Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

We have been friends for years but only good friends for months. Lately, we have become very close friends. I am a guy, and she is a girl. I told her four times over the last year that I like her a whole lot but only want a friendship. She said she values our friendship and wanted the same. She hoped our friendship would grow even after what I said, so it did continually until now we are closest friends! I tried to tell her that I cannot be a closer friend without my feelings growing, but she continues to get closer. WHAT THE HECK DOES SHE WANT??? I am going nuts, and I love her now!!!

2007-02-28 06:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Friends

the girl is taller in a realtionship...cuz my boy friend is like 3 inches shorter...is that okay?

2007-02-28 06:46:45 · 11 answers · asked by Kaylee 3 in Singles & Dating

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her

2007-02-28 06:46:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:46:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong or start judging me as being selfish, I support him-emotionally, finacially & physcially, I do help with the business as much as I can, I know that this business is his dream I understand it's hard on him & it takes ALOT from him, but ALL I ask for is 30 minutes a day-15 b4 work & 15 after, that's not alot, I don't even require seeing him as long as we TALK for those little 30 mintues a day, and I can't even get that, he knows we have a problem & apologizes for it, but yet doesn't do anything about it.

2007-02-28 06:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've dated a man for almost seven years, and one year ago we had a child together. After she was born, we began to drift apart from lack of communication and many other things. A few months ago, he dumped me, dated another girl within a week. We both realized that we had made some mistakes and wanted to give it another shot, so he dumped her and we got back together. After 2 weeks, he realized he needed to get counseling in order to be in the relationship 100%, so we stopped dating again. 3 days ago, he told me that he had started having sex with the other girl after we broke up again and now she's pregnant. It is a fifty-fifty chance this is his child, for she's been known to sleep around. Now he doesn't know how to fix this and I don't know how to approach this. All I know is that I have loved him for seven years and I want to do what is best for my daughter...and if the other child is his, I want him to do right by that baby. What do you think I should do?

2007-02-28 06:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by Sadmomma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is "Extreme Poverty"

2007-02-28 06:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like him to know I'm interested, but I am much to shy to step out of my comfort zone or make an effort to flirt or compliment him. It takes a lot sometimes for me to step out of my shell but I'm afraid that because of this I'll never find out what he thinks of me. What else can I do without having to overstep my own boundaries? I just can't bring myself to give a compliment or flirt. Because it takes so much effort to do things like that, I feel like they would somehow sound fake or insincere or like I am desperate or trying too hard!

2007-02-28 06:45:19 · 2 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

Last weekend I and my bf went for a little travel.
We've seen each other for 6 weeks.
He arranged the whole thing, it was a surprise for me.
So he paid the hotel rental, car rental fee. quite good hotel, so I think quite expensive. But I didn't how to say I want to share the fee with him. So I just paid for some dinners.

Should I share the hotel rental fee after the travel?
PS: we are in Pairs, and both have good jobs.

2007-02-28 06:44:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is a gourmet cook, at least I think so. And I love her cinnaman bread with fried chicken! One of the reason I fell in love with her to be honest. One of my buddies asked if she could cater his office party next month. I say no way ... but he's also my boss not sure what to do.

2007-02-28 06:44:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we were dating for a few weeks then came a night when we were both drunk and had sex, and also changed our relationship status on facebook to be "in a relationship". To be honest, we both didnt remember much of that night but I was kinda happy that we were "in a relationship". Last night he told me that we needed to take a step back and should go back to dating again, because he thought we didnt know each other well enough to be in a relationship. He said he still liked me and still wanted to take me out but we needed to take it slow. I feel like he just wants to make himself available to other girls so he can date more than one girl at a time and is afraid of committment. Am I right?

2007-02-28 06:43:48 · 7 answers · asked by kittytie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by St. Dave 5 in Singles & Dating

decorations for wedding reception centerpieces.

2007-02-28 06:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Does this mean he's not interested and I should move on?

2007-02-28 06:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you forgive a person who in the past hurt you very deeply, who you tried to previously forgive and make amends, but at that time the person still was being hurtful to you, and now years later they want to apologize? I had someone very close that did some off things to me back in the day that I still feel very hurt over and now they are making all these attempts to locate me to apologize. I found out by friends and family this person is desperately trying to contact me, now they all now the situation and are only relaying messages from the person to me but not telling how to contact me. I person don't ever want anything to do with them ever again, but some say I should atleast give the person the chance to apologize since it bothers me still. I don't want to go there again because I tried that before and this person so called apology was flip around make is seem like I was the one who was wrong when believe I never did anything to this person. What would you do in this situation?

2007-02-28 06:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for almost 3 months now (and I know its soon), but we have been spending almost all our time together. We get along really well. We spend the night at each others house 2-3 days out of the week. We cook dinner for each other. We have such an intense connection between us, that sometimes for me, its breath taking. But ever time I see him, I get butterflies...STILL...and its been almost 3 months. I want to only date him. So should I tell him how I feel about him.......take a chance?

2007-02-28 06:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok hey so i was txting this guy as some of you may know, and he wrote back a week later r so cos he left his fone at his friends house. Anyway so he txt me a week later and we were talking but were both doing stressful exams and havent txted since I really like him he is super hott , so what do you think i should do , should i txt him this weekend r wait 2 see him if he wants me ??Xx

2007-02-28 06:41:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes the sweetest thing in the world, hed never cheat on me and hes perfect, we have been together for a year and lately i just find myself not interested in him anymore, iv become attracted to someone else, and whilst i would never cheat on him, i feel like im betraying him beacuse i like soemone else, thing is hes so sweet and i feel like a rite *****! x what do i do?

2007-02-28 06:41:24 · 10 answers · asked by shy1 2 in Singles & Dating

GUYS:
What can a girl do to make you like her as more than a friend, if she's already your friend.
Or whats that one thing she does that makes you suddenly realize that you liked her all along.
--I'm just asking this because I have a good guy friend, he acts like he likes me but idk, he might not, I like him and i need some ideas that might make him like me or realize he liked me all along. HELP! thanx <33 =]

2007-02-28 06:41:03 · 4 answers · asked by Emmie 3 in Singles & Dating

Are they all on their fourth marriages? What is this?

2007-02-28 06:40:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 06:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is your opinion on online dating?? Have you used it before? Has it been successful for you?? I've been using online dating on/off for a few years now. I used to be so excited about it now I dread it. I "forget" to return emails and phone calls. None of the guys, despite being really attractive impress me. I've had some success with other outlets. I live in the Washington D.C area so i'm always meeting people. So am I only one who isnt so thrilled about possibly meeting someone online?

btw: if you have something mean to say about me, keep it to yourself!

2007-02-28 06:39:56 · 6 answers · asked by cuteami78 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy that sings for the music i write. and all i want to do is let her go, assuming she is not already seeing him, and why do i care we broke up right? why am i so pissed off right now??? i only have 3 friends, i guess now i'm down to 2. Why can't i control the feeling inside of me this rage, this.......I'm so angry i just want to throw someting, i want to scream but i'm at work, i'm furious..what the hell am i supposed to do and why can't this feeling just subside?¿

2007-02-28 06:39:36 · 1 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

Alright well i've been in a relationship with my gurlfriend about a year or so and we haven't had sex yet but we talked about it not too long ago and i'm scared since my "penis" is small and not really "fat" so i was wondering if you loved your boyfriend to death and what not would you leave him because the fact of the "penis" and also can you get your pleasaur also with a small penis? i'm jus scared she will laugh at me or sumthen but im ready to have sex with her and what not, but let me know what yall ladies think and etc. thanks for all the help and answers !

2007-02-28 06:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How young is too young to be in love? I guess if I have to ask I am probably not in love...

2007-02-28 06:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so scared of moving in w/my boyfriend because I would have to change my daughter from her school. He lives in a suburb where everyone is mainly white. My daughter and I are latino and I am worried that she won't fit it and won't have any friends. She is doing so well in her current school and don't want to change that.

2007-02-28 06:38:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 06:37:47 · 6 answers · asked by c-squre 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Women only - does womans intuition tell you if a guy likes you even though... he doesnt hang out with you but when you see him around and you both say hi to each other can you sense that he likes you

2007-02-28 06:37:41 · 22 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:37:28 · 7 answers · asked by wildremedies 2 in Singles & Dating

It is so bad the girls are coming up to him because he eyeball f***s them for so long. She is with him at these times. Please give advice, my friend is desperate and I am not convincing her to leave him. Maybe you guys can!

2007-02-28 06:37:18 · 3 answers · asked by journeysmom 3 in Singles & Dating