We do, we are in our 40's and 50's, very youthful, extremely fit, and have great attitudes. We are a very zestful couple that loves to dance and have drinks out on the town once or twice a month. We are very comfortable around anybody and have younger people that love to dance with us.
Lately, we have friends our age and younger telling us that we need to grow up and that we should act like grownups. Well I politely told these friends that WE CHOOSE NOT TO SIT AT HOME AND ROT like some people we know. I went on further to say we do not plan on having one foot in the grave anytime soon. I went on even further to tell this couple that it is awfully tacky to be telling grown-ups and friends how to live their life.
As a 45 and 55 y/o, are we screwed up for going out and having fun once or twice a month? I think not.
I personally think that some of our friends are jealous that they are fat couch potatoes with no zest. I say it's time to find new like minded friends.
2007-02-28 01:59:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You dont require an answer. You have them all. Do whatever you choose to do. You're both happy with your lifestyle. There's nothing wrong with doing what you both love doing. You'll slow down when you feel it's necessary. Until then, ENJOY to the fullest!
2007-02-28 02:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is their problem, not yours. Most people in their 40's and 50's often lead a sedate life so when they see some one living live to the fullest, they get jealous. I believe it is jealousy.
Sounds like you need new friends. I would drop any friend that would come at me like that.
Keep dancing and keep partying if that is what you enjoy.
2007-02-28 02:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Momma K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from the same age group
My grand kids love both my dune buggies, 21 cuddy cabin boat, etc. almost all our friends a younger as the older friends no longer relate.
So do what you do and enjoy the hell out of it. Were all going to die sooner or later. But you'll carry me out with a smile on my face ;}
2007-02-28 02:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the is great the you and your wife still get together and have fun doing something together the you guys like, you don't see many mature couples like you going out, because they are all ready divorce, and maybe if they have make time to have fun like you do they will still together.GOOD FOR YOU, HAVE FUN
2007-02-28 05:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you!!
they don;t like what you are doing - screw them!
go out and have a fun time.
enjoy life.
gain new insighs into people.
just make sure hubby does not have his hand up some other girls skirt while you are dancing - its a big temptation to overcome!
2007-02-28 02:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Hairy Monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 35 and I admire you for your will to enjoy life. If you are able to, why not?? Life is short. Enjoy it and make the most of it.
2007-02-28 02:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 22:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure hon, you need new friends. have fun we do , we go to concerts, play on the lake, weekend trips life is way too short
2007-02-28 02:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short...if you enjoy it...keep doing it. As for your friends who don't agree, just don't bother inviting them with you 2.
2007-02-28 02:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever heard of 'young at heart'? Please don't make some old junkies make you feel fagged out. Go to town and enjoy yourself!
2007-02-28 02:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by Flaky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋