brew and you" by Mel McDaniel. See its sweet but oh so cute! I had thought about "Dany's Song" by Anne Murray but I am up for suggestions!

2007-02-28 02:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by shook_me_up 1 in Weddings

as you can tell my heart's just been broken and all i have is stacie occrico song- i'm not missing you

2007-02-28 02:05:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Sons Teacher wants to test him for ADHD
I have had 3 family members children who she has also wanted to test for it ,And the teacher is known for having several kids a year tested ,We read the pamplet she gave us and he did not fit any of the signs ,I think that it very misdiagnosed and that he is just bored,he is a very laid back child .But she says that he is being angry towards her,I asked him and he told me it is cause he thinks she hates him and that she picks on him all day and that he can't take it anymore ,sad coming from a 7 year old.I am going to let him be tested but i refuse to have him drugged like a zombie ,And last year his teacher made no complaints,he was student of the day once a week and she was always praising him when i went to field trips and helped out in the classroom,Am i doing the right thing?

2007-02-28 02:04:52 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok ladies, i have a question for you. my ex girlfriend broke up with me about three months ago because she felt certain things were missing in the relationship. i now realize that she is right and i also realize that everything she felt that was missing i also want in a relationship. if you were to break up with a guy and then say three or four months later you two start talking again, and you realize that he really has changed and that he changed for himself and didn't change just to make you happy, would you ever consider getting back together with that person if you knew that he changed all for the better and that he changed for himself because he wants everything in a relationship that you do?

2007-02-28 02:03:33 · 8 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

He is older than me 18 yrs,& I am 30yrs. old. He was married before and got divorced 5 yrs ago. When I ask him if him about getting married he said no. I love him & i know he loves me & maybe he's afraid to get married again. what should I do? Shoul i leave him or give him time? Do you think he will change his mind & well get married, pls help.

2007-02-28 02:03:06 · 16 answers · asked by princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...even from men. I don't actually mind the whistles but I do feel sorry for my bird when she is with me and I also feel sorry for all the other people on the street who are obviously far uglier than me.

I'm thinking of having a kid but fear that if he/she is just as good looking as me they will have to put up with the same s**t. Shall I lay off having a kid for now and just concentrate on making myself even more handsome by getting a new haircut and jacket?

2007-02-28 02:03:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:02:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 02:00:43 · 2 answers · asked by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 in Singles & Dating

the couple is 18 yrs old and they both love each other. explain your answer please.

2007-02-28 02:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by nini v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in a little less than 6 weeks. I bought the clothing for the wedding party (bridesmaids, MOH, groomsmen, ushers, and the BM) isn't it customary that they reimburse me the cost. I budgeted really well and it's only costing the guys $32 a piece (5 guys) and the females $12 a piece. We are using red Docker's dress shirts for the guys and black ties that I purchased from Penney's so they would all match. The shirts were on sale and so were the ties. The females are wearing black skirts, which they all already had and white dress shirts that were on sale for $12 a piece. Is is wrong that I expect them to pay for their clothing?

2007-02-28 02:00:31 · 21 answers · asked by lostinflorida05 3 in Weddings

Yes I am talking about the same guy of whom i thought as gay.&iam feeling sorry for it.Thanks to you all.I know its too long but pls read i need your HELP!!!
I am in love for the first very time.I cant think of any other guy.Pls tell me wht do i do?I think that he likes me but not that much so as2say yes.Bz when i propsed him, he looked into my eyes&gave a sweet smile.He took a day to answer&finally said no.he was sorry for that.I noticed him starring at me a times.i love him2much to forget him.But what should i do?Say sorry&ask for a friendhip?we werent friends b4.But i think its2long for it.It has been a year&more when all this happened.Or i should wait4the exams2get over&then again ask him bz he had made excuse of studieds,Or should i try2forget him.I am not a flirt.trust me.HELP!

2007-02-28 02:00:29 · 10 answers · asked by Z....... 2 in Singles & Dating

We do, we are in our 40's and 50's, very youthful, extremely fit, and have great attitudes. We are a very zestful couple that loves to dance and have drinks out on the town once or twice a month. We are very comfortable around anybody and have younger people that love to dance with us.

Lately, we have friends our age and younger telling us that we need to grow up and that we should act like grownups. Well I politely told these friends that WE CHOOSE NOT TO SIT AT HOME AND ROT like some people we know. I went on further to say we do not plan on having one foot in the grave anytime soon. I went on even further to tell this couple that it is awfully tacky to be telling grown-ups and friends how to live their life.

As a 45 and 55 y/o, are we screwed up for going out and having fun once or twice a month? I think not.

I personally think that some of our friends are jealous that they are fat couch potatoes with no zest. I say it's time to find new like minded friends.

2007-02-28 01:59:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am usually really shy around new people and especially around guys. I have always been this way, and I can't seem to get past it. Any ideas?

2007-02-28 01:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by victoria_lee07 2 in Singles & Dating

The sad thing is it took one man to lie to me to make it hard for me to trust them all. He seemed to sweet and I thought he'd never lie so now I doubt all men. How do I learn to trust guys again?

2007-02-28 01:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the short version. My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. She broke up with me, I was devastated, it ended badly with her telling me not to call/write anymore. Nothing major, just that I think it was her way of wanting to distance herself from the relationship. We haven't spoken or seen each other in two months and what I was wondering is that her birthday is next week. I have been thinking of her lately, do you think I should email and just write to say happy birthday and see how things are? Just a short email and will keep it light. If she responds great, if not that is fine also, but just a short not to say I have been thinking of her and wanted to wish her a happy b-day. Would this be fine? From a woman's perspective, do you think I should? Thanks!

2007-02-28 01:56:16 · 21 answers · asked by justinhanks2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a new job and all the guys were staring at me and i was looking at them but i had to look away because he was staring at me to much and they werent looking at my body they were looking at my face. and i didnt look bad and i didnt have any boogers on my face. so what else could they have been looking at. and their younger then me they are 17 and 18 and im 19

2007-02-28 01:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Friends

Would she be entitled to half of my points?

2007-02-28 01:55:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 01:53:14 · 3 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or do you think he fancies me or hes shy or not advice me plz..

2007-02-28 01:51:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok you got a number of a girl, you really like. you decide to call her and ask her out, whats the best way to do it, i was thinking would it be best to ask her out but with a joke as well. i.e "you free tomorrow, just i brought a new pair of shoes to show off". or "how about you free tomorrow i've just won the lotto so drinks on me, well its only a tenner but hey it all counts". what you reackon guys and if u got any other idea's on how to ask her, please post. thanks.

2007-02-28 01:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by scott h 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me.. i know this guy since one crazy year. we have been having a long affair. i am still in love. he was too. but long ago started looking for other girls & going out. having fun. he also has got 2 kids (which he did hide from me quite some time - when things cleared then.. it had been too late - me in love - he probably a little bit too.. BUT FROM THIS DAY ON HE COOLED DOWN this affair step by step.. like he was trying not to get into love too much)

he lately told me i was the best thing, that happened to him in 2006.

he is too, for me, no doubt.

but he seems to avoid contact. why? any guesses from you, guys, why :-) we are still there for each other, sending messages. and trying to fix a date. but we don't get that far!! we both have too complicated lifes at the moment :-(

i am sad and angry. what to do. i can't get him out of my head. trust me, i TRIED ;-)

2007-02-28 01:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by india18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 01:49:28 · 4 answers · asked by Jeniv the Brit 7 in Friends

my 1st wife left me for someone with money , my kids hate him !!
big time !! i never left my kids they now can see what i did for them i spent 10 years paying 1/3, of my gross pay to my x wife while she drove a brand new bmw and lived in abeach house and still does las time i saw her was at my sons girl friends 21st
she cried to my new wife of 10 years and said how lucky she was
becase she is happy and said that how money dosent make ypu happy my new wife should hAVE punched her out i would habve liked to but its not me but im pissed off for my nuw wife of 10 years for not standing up for me should i not be pissed off !!
it goes on ,,,,, my son and my daughter want to spend lots of time
with me and my new wife of 10 years is jelous of them , but it goes on ,, my mum just died and my new wife says get over it
cause her dad is dying too and i shoud get over it thats life!!
i say wait till his dead then speak ;;;;; i think its time i leave her

2007-02-28 01:49:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

RHCP in March! Woo-hoo! How do I pick? Both good friends.

2007-02-28 01:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Skeezix 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 01:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

recently i told everyone about my ex breaking up with me. Now she say she dont want me anymore because she is happy with her relationship she is in now but the other day she told me her new boyfriend does not want her talking to me so i thought that was it she was never going to talk to me ever agian but this last weekend she blew up my phone calling me but i did not answer because i was sort of busy. So she kept calling so i finally answer and she said "finally you answered your phone i just wanted to know how you were doing and why you dont pick up when i call" and i told her i've been busy.All we talked about was how things were going but she did not mention her boyfriend like she usaully do. Now im sitting here confused and dont know what to do and what she want. she say we can never get back together but she say that i dont believe it cause she would not call me would she so what should i do to get her back or how can i tell when she want me back.PLEASE HELP IM CONFUSED!!!

2007-02-28 01:47:22 · 8 answers · asked by help 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me.. i know this guy since one crazy year. we have been having a long affair. i am still in love. he was too. but long ago started looking for other girls & going out. having fun. he also has got 2 kids (which he did hide from me quite some time - when things cleared then.. it had been too late - me in love - he probably a little bit too.. BUT FROM THIS DAY ON HE COOLED DOWN this affair step by step.. like he was trying not to get into love too much)

he lately told me i was the best thing, that happened to him in 2006.

he is too, for me, no doubt.

but he seems to avoid contact. why? any guesses from you, guys, why :-) we are still there for each other, sending messages. and trying to fix a date. but we don't get that far!! we both have too complicated lifes at the moment :-(

i am sad and angry. what to do. i can't get him out of my head. trust me, i TRIED ;-)

2007-02-28 01:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by india18 2 in Singles & Dating

im sort of in a on off relationship bassicly hes a pratt we saw him twice it could be destiny what if i never see him again

2007-02-28 01:45:55 · 11 answers · asked by Nicola W 1 in Singles & Dating