I have been dating this guy for almost 3 months now (and I know its soon), but we have been spending almost all our time together. We get along really well. We spend the night at each others house 2-3 days out of the week. We cook dinner for each other. We have such an intense connection between us, that sometimes for me, its breath taking. But ever time I see him, I get butterflies...STILL...and its been almost 3 months. I want to only date him. So should I tell him how I feel about him.......take a chance?
2007-02-28 06:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, I think that you should take your time and be patient with him and with the relationship. I think that you can show him you love him by your actions and you can tell him that you care, but I would hold off on the L.O.V.E. word until I saw that he felt the same or until he actually told me himself
2007-02-28 08:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the grand scheme of things, 3 months really isn't a long time and it may be too soon to drop the "L" bomb. I'd be real certain he's not going to head for the hills first. Because once the "L" bomb is dropped, you can't take it back. It may change things if he's not feeling the same way.
There is nothing wrong with taking a chance, just hope for the best and prepare for the worst. For your sake, I hope all works out for the best!!
Good luck!
2007-02-28 14:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, let him know how you feel. This will put all things on the table and you both will be on the same page.
2007-02-28 14:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u do only live once live life to the fullest wich means taking chances so tell him
2007-02-28 14:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by roar!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to feel it out and see if he feels close to the same way. If you try to rush it, you'll scare him off.
2007-02-28 14:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋