I am usually really shy around new people and especially around guys. I have always been this way, and I can't seem to get past it. Any ideas?
2007-02-28 01:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by victoria_lee07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All your friends know that you are a shy person and that you are sometimes anti-social. Meeting new people is a fresh start to break out of that shyness and to step out into the social scene. You have to express your opinion more. When someones comes up to you just start off by smiling and saying hi, how are you? You might discover that you have something in common with that person. When it comes to boys, they like someone who is outgoing and speaks her mind about things. If a man comes up to you, show some interest and compliment him. Don't look so nervous and show confidence in yourself. A man likes a confident woman. CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY!!
2007-02-28 02:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a little more self confidence or try being funny that can loosen you up. people always tell me that im shy, but mostly im just quiet. i took a class this summer in public speaking and had to give 2 speeches every week. after a class like that it doesnt bother me to talk to people. they say in fact that taking a public speaking class will not only help with your fear of talking to big groups but even at work or in a meeting or with just a small group of friends even one on one. maybe you should take a class. i thought it was going to be torture but the class was actually fun.
2007-02-28 02:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am shy too, slowly put yourself in situations that make you uncomfortable and soon you wont be. Make it a goal to say hi to a certain number of people you dont know in a day. Its hard and I am still shy but not nearly as bad as I once was. Being shy isnt necessarily a bad thing, it is part of your personality.
2007-02-28 02:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be surprise
I will suggest you to be your self and keeping shy
i m a man and i found shy young lady more attractive and she hold a more feminine feelings and attractive - As that a main part of F. pretty
meanwhile of you think of changing you will be not that cute victoria
2007-02-28 02:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Travel2Jordan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy, yet you prefer to invite a woman out. the place do you prefer to take her? What day and time? If she's says she's busy on the day you provide her for a date, do you have a returned up day, as in "nicely, how approximately next Tuesday then?" If she turns that down then think of approximately asking her in case you textual content cloth, digital mail, call her. And which you in basic terms opt for to get to be responsive to her. keep your first date basic, short, and casual. no longer something dramatic. no longer something extreme. no longer something fancy or high priced. basic. you may desire to work out your shyness no longer in simple terms as a criminal accountability, yet in addition as an asset. females sense complimented while men are shy around them. you in basic terms do no longer opt for to over do it. think of of your shyness as being diverse. you're unique and additionally you be responsive to it. the place others dance and shout, you take a seat and dream. do no longer attempt to triumph over your shyness. cope with it. stay with it. Take small steps. do no longer assume to be the existence of the social gathering, yet do no longer grow to be the spoiler the two. consult with some human beings. no longer great communities. Be friendly to anybody. Shy human beings have a power. they do no longer choose others to validate them. they do no longer could desire to be in the spotlight. they have plans and are not conceited. Oh, and the worst ingredient which could take place in case you ask her out is which you will finally end up the place you at the instant are, no longer on a date along with her. And the perfect ingredient which could take place, you are able to finally end up on a date along with her.
2016-10-02 02:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont be nervous and be free, talk about anything, guys love it when girls talk to them. Juse leave the past behind and start a new life.
2007-02-28 02:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find things you are good at and talk about it in public
read a lot of books
imitate the courageous peope around you
when you meet someone new smile, shake their hands and tell them you name
always try to look people in the eye
2007-02-28 02:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my advice is to look at it this way, just be urself and if some 1 doesnt like u for who u are then u dont need them. dont be afraid to be urself.
2007-02-28 02:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to believe in your self big time girl. u have to be very very confident of urself. dats da only way i know.
2007-02-28 02:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets chat - I'll help you overcome your shyness
Gaurenteed!!
or double your shyness back!
2007-02-28 02:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Hairy Monster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋