Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

I have grandparents who have adopted my dad from France. Last summer, I had the opportunity to meet them in person for the first time in France. After learning alot about their lifestyle, (I was there for 2 1/2 months), I have come to realize that I want to relocate myself to France to stay with my grandparents. I am studying French and I want to know the language very well first to move. How long should I wait to move?

2007-02-28 06:23:32 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Family

I know the first thing you will probably say is we spend too much time together, this we are working on. But I know he is not phycially seeing anyone because we work together, live together and do everything together, mainly cause we have one car. I can honestly say he doesn't go anywhere. We have been together for a year and he has never cheated on me before. He is just acting different, distance, loving me one day and hating me the next. Anyone actually experienced this before and can tell me the signs of how he acts. We don't have a computer at home so it would have to be at work via e-mail or phone. Please help me.

2007-02-28 06:23:23 · 4 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to but just cant

2007-02-28 06:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by purple kangaroo! 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my ex are back togther, takin things slow he wonts mt to not get funny bout him going out, and doesnt wanna see me 247 any more now that i am use to seeing him 247 lol.
he goe out a lot and wen he see me we jus watch tv i said i wana go out with him do thinghs togther not jus him with his mates and i see him with a hangover so he just wonts tlc i get a lil bored. i will chat 2 him 2nite .

2007-02-28 06:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 36y/o white male (unnecessary info really), divorced, father of one. Im attractive and fit. I have never had a female **** buddy... aka friend with benefits. They have always turned into relationships. How do I ask someone to be my special pal? This sounds so weak but Ive never done this b4. Im very busy, and emotionally not ready for a relationship. I have thought about... gulp... escort... but cant bring myself to do it. I have noone in mind but I dont want to cause any damage to myself nor anyone eles by getting into another relationship.Serious answers only please.

2007-02-28 06:21:37 · 29 answers · asked by Surrendered 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend/best friend cheated on me and left me for someone else. He lied about it when I asked him to tell me the truth. I found out about it anyway though. He was the last person in the world I would have expected this from. At first I was really sad about it, but now that it's sunk in I'm just so angry and I don't know how to get past it. I haven't spoke with him since we've broken up and I don't think I want to. Anyone been through the same thing and can offer some advice? All I can think about is how angry I am and how much I want to just punch him and make him hurt. I'm not a violent person though, never have been. I know i need to let go and move on but I don't know how.

2007-02-28 06:21:23 · 9 answers · asked by MaryJane 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like my husband is sucking all the energy out of me like a vampire. He doesn't give me what I need to go on with my days. With him, it's like hanging in there minute by minute cause you never know when a fight is to break out or something bad is going to happen. I know it's not supposed to be this way. I just wanted to get that off my chest.

2007-02-28 06:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 06:20:46 · 24 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been married now 6 years...and have three kids. All its missing is the picket fence and a dog and we would have the picture perfect life. Problem is...is that my wife is the kind of woman who has to have things 100% her way. If she doesnt get that she will yell, scream, ***** and drive you so crazy you will do what she wants just to stop the mouth from moving. I love my kids. They are the only reason im still in this. But now we have gone from a husband and a wife....to roomates. And yes....i dont have sex with my wife. I dont even bring up the subject or even try anything. Im from texas and all of my friends think im crazy...but how can a man been intimate with someone who would rather yell and be nasty 24/7?

am i wrong? oh...and yes i help with the kids....and work, but even there since im always wrong and can do no right, its hard to help out when i mess up everything i touch.

2007-02-28 06:20:08 · 16 answers · asked by Lucky7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

~*love*~

2007-02-28 06:20:07 · 17 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy and he practically does everything to ruin my life i asked him what's his problem a couple of times but he just grins like an idiot and ignores me what do i do?!

2007-02-28 06:19:49 · 30 answers · asked by bananas! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for 8 months and I knew five months in that I loved him and at the time he did not feel the same way. Now it has been two more months and he still is not sure if he loves me or not. How long do I stay if he does not love me and is there a time when you walk away if love is not in a relationship.

2007-02-28 06:19:47 · 24 answers · asked by jk 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so to make a story short i like him, he knows, we're good friends, nothing more for now, tommorrow's his b-day, i wanna get him something, but not something that will say "i like you" and not too expensivem, so wtvr any suggestions for presents?

2007-02-28 06:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by harvardbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

I have twice now, real love i mean not lust.

x

2007-02-28 06:18:29 · 21 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

why do some men do it and others dont? does anyone think it means anything if they do or dont? Is there more of a connection if they do?

2007-02-28 06:17:22 · 23 answers · asked by goaway 2 in Singles & Dating

When you break up with someone whats the best thing to do or when they break up with you? A.) Try to make it work again. B.) Don't talk to that person anymore and find someone better. C.) Other (your opinion)

2007-02-28 06:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever thought of your best friend on Earth and just break out sobbing because you know they're there for you no matter what? I personally feel God sent an angel to me when i was in serious need of a friend. This was when my father passed and I was in a serious state of depression.

2007-02-28 06:16:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i got bf. he is in usa

2007-02-28 06:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been looking at several answers on here and it seems like a majority of the women on here swear a man that has done them wrong can't change. Like they'll say "once a dog, always a dog", "once a liar always a liar",etc... If a man is truly committed to changing his life for the better for HIMSELF then why is it so hard for some women to accept and embrace the change and continue to lable him for what he's done in the past?

2007-02-28 06:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by so_sincere 2 in Singles & Dating

my name is morgan and im 16. theres this guy mado. hes always doin sweet things 4 me and begging me 2 give him a chance. he said that he never cheated on my friend. my friends said he did cause this other guy told her that last year. the dude who told her was one of mados enemies. the other day the guy her told my friend admitted it. but my friend wont believe me. so what do i do? go out w/ him? i know i love him cause when me and him were alone once. we kissed. and i just felt something i had never felt b4. so what do i do?

2007-02-28 06:15:07 · 7 answers · asked by morgan s 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. im 24 and he's 20.. I love him to death and really want to be with him. he breaks up with me almost every week so we dont talk too often or see each other. i begin to feel depressed so i call him all the time and ask him to be with me. when i do talk to him he hardly ever wants to talk and says that i always p*** him off. he calls me names all the time icluding the B and H.. i really want to be with him and i just dont know what to do..=( every t ime he wants to see me or talk to me i always agree. i do every thing for him.. my friends say to leave him, buts its not easy because we have shared alot. i feel that at this time i need him the most because im finally moving out of my parents house and would love for him to see me doing good on my own.

2007-02-28 06:14:57 · 8 answers · asked by lynda 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is married and so is his new OTHER woman . He has had a vasectomy and she has her tubes tied and she also has some GYN problems any way he tell me she is pregnant and that she aint had sex with her hubby in 18 months. What are the chances that this could be his? His kids are teenagers by his wife. I told him she should abort and for him to leave her alone. He thinks this kid is a gift from above to straighten him out. ( he has been separeted for 5 years) I told him satan sends blessing also. How do I talk him out of this situation. Nothing good os gonna come of this! If it is his its a mioracle since they both are suppose to be sterile!

2007-02-28 06:14:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently was talking with one of my woman friends and somehow we came on to the subject of strippers. Initially. her view was that it was a negative thing as it was "exploiting " women as well as objectifying them.I had to disagree. I think it empowers women and illustates a kind of superiority of the female gender. The word exploit(in verb form) means "to maximize the use of something for one's own personal gain" It seems to me it is the women who are doing the exploiting (and more power to them!) They are simply showing off their bodies and men pay them. No real service provided, no goods exchanged. Payment for the privilege of merely looking. (yes, I know other things happen but lets simply look at "exotic dancing') Men are so influenced by their sex drive-me included- that they pay to look. I think that is an example of who really is in control of the gender game.And I think it's great.I think women deserve much more respect then they get.Anyway, what does anyone else think?

2007-02-28 06:14:02 · 4 answers · asked by Mike Oxard 2 in Singles & Dating

he says the lovelyist things and makes me smile but then he just says something rude.. he said to me i look preety and then he says jokes like im fat or watever as a joke.. cnt he just say these nice things and leave it at that.. WHY does he have to just cover it up??

2007-02-28 06:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I let him know I want to be with him too? He`s asked me to be his girlfriend but I didn`t answer him right away, because I didn`t know what his intentions were. Now I am pretty sure he is a good guy and that he is interested, after all he keeps sending me messages, but I feel he is being more careful as if he was afraid I would reject him. How can I let him know I want it too?
I have never had any intention of hurting him, that is why I waited with my answer.

2007-02-28 06:13:35 · 2 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Singles & Dating

Me n my bf have been dating for a year and a half now and it seems like things have gotten worse and worse. We fight like an old married couple and hes really rough with me and the bruises are getting harder and harder to explain. He doset beat me but he yanks me up by my wrists and hits me in the legs and stuff like that. Hes helped me through so many things, deaths in the family and my house burning down, and we love each other more than anything but i cant handle the fighting or abusiveness i stay in hopes things will change; can they?

2007-02-28 06:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by Bitter Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

Medication may work but a razor, blow torch, or fire crackers would be quicker. Can I get anyone to help. Very serious answers only. I am in love with Tyroneous and he can't find out about this.

2007-02-28 06:10:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello im a mother of a college student,shes 18 yrs old and haveing alot of stress issues regarding full time student working full time and paying her rent truck etc... she went to the dr about a heart related issue and she asked to move home , my husband thinks she is just saying that and hes very jeoulse (cant spell ) any way im haveing a very difficult time pleasing everyone .By the way my daughter is not his.Hes makeing life missriable plese help any answeres??? Thanks a concerning mom who wantsthe best for her child!!

2007-02-28 06:08:16 · 7 answers · asked by Leslie F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships