I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. im 24 and he's 20.. I love him to death and really want to be with him. he breaks up with me almost every week so we dont talk too often or see each other. i begin to feel depressed so i call him all the time and ask him to be with me. when i do talk to him he hardly ever wants to talk and says that i always p*** him off. he calls me names all the time icluding the B and H.. i really want to be with him and i just dont know what to do..=( every t ime he wants to see me or talk to me i always agree. i do every thing for him.. my friends say to leave him, buts its not easy because we have shared alot. i feel that at this time i need him the most because im finally moving out of my parents house and would love for him to see me doing good on my own.
2007-02-28 06:14:57 · 8 answers · asked by lynda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, it sounds like my old relationship. he was such an as*s to me. I took it for so long cuz guys like that have a way of making you feel like you owe them something so you end up sticking around and taking the crap. Then they feel better about themselves because they made you feel like crap. anyways! I ended up getting sick of it and one day i had sex with him then he just rolled over and i was like "ok, that's it. I'm gonna make up your mind for you, We're done, Im gone. It's over now!" And i walked out the door and never looked back. Yes he had to harass me to make my life more miserable but eventually we went our separate ways and i forgot so much about him, thank god. And now im married and have 2 kids and swear to never let a guy or anyone treat me like that again.
It was very hard and i ended up getting into a really bad car accident the day after because i was so upset and crying while driving and i just drove into traffic. But guys like that make you feel good then they slowly tear you down so you dont notice it then they lift you up so that way you become so dependent on them. You are moving on and getting your own place now. I know you can do it alone. i did it alot of times . you have friends that will be there for you. Just leave the jerk and dont be a victim anymore.
2007-02-28 06:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Holly G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have very low self esteem. this guy does not deserve you if he's calling you names. my bf and i have been together 2 years and i made it very clear that i will not put up with that, we do not cuss or call eachother names ever, and that's how it should be. you need to start feeling good about yourself and realize you deserve better. he's immature, but i guess he's only 20, so you can't expect much. i hope you break up with him for good and find someone who is worth your time. only you can decide to be happy, and no one else can make that decision for you, so stop letting him.
2007-02-28 14:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your being too emotionally dependent on him and that's why he doesn't repect you that doesn't give him the excuse to act the way he does but you have to stop or leave him becuz it's not going to get any better.
2007-02-28 14:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg honey leave this boy alone. He is nothing but an immature little boy. He is def. not ready for a relationship I know it hurts and its hard but you have to move on or your going to make you life so hard.
2007-02-28 14:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can tell he is sick of you, because he keeps telling you....Listen to him. Get out of this relationship.....You can find someone who is willing to do the things you are willing to do to keep a good relationship solid. You are worth more honey. Find someone who knows it.
2007-02-28 14:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by qn.harpy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need your space from this guy. He is abusive. Get out of the relationship.
2007-02-28 14:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by CL R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just needs his space
2007-02-28 14:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is sick of u..... sorry~!
2007-02-28 14:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by ninjagal3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋