What's the best way to get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed?

Question

My boyfriend being smoking weed for about 5 years, does anyone know a good way he can stop smoking it so much or even just stop all together? he's stopped b4 but went straight bk on it when hes mates were makin fun of him for bein under the thumb , he needs to stop coz i cant handle the parrnoia it's driving me mad!!!

He does do the cute puppy dog face aswell i feel bad when i moan about stuff :( i do love him lots

Answer 1

Girl, he's only gonna stop smoking it when HE wants to and not a minute, hour, day before. He's probably become so reliant on it now that it's become a part of his daily routine much like one of my exes.

If he knows you don't like it and he's aware of the health implications associated with smoking weed and he still has no intention of quitting, than maybe you could suggest he cuts down his useage first?

Failing that, leave. Why tolerate someone's habit if it upsets you?

Answer 2

I've been doing that for about 5 years too... I just stopped plain and simple, it's all mental to me. After the first two weeks you being to be normal again. Talk to him, honestly, if you want to keep him, if he doesn't change leave, him smoking can get you into a lot of trouble, as far as the law goes.

Answer 3

Tell him how you feel its affecting your relationship and if that doesn't matter to him then sling him your relationship must come first. My b/f only smokes it in the morning cos he does night shift and it helps him get to sleep in the daylight, but he never smokes it in front of me cos he has got to much respect for me and i appreciate that maybe you copuld compromise and he could do that for you.

Answer 4

well it's hard i guess if he had respect for you he would consider your wishes i married very young took on her lad to, any how 17 years on she walked out on me and our four sons my three sons one step son "all treated just the same, and he got in with the crowd i found the bongs his mother my now ex wife said were "models" yer any way as i pointed out i loved them all the same and i called the police on him in the Finnish hard thing to do but did best thing i could do he's a head chef now of drugs doing really well, don't let him suck you in with puppy dog any thing sounds like he don't know his breads buttered

Answer 5

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Answer 6

sit down with him and talk to him. Tell him how you feel and if there is any reason to stop it should be for you. Say "Baby I love you but smoking this weed is driving you crazy and if you can't stop for yourself stop for me" It'll make him think about his choses in life.

Answer 7

It sounds like he is a bit immature, since his friends so easily sway him.

You might want to tell him that if listening to his friends is more important than compromising with you, you will not be able to stay in the relationship. That might be enough to wake him up.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 8

My now husband did the same. I tried reverse psychology and said stuff like "I bet you can't give it up", his reply to that was "Bet you couldn't give up chocolate"

So we both decided to give them up to see who could last the longest. Anyway it worked he very rarely smokes weed (I still eat chocolate thou;-)

Answer 9

you cant stop him, he wont do it if he doesnt want to, he will only end up doing it behind your back. discuss it, if he wont stop then make a decision the decision that is best for you, whatever you decide good luck xxxxx

Answer 10

I guess he will only stop when HE wants to stop.

I would tell him you want a break, and leave him alone for a couple of days.....give him the ultimatium if you have to.....