We have been friends for years but only good friends for months. Lately, we have become very close friends. I am a guy, and she is a girl. I told her four times over the last year that I like her a whole lot but only want a friendship. She said she values our friendship and wanted the same. She hoped our friendship would grow even after what I said, so it did continually until now we are closest friends! I tried to tell her that I cannot be a closer friend without my feelings growing, but she continues to get closer. WHAT THE HECK DOES SHE WANT??? I am going nuts, and I love her now!!!
2007-02-28 06:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would tell her how you feel. Maybe she feels the same but like you feels that the other does not want that. All you can do is talk about it and go from there. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-28 07:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Nikkee D ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. If she pulls away you know she is just the wrong person and not worth breaking your heart over but if she says the same. Oh, boy you just might have a girlfriend and a best friend.
2007-03-03 21:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her. I think she might be too if she wants to be closer. Just tell her. If she rejects you, there will be others, but you'll never know unless you talk to her.
2007-02-28 14:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? She wants you, and you love her! What is the problem? Why are you going nuts? just BE WITH HER
2007-02-28 15:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both want tho same you want to be friends but you also want more even knowing once you cross that line you never go back dont want to lose each otherso go for it or back off qiuck
2007-02-28 15:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by jeepin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow.... If you two like/love each other and dont have a bf/gf, then go with it.
She likes/loves you to... believe me...... Just let it happen. There's nothing like letting love take its time...
2007-02-28 14:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her n say u love her,n cant stop loving her,share ur feelings.I think she also love u but she want u say her first.If u hide anymore then might b n future u loose ur best friend.
2007-02-28 14:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control your heart. Just tell her straight that you love her. Who knows, it might turn out great.
2007-02-28 15:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by THEemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely close the gap and kiss her like you mean it!
2007-02-28 15:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that she loves you. If you love her, try to talk to her. If there is a will, there is allways a way...
2007-02-28 15:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋