My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because of something stupid and I know were going to get back together but there is this guy I have a major crush on. I don't know if its because all the stress I'm going through or If I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. What would you do?
2007-02-28 06:33:39 · 29 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
regardless of the issue being stupid or not why you broke up, you broke up. and it might seem very silly right now, but we all make choices in life for a reason and that is what you should always remember. if you have a crush on someone else and you feel like that person might have one for you too, then go for it. but remember this, relationships shortly form right after a breakup are usually rebound relationships and must dont last. so i think it would be better for you to be alone for a while,and make sure that the decisions you make are thoughtout and not rushed into.
2007-02-28 06:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say broaden your horizon and go for the other guy that you like. If you broke up with dude there had to have been a problem there so forget him and if you don't know the difference of falling out of love and being under stress then you need to go on and find someone that will love you as much as you do him.
2007-02-28 14:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take the opportunity of being broke up to explore the crush. That should help you decide if you're falling out of love or not. My guess would be if you have a MAJOR crush, you're probably ready to move on. Life is too short to fight over petty things, especially something petty that could actually break you up.
2007-02-28 14:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the reason why u guys broke up in the first place....then ask yourself if u really still like him....if u don't go for the other guy buy first get to know each other for a little more while probably things will work out....well good luck!!
2007-02-28 14:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by J[o]a[N]n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really weird but I am kinda in similar situation, the person I'm with (or was with, rather) broke up with me for a suspiciously dumb reason. I was devasted and I tried to move on at first but I found that I couldn't. But then I met someone that really caught my eye and then the person I was with came back around and we've been kinda leaning towards getting back together. I don't know what I'm going to do. My advice? Just lay back and go with flow. What's meant to happen is going to happen regardless if you fight it or not :)
2007-02-28 14:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Clay B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all up to your comfort zone. If you really feel like giving another bloke a shot then don't hold back but if you feel like this is just to get some frustration out make sure that the new kid knows it because you could wind up in a tangled web when the long term boy is ready to get back. I cant really say what I would do because I'm not in your shoes. Id just suggest weighing it out and try to make sure that no one gets hurt including yourself.
2007-02-28 14:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You basically answered your own question in the second line...If your ex broke up with you over something stupid, why would you consider getting back with him ?? One reason, it's possibly, he'll get rid of you for an even dumber reason later on. Two, do you really think you deserve to be with someone who's willing to dump you over something stupid ?? I wouldn't even have to think about that one. Good luck !!!
2007-02-28 14:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie it looks like this boyfriend (EX) of yours cant handle pressure and ran off if it was something stupid.... Key point for all relationships is communication... believe it or not... and if there is any problem that comes up you talk about it not run off so i say stop the relationship and move on... well you also can talk to this guy and not necessarily date hI'm but friends to make sure you really do like him and its not just some rebound... do get what im saying... well hope full you understands and good luck!!! :)
2007-02-28 14:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by alizah2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do anything for about a month or so, and sort out my own feelings first. Don't go back with the b/f and don't start up with a new one, until you are sure what you are feeling. Otherwise it just gets all screwed up.
2007-02-28 14:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feelings for someone else while you are involved then that probably means you no longer feel the same about him. you may think you are still in love with him but you aren't. you may still love him but that spark is no longer there. i think it's time you move on. give this new guy a chance, you may be missing out on something really great
2007-02-28 14:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋