their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or do you think he fancies me or hes shy or not advice me plz..
2007-02-28 01:51:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is acquiring social skills, why get bogged down at 15 ? he has at least 10 years to play the field ! after that he should know what he wants in a woman and so should you !
2007-02-28 01:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by lisalau 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he thinks you're nice, but he doesn't want to encourage you too much - in fairness, you have been a bit silly in the past.
Step back and move on, there are other guys out there. This guy might like you better in a few years. You never know what the future will bring.
2007-02-28 09:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really isn't worth it. He doesn't dare to flirt with you in case you might think that you have a chance with him. Your friends are right, he doesn't like you that way and might never will. It's hard for you two to become good friends now because of the awkwardness between you two.
2007-02-28 10:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he defiantly fancies you, it's always the ones that they don't fancy, they flirt with because they're not bothered if the girl likes them or not.Its because he fancies you that he get's emmbarrased incase you don't feel the same. Also boys like to look hard to their mates, maybe his friends don't have girlfriends yet and he doesn't want to look silly in front of them.
2007-03-02 14:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a crush...just remember boys mature slower than girls. He might like you but because of some odd reason he might not want to let you know. Your better off trying to either facing him and telling him you like him face to face or forgetting he exist. Good Luck
2007-02-28 09:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax he is your friend-just be friends with him-and if anyone asks just say i like him as a friend-dont say you fancy him. see what happens- I fancied my g/f and she fancied me now we are waiting till she is out of school and going to get married and waiting in honor too-no sex till marriage. but i use to be a bad guy who flirted and did that stuff and i asked Jesus into my heart to forgive me and help me do better, and be my friend.
that worked best-and he said he would in Revelation 3:19& 20th verses in the bible!
2007-02-28 09:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Up! take take him by the hand and kiss him you'll have your answer in a few minutes. stop saying you two or shy to each other if your hang out together all the time.
Time to go get what you want.
2007-02-28 10:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. he doesnt seem worth it. if he does like you then he will tell you. he doesnt seem shy flirting with other girls. you seem to be making more of an effort that you need to. dont talk to him for a while- dont completly ignor him, but dont start convos. see what he does.
2007-02-28 12:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh blesss! he soooooooo likes u! this boy does like u but boys are very different to girls about expressing there feelings.think about it.......he has heard from eveyone else u fancy him but he aint heard it form u! u need to ask him out straight up! if he is on msn or u see him walkin to school ask him if he wants to c a film or something, but make sure your both alone wen u do this! if he ignores u or says no then his loss. believe me he likes u! a boy in high school used to bully me every day then as he matured he confessed its cos he fancied me! boys are weird!! good luck!..
2007-02-28 10:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by catherine f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boys do this to tease you. he is just pulling your leg and he knows this annoys you as he has pulled this stunt before and it worked for him and he will keep on doing it until you either stop him or you do a little flirting yourself and not with him...good luck as boys are just young men who are not mature enough for a real women
2007-02-28 09:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋