Me n my bf have been dating for a year and a half now and it seems like things have gotten worse and worse. We fight like an old married couple and hes really rough with me and the bruises are getting harder and harder to explain. He doset beat me but he yanks me up by my wrists and hits me in the legs and stuff like that. Hes helped me through so many things, deaths in the family and my house burning down, and we love each other more than anything but i cant handle the fighting or abusiveness i stay in hopes things will change; can they?
2007-02-28 06:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by Bitter Beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you have to make things sound so difficult... aguements are part of being in a relationship... there is no such thing as a perfect relationship... the only time when you should be complaing is if he does get very abusive... then thats somthing to worry about... and he's been there with you... through your many trubles and trials... if you wants something to happen... and both have to talk about it... do something about it... if you want change... take that step... communication is the best key in a relationship... without communication... how are we to understand how the other is feeling in curtain times... things can change... some one just has to take that first step to do somthing about it...
2007-02-28 06:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, unless he seeks help for his anger. You two should work on this problem before he really hurts you. Statistically, these relationships get worse. You are worth more !!! There are PLENTY of loving men out there that will be there for you in many situations without physically hurting you.
Also, the more this goes on the more you will start to resent him. This will probably (hopefully ) end your relationship, anyway, so at this point you are just wasting your time staying in this relationship.
2007-02-28 06:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by RJsGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u guys need to talk about things and not fight. If he yanks u and hits your leg its the samething as he hits u I hope u know that, he does not have the right to do this to u.. and get out know or it could it worse and I know u love him, but love yourself.
2007-02-28 06:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by shorty21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, unless when he does put his hands on you. You kick his *** so FN hard that he cant believe that you did it. Then let him know you are not the one the be played on. You are not a toy and you dont allow yourself to be treated like one. Once a guy hits you you'd better believe ther is no end to it. Unless you kick his *** and roll out........
2007-02-28 06:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you know that. When you have had enough you will leave..and its still abuse. My boyfrined and I started out like that...it is just a matter of time sweetie. At this point no one can tell you what to do...but like I said, when you are ready you will leave.
2007-02-28 06:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT love. Love doesn't leave bruises. Don't stay thinking you can change him, you can't. GET OUT NOW! Get counselling for abused women.
2007-02-28 06:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl you better leave before you get pregnant and realy have to deal with him for the rest of your life he is not going to change it will only get worse and that is no kind of love him hitting you
2007-02-28 06:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
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2007-02-28 06:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should put yourself through that...think really hard about it...things, I think, would get worse before they get better. be careful
2007-02-28 06:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋