ok me and my ex are back togther, takin things slow he wonts mt to not get funny bout him going out, and doesnt wanna see me 247 any more now that i am use to seeing him 247 lol.
he goe out a lot and wen he see me we jus watch tv i said i wana go out with him do thinghs togther not jus him with his mates and i see him with a hangover so he just wonts tlc i get a lil bored. i will chat 2 him 2nite .
2007-02-28 06:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah he really appreciates you
2007-02-28 06:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a bit selfish. He gets to go out and have fun with his mates but not when he is with you!?!? How fair is that? What happened to taking you out and showing you off and being proud to take you out and have some fun along with you!?! If all he does when he is with you is watching TV, then maybe you need to place a small portable TV around your neck if you wish to go out. You seriously need to lay it out on the table as to how a relationship should work if you two are back together. You deserve more than just being a side dish while he gets to be the main entree for everyone else to enjoy. Relationships requires BOTH parties making the effort to please the other. If you are bored and neglected with romance, share it with him. If you don't, there going to be many miserable nights home alone while he goes out drinking with his mates.
Good luck and I hope he changes slightly to at least make this a relationship. =)
2007-02-28 14:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes calling all the shots and got you wrapped around his little finger (sorry if that sounds harsh). He's telling you whats happening and your doing it. whatever happend to 2 being a partnership.
With regards appreciating you, it doesnt sound like it. It seems from what you say that you are there for him when he can be bothered or wants to chill out with the advantage of having his nights out etc wsithout you. I would keep an eye on this one!
2007-02-28 14:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tabbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving him some space and seeing him less, he might be just not doing anything because he wants his space subconciously. Maybe see him 3-4 days a week, then the time you guys spend together will be more valuable. He can get his hang-on with his buddies and balance out his time with you.
2007-02-28 14:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,sounds like he just wants his cake....how would he feel if you went out and only wanted to see him with a hangover? You need to tell him how you are feeling...give him a chance to explain,then if you dont hear what you need to hear then move on...he probably thinks you are willing to put up with this stuff because you are back together...make sure you tell him what you want and need.
2007-02-28 14:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Shanni1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if it was me...i'd dump him....it seems like he does watever he likes without asking your opinion...there must be a reason why he's an ex...when he's in a hangover he's not his real self so you never get the chance to know him again...dump him for your heart's sake!
2007-02-28 14:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and dump the looser. In the mean time do somethings to improve yourself, like learn to spell.
2007-02-28 14:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to grow up a little before you consider a serious relationship.
2007-02-28 14:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe
2007-02-28 14:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's all he wants and he says he doesn't wanna go out with you, then dump him.....
2007-02-28 14:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋