When you break up with someone whats the best thing to do or when they break up with you? A.) Try to make it work again. B.) Don't talk to that person anymore and find someone better. C.) Other (your opinion)
2007-02-28 06:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"B" It really just depends on a lot of things.. If she broke up with you the best thing to do is let her go and find someone new. If she wants to talk to you, let her call you. If she wanted to talk to you all the time she would have stayed with you. It will be hard to move on especially if you 2 were seeing each other for a long time. You don't want to get a restraining order on you cause you happen to be stalking her, and I'm not saying you are, but she might take it as you are. If she still has strong feelings for you and you do to as well, and she is trying to make things work then it is your call from that point.. But do your best to do "B" if at all possible, but this is just my opinion.
2007-02-28 06:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a sensitive subject for any number of reasons... there's too much hurt to try again or vice versa in the their is a feeling inside not allowing you to just give up.
I'll speak from experience. My fiancee' and I have been together for 4 years... off and on! The reason we never just walked away was because we both new underneath all the drama and issues we were both young and didn't recognize the fact that there was something about "us" that made sense. We took a final break last summer and during that time we made stupid decisions on our own and somehow managed to grow up at the same time. At the end of the summer we had a long heart to heart and through that talk realized that we BOTH discovered that we were uncomplete without the other. I know... it sounds uber cheesy and "romantic comedy" ish.
The point I"m trying to make is this. If there is something inside telling you that you have probably just made the biggest mistake EVER ask the other person if they feel the same way!
Several people we know have gone through the "on again, off again" thing and even though it hurt during those times... they, and us, are more happy than ever.
It's really up to you and what you feel. Trust me... when you've found someone you can't live without, you JUST KNOW IT! :)
Good Luck.
2007-02-28 06:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by AAH 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you both want to still be friends... be like friends... if you think it might still work out... find out and ask if it'll work out... no body knows your out come... but you make your own decisions in life... its your life... you live it how you want it... dont be controled and become some thing you dont be... if she doesnt want to talk to you anymore than that's how it is... dont make it sound like its the end of the world... there are many more out there... and they can be better then what you expect...
2007-02-28 06:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to maintain a civil relationship with the person.
2007-02-28 06:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Julia H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when i break up with some i want to be left alone so tht person better not to try talkin to me ....
n when someone dumps me then yeah move on find someone else....
2007-02-28 06:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by ninjagal3000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rip the band-aid off in one fast yank..If you see the ex in public be polite. Avoid if possible. No drunk phone calls and try to stay away from the booty call
2007-02-28 06:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by kevin t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cutting the contact is the best. (at least at first) Don't talk to them until everyone is healed. After that, if both people wish, then being friendly is ok.
2007-02-28 06:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends do you still like this person? and why did they break up with you? I can't really help much without knowing this.
2007-02-28 06:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
C. Other.
B would be correct if you'd left out the part about not talking to that person any more. You can be pleasant.
2007-02-28 06:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if its not working anymore, why stay?
2007-02-28 06:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by `red 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋