hes the sweetest thing in the world, hed never cheat on me and hes perfect, we have been together for a year and lately i just find myself not interested in him anymore, iv become attracted to someone else, and whilst i would never cheat on him, i feel like im betraying him beacuse i like soemone else, thing is hes so sweet and i feel like a rite *****! x what do i do?
2007-02-28 06:41:24 · 10 answers · asked by shy1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with him and let him know. Maybe he's doing something wrong that you aren't attracted to him anymore?! If you can't work it out, then move on but you need to tell him!
2007-02-28 06:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you can't break up with your boyfriend, it's that you won't. Big difference there. You can always do something, but if you don't have the will, you won't do something.
Basically, what you need to do is first find out if this other guy even likes you. Try being friends with him before even considering dating him because if you break up with your boyfriend for this new guy and he turns you down, you'll be without someone.
Also, be honest with your boyfriend, talk to him. If you don't talk to him, he won't know what is going on in your mind. He is not a mind reader, he may think everything is all good, when really, it isn't.
2007-02-28 14:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lillian M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im shure he's a nice guy but pitty is no way to hold on in a relationship. Trust me if the only reason why you are with him is because you feel bad for him im sorry to say but it will only last a fiew more months,because im shure he will be able to tell if you dont seem to have the spark you use to have and im shure you dont want to be tied down in a relationship that you dont want. My first relationship went down like that the more days that went by the more we tried to make conversations but found out we had less in common. I wanted to break up with him but I was afraid I would hurt him. A fiew days later I found out this one girl liked him and he knew but he didnt want to hurt me. I told him that maby we should just be friends because I had no intentions of staying with him I was just with him because I felt bad for him [he doesnt know] I just didnt want him to miss a chance for someone else to love him like he diserves. The girl and I are good friends unfortunatly they ended broken up too. Just tell him how you feel the more you string him along the more hurt he will be in the end.
2007-02-28 16:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so unfair to be unfair to yourself just to make someone else happy. You have to follow your heart... your gut feeling... be honest with him and with yourself. If you truly care about him, you'll tell him the truth. Honesty is the best trait in the world. If he cares about you, you can stay friends. Life is about changes: Feelings change, people change, hearts change. It's all part of life.
2007-02-28 14:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while ever you have some one else in your mind you can never give this guy what he deserves.you say he is perfect,yet your willing to throw that away for someone you don't really know,i think your playing with fire.the choice is ultimately yours.hope you make the right one.
2007-02-28 14:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
From your words breaking up will not solve your problem.you should have looked for ways of solving your recent hatred for him.learn to love this guy please,because you may feel bad someday.And you would not want someone to hurt you this bad.Especially when you love him dearly.
2007-02-28 14:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that good of a guy, you owe it to him to break up with him before you do something stupid and cheat.
2007-02-28 14:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is all or nothing, urs is only half so break up it will save him and be better for both of you. good luck in life
2007-02-28 14:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by headtomm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heart breaking ,poor guy,u r gonna kill something beautiful but sorry to say this he deserves better than u ,go ahead and tell him slowly ,its the truth u have to.
2007-02-28 14:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not perfect for you. Get that into your head and break up.
2007-02-28 14:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋