recently i told everyone about my ex breaking up with me. Now she say she dont want me anymore because she is happy with her relationship she is in now but the other day she told me her new boyfriend does not want her talking to me so i thought that was it she was never going to talk to me ever agian but this last weekend she blew up my phone calling me but i did not answer because i was sort of busy. So she kept calling so i finally answer and she said "finally you answered your phone i just wanted to know how you were doing and why you dont pick up when i call" and i told her i've been busy.All we talked about was how things were going but she did not mention her boyfriend like she usaully do. Now im sitting here confused and dont know what to do and what she want. she say we can never get back together but she say that i dont believe it cause she would not call me would she so what should i do to get her back or how can i tell when she want me back.PLEASE HELP IM CONFUSED!!!
2007-02-28 01:47:22 · 8 answers · asked by help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you ppl understand finally i appreciate everyones help we have been dating for 9 months and in one day it blew up in my face
2007-02-28 02:18:03 · update #1
Right now she may be in a controlling relationship Yeah that fast , She may want to be with you but scared of the other person . She most likely feels comfortable talking to you with out telling you whats really going on . Be a friend to her and see what is really going on . Let her know you still love her and you will be there for her . Good Luck !
2007-02-28 02:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing games with you to see if you'll take her back!
You should remind her she said: She does not want to talk to you anymore, and then she calls you and expects you to pick up right away? Ask her point blank what her deal is and let her know that you don't want to play games.
Decide for yourself what you want in a relationship! What do YOU want to do? Don't you think you deserve better than game playing?
2007-02-28 10:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gramms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on guy, you don't have time to be playing game unless you 13 game time is over you need to go find someone that wants to be with you and not calling to see if they can make you just throw hoops on command.
Would you like to be friend with her? That’s fine but don't hold on if she seeing someone, remember who left whom.
I’ll say it again let her be and move on for now until she really knows what she wants and then you have some thinking to do, but not before then go live your life.
Good luck and happy hunting
2007-02-28 09:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she wants to have her cake and eat it too.
She might have thought the idea of having this new bf was going to change everything or make you jealous...you were doing the right thing by not answering those calls...
She needs to deicde what she wants...
Obviously you still like her love her? Or else you wouldn't be confused and answering her calls...
If you don't want to date her anymore then tell her you don't think its right calling her because her bf doesn't like it.
Or next time she calls ask how her and her bf are doing.
Either way she seems like shes trying to play both of you and thats not right...how long were you guys together?
2007-02-28 09:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by colie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people want what they think they can no longer have. I don't advise playing games but don't run to her. If she wants you then be there for her but don't go out of your way for her either. This will allow you to start healing and if she does have anything left for you she will come around. Don't hold your breath though most of the time people tell you what they truly feel and we just don't want to believe them.
2007-02-28 10:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by pitre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this girl loves u still but want u go to her n beg to get her back n ur life.N i think she is just trying to make u jelious by saying all those lie about her new bf.Just gear up n wait a while she will come back to ur life by her own.Just call her or best send a mail ,say u still love her n want to get back d old loving relationship,but if she dont want then its ok.................But she cant take d right to love her anyways.........then dont try to contact anymore.Wait n c what is her next step.
2007-02-28 09:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the fact that her new bf asked her not to talk to u again means nothing to her cos she calls you and that is reason enough for you to know that she wants you and wants to be with you. i also think u have to be firm and let her know u want her and that she should decide between you and him.
U seem to be there for her always, this is the time for a positive artitude and she will come around.
All the best
2007-02-28 10:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she isent as happy as she says she is and wants to get back together
2007-02-28 09:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋