please help me.. i know this guy since one crazy year. we have been having a long affair. i am still in love. he was too. but long ago started looking for other girls & going out. having fun. he also has got 2 kids (which he did hide from me quite some time - when things cleared then.. it had been too late - me in love - he probably a little bit too.. BUT FROM THIS DAY ON HE COOLED DOWN this affair step by step.. like he was trying not to get into love too much)
he lately told me i was the best thing, that happened to him in 2006.
he is too, for me, no doubt.
but he seems to avoid contact. why? any guesses from you, guys, why :-) we are still there for each other, sending messages. and trying to fix a date. but we don't get that far!! we both have too complicated lifes at the moment :-(
i am sad and angry. what to do. i can't get him out of my head. trust me, i TRIED ;-)
2007-02-28 01:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by india18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don know
never play with married guys with kids would be good
anyway he's already started the playbook
cut loose
hang tight
stay outta sight
2007-02-28 01:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look first of all this guy is married with two kids. By reading your posts neither of you have much moral character. All this guy wants from is a sex when he needs it. No more, no less. He does not care for you as a person. That is what happens when you sell yourself to someone else who is married. You need to move on in life and next time use a little common sense, do not ever get involved with a married man again. Plain and simple this guy does not care for you and he never will.
2007-02-28 09:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do before writing and asking a question is " get your thoughts together first. I don`t know how old you are, but the way your phrasing your thoughts makes me believe your young and immature. I'm not criticizing you, you are what you are.
All men will tell a women anything to get them in bed, so if you digest that little part of what I'm saying your ahead of the game
2007-02-28 10:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was a question on here about "players" earlier, i think you met one. He is using you for benefits. He is a liar, and a cheat, and doesnt want a commitment, although he is probably telling you and three other girls that you are the special one he is gonna be with. Get him out of your head by finding someone else, guys are a dime a dozen out there, even the nice ones.
2007-02-28 09:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just stop, it'll hurt but you will get better. You really don't need this dude. He's telling you things to keep you on a leash. Did he stare you in the eyes, blinking away tears when he told you your the best thing that's happened to him? Break it off, deal with the pain., move on. You'll be happier in the long run
2007-02-28 09:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll things are clear. u have to accept that he has his own family, & he is responsible to them. thus he is trying to avoid you. I think if he is happy in with family, then both of you should sit together, & decide. if u feel that he is devoted to his family, then both of u should end up. It will be hard for u, but sacrifice is another word for love.
2007-02-28 09:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by technologyexplained 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may be his wife came to know abt your affair or he wants to get rid of you or he may want you take care you by another man...
2007-02-28 09:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has found someone else and doesnt know how to break it to you
2007-02-28 09:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Hugh J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋