Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

I do not like my girlfriends best friend and it does annoy her sometimes.. I will bring it up to her several times.. The only reason is because she is very reserved but the friend is outgoing and always flirting.. I do not want my girlfriend to turn out like that. I trust my gf but I feel that if her friend starts to hang out with her more, at a nightclub her friend might influence her to dance with another guy.

What do I do and if I keep bringing it up will it bother her? or Kill our relationship

2007-02-28 06:37:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by caity g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in my new job for a month and I love it - I've made some really good friends and it's all going great. In July, we are all going to the Races - posh meal, a box at the final furlong, free booze, money to bet with, all on the company. The only problem is, on the same day, there's a big reunion get together at my old college, which I'd really love to go to. I can't decide which one to do - please help me decide!!

2007-02-28 06:36:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have only been married a year and a half. I live in Utah. I am not sure what the rules are with how alimony works. Can anyone out there help me?

2007-02-28 06:35:05 · 10 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, I overheard my 12 yr old step son talking to his friend telling her that his mom was a deadbeat. He was referring to his biological mom. There has been alot going on the past couple of years regarding his mom as far as visitation, child support etc.. My husband and I do not say negative things regarding his mom, but I guess these are his feelings and I don't know what to say to help him.. and let me reiterate that regarding the child support she told him that she was refusing to pay we had never mentioned it in front of him or his brother... So ho do I help him? Any advise?

2007-02-28 06:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by luckygirl 2 in Family

So when you absolutely know dumping him was the right thing because he couldnt be faithful AND you absolutely know he was bad for you...why is it so hard to move on? I think it's like I am taking his infidelity as rejection and personal failure--like I did something wrong when I know I didnt. I know I am sounding like one of those pathetic women and I have already been scolded up here once for that---but I am just struggling with not obsessing about why did he do it? Does he regret it? What is he thinking? How do I move on???

2007-02-28 06:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by confused in NC 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend keeps intoregating me.. she thinks that i hide stuff about my past... she just doesn't beleive that i have told her everything.. whenever she used to ask me about anything, she would dwell on it so much and tries to analyze my answers in a way so that she proves that i'm a liar... i'm get so confused that i sometimes don't know how to best answer her questions as i try to find ways that can shut her up... nothing is working! help, i'm suffering here???!!!!

2007-02-28 06:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by JZ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because of something stupid and I know were going to get back together but there is this guy I have a major crush on. I don't know if its because all the stress I'm going through or If I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. What would you do?

2007-02-28 06:33:39 · 29 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

sometimes I'll be with my boyfriend at lunch and his girlfriend will just come up to us and push me out of the way, and she'll go up to him and whispear in his ear...he always pushes her away, and we leave. Well last month I sang in my schools talent show and she started yelling "she's pregnant and it's not her bf's" or "He left me for HER?! What the hell is the thinking". Then I found out that she wasn't the only one shouting, It was my boyfriends friend. She's been spreading all the rumors about me. And how I'm cheating on him with my ex bf. I can not stand my ex bf and I can't be pregnant because I'm a virgin. How do I get them to stop. my boyfriend has stopped talking to them and it's getting worse.

2007-02-28 06:32:41 · 5 answers · asked by **Angel_Eyes** 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 06:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by Engaged 1 in Weddings

okay so i just started smoking and like i dnt want my parents 2 find out cuz they sed if i ever smoked they would kick me outta the house and one time my parents found cigarettes in my purse cuz i was holding dem for a friend and she was crying the entire night and told the entire family i was grounded for 4 months cuz no1 ever saw me smoke she sed if any of my friend told her i smoked or if she ever saw me smoke im out of the house immediatly what do i do im addicted 2 cigarettes (cutting down on how many i have) and im afraid that some1 is gonna say something or shes gonna find out!! help

2007-02-28 06:31:51 · 20 answers · asked by crazychick231 1 in Family

2007-02-28 06:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

of woman than you? Maybe a girl with bigger boobs, a better body or does different stuff in bed?

2007-02-28 06:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All right I have been dating Marian for a motnh now. We are both 15. I only dated her because I was desprete to lose my virginity and we finally had sex in my bedroom last Saturday. Now that I got what I wanted I want to break up with her. How do I do it? Should I tell her the truth?

2007-02-28 06:31:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been envolved with this girl for 2 years and we act like we are together and spend all of our spare time together. Yet she doesnt want to give it a title, she says that she takes it very serious and the person she will officially call her boyfriend will more than like be her husband. She wants to make sure my finances are stable and my walk with Christ is going well. Is this a coverup or does she really want to be with me.

2007-02-28 06:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by gnawledge 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant findout if he loves me or not, i wish we get married but i never say it to him and never tel him i love him, i just tried to show it with my behavior and being kind to him and paying attention.
but its about one year and i'm tired of being like this... :(

2007-02-28 06:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by raha 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for almost a year and we are now talking about divorce, well I left for the sake of the arguements in front of her 9 y.o. son. After a couple of days I returned home to talk about us staying together. She told me that it all rests on the decision of said 9 y.o. He is her son from a previous marriage, and I was told that if he wants me there we would try to work things out, and if he doesn't then we would not. I don't know how to take this because of his age, making decisions that could affect my wife and I's future.

2007-02-28 06:30:12 · 13 answers · asked by shaffdawg26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Especially if the person isnt exactly relationship material...

2007-02-28 06:30:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am paying for my sisters dress (she is my maid of honor). I told my best friend who is my bridesmaid that I would like to be able to pay for her dress too, but that since it was so far away and I hadn't really got into the planning yet I don't know for sure if I will be able to. I told her this about a month ago or so. The wedding isn't until May of 08. Come to find out, she will need to buy her own b/c I am still short the money for a photographer. Is it wrong to ask her if she would feel comfortable paying for her own dress. And like I said this is my best friend so it's not like "rude" means the same thing as it would if it were just an aquaintance...meaning she would be understanding. I just don't know what to do or what to say. I had made it a point to mention that I didn't know if I would have the money to do this, though.

2007-02-28 06:28:28 · 10 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Weddings

I dont have much friend's at school, my best friend droped out of school, and she was the only one I knew, I'm in college, and I'm very shy, I dont have time to join a club, cause of homework and other things out of school, any advice you could give me.

2007-02-28 06:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Friends

My hubby loves me a lot and always kissing and cuddling and keep on feeling me all the time. Breast and butt. But he does not intercourse. he is always tired for that. We have good communicationa nd he says he wants me but is very tired. Even when he makes love its no satisfying for me. How is it possible for a man to touch me like that and than no sex....Everythng else is great in our relationship... But I desire to have a normal healthy sex life.

2007-02-28 06:28:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been living in his mothers basement for three years now, and I want to get out!! But she wants to move down here and put us up stairs, but I always feel we can't do what we want. I want privacy to come and go as we please. If we have friends over I feel we have to keep it down, or if we come home late I feel she's up waiting for us. I left my home (at age 19) to find my own way, and I love my parents, but I wouldn't want to live in their basement. We only moved in for me to go back to school, and now that it is finished I feel that when I find a job we should leave. He seems to think that every thing is fine and don't know why this upsets me, I am thinking of leaving to live by myself. Any advice. Only serious replies please!!! I don't want to live with my mother in law forever, so why should he? I think he feels guilt because she divorced when he was young. But I think she needs to get a life outside of ours, and we need to get on with having our own life.

2007-02-28 06:27:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His name is Darko.I really love him very much.He was my friend.When he hurt that Iove him he start to hate me.I am very sad because he is my first love.He never told me that he hates me but I can feel that.He don't like to spoke with me.I really like he to be my friend again.Sometimes he is looking at me,but I don't know what that mean.I know him about, 8 years.We are in the same class in school.Please help me.

2007-02-28 06:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by Summer14 1 in Singles & Dating

Looking for Biological Mother , I know her birthdate, and full name, please advise of any tools that you can provide in making this fast and easy find for me. Thanks!

2007-02-28 06:27:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was thinking of having a dessert reception instead of a full meal after my wedding. What time should I have it? I was thinking around 8 or 9pm after everyone has had dinner but will that keep the guests' kids up too late (the kids are all invited to the wedding and reception)? I also thought about 3pm after lunch but we have rented the reception site for all day and I don't want people to have their desserts and then get hungry for real food and leave around 6 or so. I hoped the dancing and fun would go on until late into the night. What should I do?

2007-02-28 06:26:59 · 11 answers · asked by Erica 2 in Weddings

When Im in my lunch period class I have nobody to go to lunch with nor do my friends always come and talk to me, what should I do to get people to talk to me in lunch or find someone in class to go with?

2007-02-28 06:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Friends

any advice for my sister, her 2 sons (aged 11 and 12) are always fighting, sometimes really bad fight, they just broke the door by one locking the other one out and him kicking it in! my sister tryed talking all their stuff off them, there tv,psp,computer. they don't do it when there dad is home.my sister at breaking point with them, she also live in germany so it not like i can just drive over and help her! any advise pls, thanks

2007-02-28 06:25:11 · 11 answers · asked by ral 4 in Family

I know all u women out there cant be supermodles

2007-02-28 06:25:08 · 25 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother still considers my ex-husband (whereabouts unknown and I like it that way) to be her son-in-law. I say he is not because the in-law part is because we were legally married. She has bet me a steak dinner that she is right and I really want to collect. I will need proof of your answer. She isn't just going to take your word, heck she won't take my word, why would she take yours.

2007-02-28 06:24:31 · 19 answers · asked by lisal64 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a few female friends who are really hot. All I can think about when we talk is how great it would be to put it in.

2007-02-28 06:24:06 · 25 answers · asked by creepy_mitch 2 in Singles & Dating