My best friend is married and so is his new OTHER woman . He has had a vasectomy and she has her tubes tied and she also has some GYN problems any way he tell me she is pregnant and that she aint had sex with her hubby in 18 months. What are the chances that this could be his? His kids are teenagers by his wife. I told him she should abort and for him to leave her alone. He thinks this kid is a gift from above to straighten him out. ( he has been separeted for 5 years) I told him satan sends blessing also. How do I talk him out of this situation. Nothing good os gonna come of this! If it is his its a mioracle since they both are suppose to be sterile!
2007-02-28 06:14:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WELL, IT'S HER DECISION AND ONLY HERS TO ABORT. SHE PROBABLY HAS MORE TO LOSE THAN HIM SO I DON'T KNOW WHY SHE'D FAKE IT.
IF HE THINKS IT'S A BLESSING, MAYBE HE IS A GOOD PERSON AND ACTUALLY WOULD WANT A CHILD, UNLIKE MOST MEN WHO WOULD AUTOMATICALLY SAY "THAT KID ISN'T MINE!!"
I WOULD ADVISE HIM TO NOT MAKE ANY RASH DECISIONS JUST YET AND TO WAIT THINGS OUT. IF HE TRULY IS CONCERNED THAT IT'S HIS, GET A DNA TEST WHEN THE BABY IS BORN.
2007-02-28 06:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could it be that this other women is making this up to mess with this guys head . and if she is really pregant then he should have him self checked to make sure he's still shooting blanks
2007-02-28 06:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋